I’ve noticed that quite a few providers — and even some well-known pornstars — have boyfriends or husbands, and honestly, that’s perfectly fine. Everyone deserves love and companionship, no matter their line of work. What I find interesting, though, is just how common it actually is. Do many...

It’s simple: keep the engine running or don’t be surprised when it sputters. I’m not talking about going to the gym or doing cardio — those help, but they’re not the point. The point is this: if you want reliable real-life performance, you need regular real-life maintenance. For me that means...

"All-inclusive" girls are EVERYWHERE — especially Latinas and Asians. In Europe, there are A WHOLE LOT of them. You’re looking at $200–300/hour on average, and yes, that includes basically EVERYTHING. Anal? Small upcharge. That’s it. Now, let’s be real: these girls aren’t aiming for pornstar...

While there are almost never bad surprises when seeing pornstars, it can be the complete opposite with regular providers. I’ve been unlucky 4–5 times this year—the latest being this morning—and I walk away every single time. I turn around right at the door. That’s something I only learned later...

I can definitely say that I’ve fallen for a provider before—and pretty badly at that. Back in 2019–2021, a big part of my life revolved around one particular girl. Honestly, it was way too much looking back. I obsessed over her to the point where it became unhealthy. She was my former sugarbabe...

Hear me out. I’ve been with numerous providers who didn’t speak English at all. Maybe just one or two standard phrases—definitely not enough to sustain a full conversation. And honestly, that has its own charm too. The biggest caveat is that you’re forced to use a translation app, which isn’t...

Imagine this: instead of endlessly scrolling through endless ads, you simply make a post — “Hey ladies, I’m X, here’s a bit about me, and here’s exactly what I’m looking for.” You could specify everything: the service you’re after, how many hours, what you’re willing to spend, and even details...

My birthday is coming up in December, and I’m definitely looking to go abroad and really get my money’s worth! Normally, that would mean going to the US to see pornstars, but not this time around. So I’m considering either Asia or South America. Right now, I’m looking at Thailand or Argentina...

Just got home from a 1.5-hour session — oh man, it was needed. Seriously, needed. So here’s the deal: my former SB’s birthday is coming up this month, and the date’s creeping closer. On one hand, I’m having second thoughts. On the other hand — and probably the stronger one — I’ve already kind...

LeøThis post is going to have a little bit of everything, so strap in. First of all, I want to start with how it feels to be attracted to a provider, where it usually leads, and how much of a bummer it often turns out to be (in the long run). Who hasn’t tried being really attracted to a...

I’ve never written a full post about my first-ever session, so buckle up—especially for all the newer gentlemen on EA. Spoiler: it was not anywhere near as successful as I imagined. Let’s rewind to 2015, when I finally turned 18. Curious, I Googled “Escort Denmark” and stumbled upon one of the...

Who doesn’t love talking about money? This post is exactly that — but with a reality check: only a fraction of providers make the life-changing money that many (including myself) assumes exists. Some is the key word. With millions of providers worldwide, earnings aren’t equal — they depend on...

I just wrote about what gifts are “generally” expected and at what stage — from the first meet to ATF to something deeper. But screw the polite guide for a second. I want to hear about the gifts that actually changed the game — the ones that made her light up, flood you with attention, or blur...

I’ve had—or currently have—all three types: Regulars, ATFs, and SBs. Technically, you don’t “have” a regular, but when you meet a girl—whether she’s a regular or high-end—relationships can grow, which is why I chose that term. Let’s start with Regulars. If you want things to progress...

This post flips the script a little — instead of sharing what to do before a session, I’m going to tell you the things you should absolutely avoid at all costs. These are all based on personal experience, so you can consider them fully tested (and painfully verified) by me. 1) Jerking Off No...

1) Copenhagen, Denmark Yes, this might be a little biased since I’m from Copenhagen—but it’s truly a heck of a place to be as a hobbyist! You’ll find girls from Eastern Europe, South America, and occasionally even North America. Best of all, the average rate is around $200/hour—and that’s with...

In this hobby, it’s all about grabbing every opportunity! Whether it’s with an SB or just an ATF, every minute counts. Bring your A-game for the duration of the meeting—whether it’s a few hours or a few days. Half-hearted effort gets you nowhere. I’ll give you a personal example. When I first...

Having seen (God knows how many) providers over the years, I’ve noticed one big difference — the one field where pornstars truly stand out. And that is: they genuinely love what they do. It’s not a small thing either, it’s HUGE. You can feel it the moment you meet them. Back in mid-2023 I met...

I recently celebrated my 11-year anniversary in this hobby, and wow, what a ride. There have been incredible highs, but also a few lows. In this post, I’m highlighting five lessons I’ve learned the hard way, so other gentlemen can avoid making the same mistakes. 1. “Been in a few professional...

So far this year, I’ve been with 42 girls. My goal is to reach 60 providers before 2026. The problem is, I’ve hit a bit of a “wall” when it comes to finding new ones. It’s partly due to some bad experiences with no-shows/fake profiles (must’ve been) and partly my own pickiness. I’d also love to...