I was out pretty much all day, ending the evening with a nice dinner at a restaurant. Roast goose – voilà, does it get any better? There, I saw a woman who looked oddly familiar, but I wasn’t quite sure. Out of normal courtesy, I didn’t want to stare. On my way to the bathroom, I noticed again...

A long session is something special, something truly unique. It hits different - especially when it’s with someone you already know, an ATF. These days, I only do minimum of 2 hours. That’s the key to a proper session - enough time to relax, recharge the batteries, and go again. But what about...

I really love mature providers. Most of the women I’ve visited over the years have been at least 3–4 years older than me and there’s a very good reason for that. It’s something that’s only become clearer the older I get. I’ll be 29 come December, and one thing I’ve learned is this: experience...

By "providers," I am specifically referring to PS providers in this context. What do they typically do when they are not traveling or touring the country? Surely, they do not simply sit around waiting to be booked. My assumption is that, at the absolute top tier, porn stars primarily spend...

I’ve always found the whole question of when to bring gifts a bit confusing. If it’s a provider you genuinely like, you want to bring a gift to stand out - but not something over the top. At the same time, you also don’t want to show up empty-handed. As I’ve mentioned in another post, it’s...

There’s just something special about having an ATF - that one provider you keep going back to, again and again. The connection deepens each time. She gets to know you and vice versa. After a while, it’s not just about the fun behind closed doors - in many cases. Before you know it, you might...

I’ve already written before about major red flags to look out for when choosing who to see, and another post about what to pay attention to when picking your next ATF - the one that could turn into something more. Now, here’s a little real-world example that really drives the point home. A...

By “minimum time,” I mean: what’s the shortest amount of time you go for, and why? I used to book an hour exclusively—right up until the first time I tried 120 minutes. I even got a little discount since it was late in the evening and I was the provider’s last client. Didn’t really matter to me...

This post is a spin-off from some thoughts I had after reading an article online about Lily Phillips — whom I think we’re all familiar with — and her latest stunt. Her newest move is to be available for truck drivers. That got me thinking about Bonnie Blue as well, and all of her recent stunts...

One conversation completely changed how I look at seeing providers locally. Just yesterday, I met up with another hobbyist/dear friend and we got into the financial side of this lifestyle. We would both love to go to places like Thailand or Argentina where providers are a heck of a lot cheaper...

Normally, I don’t exactly think with the big head when it comes to doing BBFS — especially with regulars. And to be clear, that’s not a knock on them at all. My best sessions have been with regulars; they’re fantastic providers. That said, things have been shifting lately. Since around...

I had my 11-year “anniversary” in this hobby earlier this year — and let’s be real: the deeper you go, the more amazing highs and painful lessons you collect. Some things I wish I’d done differently. Some I wish I’d never done at all. Without much sugarcoating — here are my biggest regrets...

Seeing a provider — PS or regular — is a celebration. It’s self-indulgence at its best and if you’re going to do it, why not turn it into an experience worth remembering? I’ve always leaned toward Airbnbs over hotels. They’re usually cheaper for these occasions, but that’s not the main reason —...

This is one of those taboo questions that a lot of us secretly wonders about I would assume — because let’s be honest, who hasn’t almost or accidentally developed feelings for a provider at some point? I know I have, and it didn’t end well. There’s something about the intimacy, the connection...

Who hasn’t come across an ad (or several) of a girl who looks absolutely stunning — but with zero reviews to be found? I’ve been there plenty of times. Sometimes the urge is just too strong, and I decide to take my chances. Honestly, more often than not, I’ve been pleasantly surprised. That said...

Who hasn’t been in the situation where you simply don’t know what to write to a provider? - I know I’ve certainly been there myself. It’s a bit different what you write in an email vs a text or WhatsApp message — but the overall message remains the same. I’ve had 11 years of experience, and it...

Who hasn’t come across a girl who offers BBFS? And no, I’m not talking about PS providers who insist on mutual testing before anything happens. I’m referring to the regular, everyday providers who casually offer BBFS without ever showing a recent test. Many of them will ask for an extra $80–150...

I’m sure most of us have been there. The day’s looking great, you’re in the mood, and you open up Tryst, Eros etc. ready for some action. You tell yourself that "it’ll only take five or ten minutes to find a girl" — but suddenly, 15 minutes turns into 30… 30 into 50… and before you know it...

I’ve noticed that quite a few providers — and even some well-known pornstars — have boyfriends or husbands, and honestly, that’s perfectly fine. Everyone deserves love and companionship, no matter their line of work. What I find interesting, though, is just how common it actually is. Do many...

It’s simple: keep the engine running or don’t be surprised when it sputters. I’m not talking about going to the gym or doing cardio — those help, but they’re not the point. The point is this: if you want reliable real-life performance, you need regular real-life maintenance. For me that means...