I've noticed quite a few new gentlemen on here, so I think it's about time we share some tips and advice for those who are new to the whole escort setup.
Let's pass on our knowledge and experiences to help out the newcomers.
I lost my virginity to an escort, and based on my experience, that´s the way to do it. It happened in 2015 with a Polish MILF, probably around 32-35 years old. I was 18. As a first-timer, I made some mistakes that you should avoid.
What Not to Do:
- Avoid Drinking (Too) Much: Having 2 or 3 beers as a first-timer is not a good idea. The alcohol won’t calm your anxiety as you might think. In fact, if you drink 3 or more, the combination of alcohol and the inevitable anxiety might make it difficult for you to get or stay hard—unless you’ve taken something like Cialis or a blue pill beforehand, but more on that later.
- Don’t Over-Plan the Session: Trying to script the session in your head—like thinking, "If she says this, I’ll say that"—will only make things more difficult. Trust me, when she first opens the door, things won’t go according to any plan you’ve made.
- Expect Anxiety: You will, in almost every case, feel some form of anxiety during your first session. There’s really no way around it, so just accept it as part of the experience.
- Don't watch porn before a session. Porn and just simply unloading before a session is a silent killer.
What to Do:
- Shower at Home: My advice is to show up clean and fresh. Shower at home, put on your best fragrance, and let the girl know you mean business.
- Bring Only the Essentials: Withdraw the cash you need before heading to the provider’s place, and leave unnecessary items at home. Don’t bring your wallet, sunglasses (if it’s summer), or anything else you don’t absolutely need. It might sound silly, but you’ll likely feel shaky during your first session, and you don’t want to fumble around trying to get the money out of your wallet.
- Consider Cialis: Take one Cialis about 3-4 hours before your session. It can help you go from "semi-hard" to fully hard. Normally, I’d recommend Viagra or something similar, but that might be overkill for a first-timer.
- Shave: Providers hates hair down there. I´ve heard multiple providers state that "it´s not the 80s anymore".
- Take Control: Take charge from the girl opens the door. REEK of confidence. Give the girl a deep kiss from the second she opens the door. Take HER hand and lead her to the bed.
- Follow your gut instinct: If you feel something is off, that's because it is off. Whether it´s a regular, high-class or pornstar.
Your first session with a provider might not be great, but trust me, once you get through the first couple of sessions, you are gonna want more and more.
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