Guide for first time hobbyists

[Sexaddict]

I've noticed quite a few new gentlemen on here, so I think it's about time we share some tips and advice for those who are new to the whole escort setup...

I've noticed quite a few new gentlemen on here, so I think it's about time we share some tips and advice for those who are new to the whole escort setup.
Let's pass on our knowledge and experiences to help out the newcomers.

I lost my virginity to an escort, and based on my experience, that´s the way to do it. It happened in 2015 with a Polish MILF, probably around 32-35 years old. I was 18. As a first-timer, I made some mistakes that you should avoid.

What Not to Do:

1. Avoid Drinking (Too) Much: Having 2 or 3 beers as a first-timer is not a good idea. The alcohol won’t calm your anxiety as you might think. In fact, if you drink 3 or more, the combination of alcohol and the inevitable anxiety might make it difficult for you to get or stay hard—unless you’ve taken something like Cialis or a blue pill beforehand, but more on that later.
2. Don’t Over-Plan the Session: Trying to script the session in your head—like thinking, "If she says this, I’ll say that"—will only make things more difficult. Trust me, when she first opens the door, things won’t go according to any plan you’ve made.
3. Expect Anxiety: You will, in almost every case, feel some form of anxiety during your first session. There’s really no way around it, so just accept it as part of the experience.
4. Don't watch porn before a session. Porn and just simply unloading before a session is a silent killer.

What to Do:

1. Shower at Home: My advice is to show up clean and fresh. Shower at home, put on your best fragrance, and let the girl know you mean business.
2. Bring Only the Essentials: Withdraw the cash you need before heading to the provider’s place, and leave unnecessary items at home. Don’t bring your wallet, sunglasses (if it’s summer), or anything else you don’t absolutely need. It might sound silly, but you’ll likely feel shaky during your first session, and you don’t want to fumble around trying to get the money out of your wallet.
3. Consider Viagra/Cialis: Take 50-100 MG Viagra (30 minutes before the session), or 5-10 MG Cialis (3-4 hours before the session).
4. Shave: Providers hates hair down there. I´ve heard multiple providers state that "it´s not the 80s anymore".
5. Take Control: Take charge from the girl opens the door. REEK of confidence. Give the girl a deep kiss from the second she opens the door. Take HER hand and lead her to the bed.
6. Follow your gut instinct: If you feel something is off, that's because it is off. Whether it´s a regular, high-class or pornstar.
7. Trust Yourself: Always trust yourself! Have a huge amount of confidence going into your first session (or second session). The provider is 100% more "nervous" than you.

Your first session with a provider might not be great, but trust me, once you get through the first couple of sessions, you are gonna want more and more.

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[Tipsy_gentleman]

Agree with all of this ^

But 100 percent do not over plan (although we were/are all guilty of it) … even though you’ve probably been going back and forth for months deciding if you’re going to pull the trigger lol

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[Swytypy]

All of this. Plus:

Brush your teeth right before
Groom your pubes
Trim your nails short and smooth
Dress up - business casual or better
Bring a gift
Learn how to eat pussy properly
Eat pineapples for a few days before

And if you’re going for a PS escort, use an agency like @trystagency for the first time, if not every time. There’s no guesswork about services or rates, no worrying if she’ll get back to you, no concerns about how old her pictures might be, no worrying about your deposit, etc.

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[Kiana]

You guys are so professional I love it

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[lucky_at_one_time]

All of this. Plus:

Brush your teeth right before
Groom your pubes
Trim your nails short and smooth
Dress up - business casual or better
Bring a gift
Learn how to eat pussy properly
Eat pineapples for a few days before

And if you’re going for a PS escort, use an agency like @trystagency for the first time, if not every time. There’s no guesswork about services or rates, no worrying if she’ll get back to you, no concerns about how old her pictures might be, no worrying about your deposit, etc.

