I’ve had personal relationships with quite a few escorts—both higher-profile girls and more in the regular ballpark—and I’ve always been fascinated by questions many of us probably wonder about. Things like: What do these girls really think about their clients? And what are they like behind...

The saying goes: what should we talk about with providers in between rounds? Two months ago, I realized that simply talking about the weather had started to bore me to death. In fact, I hate small talk. Sure, getting a massage in between rounds is great and all, but if I’m booking a girl who...

This is something I’ve thought about: Would I rather be a provider’s very first or last client of the day? There are upsides and downsides to both. Being the first client of the day has its advantages—you’re first, meaning she’s fresh, clean, and not yet exhausted from seeing multiple clients...

Thanks to @connman for bringing this excellent topic up. What does the girls do when they retire? I've spoken to fellow local hobbyists here in Copenhagen, and the financial outcomes for providers vary widely. Some end up flat broke with nothing to show for their work, while others make smart...

What I mean by that is exactly what I wrote—these lovely ladies get showered with gifts, and it doesn't stop there. Some clients even go as far as proposing to them or making offers to "buy them out" of sex work. I've known quite a few providers in my life, and it would blow people’s minds to...

I've cherished all the women I've encountered during my 10 years in this hobby—at least those I got along with. There's something special about building a relationship with a provider who remembers you with each visit. These girls are truly unique, and I've had some of the most memorable...

Always observe everything with a critical eye. As clients, we must be prepared to say “no” if the service provided does not match what is being offered or advertised. This vigilance protects our interests and ensures that we receive the quality we expect & deserve. Recognizing and Acting on...

I thought it would be really fun to have a list of who we’ve each recorded videos with. I’m a huge fan of taping my encounters—I love watching my own porn because it’s like reliving the whole experience. I’ve felt it, I know how it felt, and that makes it even more enjoyable. So much fun...

I got inspired to write this after reading the comments under this thread. There’s no denying that booking pornstars is an incredible experience. These are women you’ve watched in countless videos, fantasized about, and now have the opportunity to meet in real life. It’s surreal—almost like...

Thanks to @Swytypy for making me think about this—it’s actually a pretty funny and intriguing thought. How much would it really cost to completely buy out a provider, not just for a one-time session, a weekend, or even a few months, but for a truly extended period—say, 365 days and even more...

I'm writing this from my perspective here in Copenhagen, though much of it applies to Europe as a whole. Some of it might even be relevant in the US—unless, of course, you're seeing pornstars. Over the years, I’ve had experiences with escorts across different price ranges, and what I’ve learned...

The biggest fear I have about visiting Las Vegas and meeting providers the old-fashioned way is the unpredictability of it all. With Las Vegas being the mecca for people like us, it’s hard not to feel drawn to Sin City. I know I’ll seriously regret it if I don’t visit at least once in my life...

This is an age-old question that I’ve asked myself many times, and I’m sure many of you have as well. Both options come with potential risks, but they can also be better than inviting a provider to your home—especially if it’s a new girl you’ve never booked before. The downside of staying at...

There’s a fierce competition between the girls in the industry—most of them, at least. Even though they might appear to be friends, or at the very least pretend to be friends with each other., beneath the surface, many despise each other. Why? Because they’re all fighting for the same thing...

¨ I'm going to share why I believe this hobby is the absolute best hobby in the world. For any gentlemen new to this, congratulations—you’ve chosen wisely! Let me explain, and I’m confident that seasoned hobbyists will agree. It's definitely easier to see providers than to have a girlfriend...

2024 has been a fantastic year for me personally, but I want to take this opportunity to reflect on aspects of seeing sex workers. After going through my messages (yes, I’ve saved conversations with providers dating back to March of this year), I saw 27 providers in 2024. That averages a little...

Maite Sasdelli is the latest provider to announce that she will be increasing her prices starting in February next year. This seems to be happening a lot lately, but when there’s demand, price increases are to be expected. In many cases, I think it’s fair. X: Maite Sasdelli

The industry constantly shifts with new "it" girls rising to popularity. It’s a cycle: whoever was the favorite just two years ago will inevitably be replaced by fresh faces—whether it’s a newcomer to the scene or someone who quickly gets a ton of great reviews. Here, I’m not talking about...

Normally, people rightfully say that drinking and driving should be avoided. However, in this post, I would strongly advise against drunk texting—especially to girls. Trust me, I’ve learned this the hard way. Who doesn’t enjoy a night out? Having a beer, maybe two… or maybe even fifteen! I’ve...

This post is about regular providers, not pornstars, who may approach things differently. In Europe, there are actually quite a lot of girls who accept major credit cards (usually Visa and Mastercard). A few examples would be: In practice, the girls carry small, pocket-sized credit card...