For me my best was 3 rounds in 2 hours, with Mandy Muse, but I'm curious to hear about y'all's, and maybe pick up some tips.

The old saying “money talks — bullshit takes the bus” is still very, very true. Not just in the outside world, but especially in this hobby. I saw it firsthand with my former SB. She was loving, attentive, and played the “perfect girlfriend” role flawlessly—as long as the money and gifts were...

Some providers do accept credit cards, which honestly baffles me—especially considering how strict virtually all major banks are when it comes to anything even remotely sex-related. That said, I do understand it from the banks’ perspective. Over the years, I’ve paid with a card a handful of...

I still appreciate providers who can hold a good conversation. That hasn’t disappeared. But somewhere along the way, I shifted, hard. Lately, I’ve found myself drawn to sessions where everything unnecessary is stripped away. No polite warm-ups, no forced curiosity, no pretending we’re there for...

I completed just one of my bucket-list goals last year, and that was being with 60 providers. Knowing that and having learned from my mistake of setting such high bucket-list goals - I’ll stick to just one bucket-list item for now. 34/80 Providers That will be my only goal in this hobby for...

Most providers think this way about their clients - and I know this from countless conversations with providers, combined with what I’ve observed myself as a client over the years. Providers generally start by thinking well of every client. That changes only once a client shows his true...

I’m curious - what’s everyone’s plan before the big night? Before we officially cross into 2026 at midnight. Have you planned one final session before we ring in 2026? I know I have, well two of them. One "short" 1.5-hour session tomorrow, followed by an early-morning session on Wednesday, two...

was thinking about this all morning, so I had to put it into writing. There are actually a few very real ways to get a provider on your team or onboard, if you will - and I say that from personal experience. I remember how I’ve done it myself over the years. Everything from offering her to go...

When you’ve been in this hobby long enough, you learn pretty quickly that talking about it outside of EA or your inner circle can be a mistake, well not a mistake per se but well get to that. Things get messy fast. You’ll hear opinions, mostly from people with zero firsthand experience - often...

I’ve wondered what actually happens between back-to-back bookings from the provider’s side - for example when Client A has a 03:00–04:00 booking and Client B is booked straight in at 04:00. When the schedule is that tight and one client leaves just as the next arrives, how is the reset handled...

I love a lot of things about the sex/prostitution industry - otherwise I wouldn’t still be active in it after 11+ years. But above everything, there’s one thing that stands out as the TRUE beauty of it all: it’s pure business. Two adults, a man and a woman, who don’t owe each other a damn thing...

I’ve had many great and unforgettable moments with providers over the years - the kind of experiences that stay with you long after the session ends. From taking an ATF out for a spontaneous night that turned into one of the most fun evenings I’ve ever had, to that very first full week I spent...

Building a relationship with a provider isn’t something everyone achieves - and that’s exactly why it’s special. It’s not about luck, and it’s not about trying to buy feelings. It’s about chemistry, consistency, and showing that you’re not just another booking. Providers see many men, but not...

This question hit me today after seeing a tweet from Aletta Ocean. She’s already announcing stops in two European cities for February/March 2026. That’s more than 3 months away. I know it’s normal, especially for high-profile providers and pornstars to announce their tours well in advance...

GFE should be the default baseline experience. Not because every client wants a full emotional simulation of a relationship - but because the majority of gentlemen I’ve met, spoken with, or heard discussed by local providers, look for something more than a clinical session. They want...

These days it’s hard to choose just one provider when there are thousands available. The worst part is that instead of just picking one and sticking with it, I end up doom-scrolling. I can sit there for an hour and a half clicking through ads, checking reviews, comparing photos, and then doing...

Add Instagram to the list of apps who don’t love us. It’s becoming more apparent and annoying that we are slowly losing ways to find booking dates for providers, and providers are increasingly losing ways to post booking dates for their tours. Instagram was never really my go-to for finding tour...

We’re not talking about “personality” or “great sense of humor” here. I mean physically, when you see her for the first time - whether it's online photos or when she opens the door - what instantly grabs your attention? For me, it’s teeth. I don’t need Hollywood veneers or blinding white...

This is an age-old question, but I’ve tried to dig a little deeper to come up with an answer. It’s more complicated than it seems, so let’s start from scratch. The reason providers join agencies is to widen their appeal to potential clients. They can easily drown in a sea of thousands of...

I woke up in the mood today - well, I actually made the appointment last night, so yes, it was a very difficult night to get through when you’re all excited. A little side tip: use melatonin mouth spray or pills to fall asleep. Either way, I had booked 1.5 hours with CIM/facefuck and video...