The "pussy eating" is something most girls complain about like some eat their pussy without that odor from mouth (lack of brushing the teeth), and some try to bite their clit when many say don't do it, I think if they had some resources or some girls teach them how to do it it's better for them and would not face any nervousness or all and for pineapple I am gonna assume it's related to semen. @Swytypy

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[Swytypy]

The "pussy eating" is something most girls complain about like some eat their pussy without that odor from mouth (lack of brushing the teeth), and some try to bite their clit when many say don't do it, I think if they had some resources or some girls teach them how to do it it's better for them and would not face any nervousness or all

I absolutely love eating pussy and love making women feel good. I am gentle at first and work my way up in intensity, taking my cues from how they respond and what they say (if they direct me). I use my tongue, lips and one finger (sometimes 2). Never my teeth.

and for pineapple I am gonna assume it's related to semen. @Swytypy

Yeah, you can google it. Some call it an urban legend but why not give it a try?

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[Sexaddict]

I absolutely love eating pussy and love making women feel good. I am gentle at first and work my way up in intensity, taking my cues from how they respond and what they say (if they direct me). I use my tongue, lips and one finger (sometimes 2). Never my teeth.



Yeah, you can google it. Some call it an urban legend but why not give it a try?

The pineapple is absolutely true! You can also drink pineapple juice to get the same effect

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[Sexaddict]

All of this. Plus:

Brush your teeth right before
Groom your pubes
Trim your nails short and smooth
Dress up - business casual or better
Bring a gift
Learn how to eat pussy properly
Eat pineapples for a few days before

And if you’re going for a PS escort, use an agency like @trystagency for the first time, if not every time. There’s no guesswork about services or rates, no worrying if she’ll get back to you, no concerns about how old her pictures might be, no worrying about your deposit, etc.

The pineapple trick is quite literally an amazing trick! You can also drink pineapple juice

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[Sexaddict]

Added one more thing and it is perhaps the MOST important thing of all. I listed is a number 4 under "What to do".

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[Swytypy]

Added one more thing and it is perhaps the MOST important thing of all. I listed is a number 4 under "What to do".

I had this in my first reply as ”groom your pubes”

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[alphamale]

The advice proffered here for a maiden-voyage newbie is excellent and on point!
It's gunna be just about impossible for a rookie, maiden-voyager ... not to be nervous!
But, so be it.
Ya just gotten deal with it!
Relax as best you can.
(A monger's maiden voyage is a red-letter day; it's a right of passage; look at this as being a moment of personal growth**!)
I do agree 100% ... not to overplan and overthink things!
Do not rehearse anything!
Just go with the flow!
(A provider @ the top her game is gunna know you're a rookie and she's gunna take the lead!)
Let her show you the way!
Do it all in a spirit of good fun!
Providers are excellent readers of people (especially of mongers).
Some points I might add:
You only get one chance to make a good first impression!
1) Behave like a gentleman.
2) Be presentable, well-groomed, surgically-scrubbed with fresh, minty breath.
3) Show up on time.
4) Do not show up empty-handed.
5) Bring a small. token gift (a flower, a box of chocolates).
6) Engage in some get-acquainted small talk before the main event.
7) Be quick with a complement.
8) Let it flow.
9) Embrace and enjoy the moment.
10) Don't press matters; don't be in a rush.
11) Don't worry about your performance.
12) She's there to please you and make you comfortable.
13) Just be yourself.
14) Don't be talkin' shit.
15) Don't ask personal questions.
16) Don't be overstaying and wearing out your welcome.
17) When your time is up ... get the fuck out.




**
"All growth is a leap in the dark ... without benefit of prior experience."



ps
Once you graduate and get your maiden voyage out of the way ... you'll start to get good at it; you'll hone your mongering skills; it'll become second nature; it'll be like riding a bike!

That's when The Lifestyle ... Gets 2 B GOOD KICK-ASS FUN!

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[Povpapi]

Still a noob haven’t had my first experience yet. Been learning a lot here.

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[Povpapi]

Still a noob haven’t had my first experience yet. Been learning a lot here.

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[Sexaddict]

Still a noob haven’t had my first experience yet. Been learning a lot here.

Once you go for your first girl, there's no way back. You'll become addicted!

Welcome to the party.

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[alphamale]

The secret to mongerong success (avoiding LE and hookin-up with a true professional) ... is to use street smarts!
And you can develop mongering street smarts by heeding the advice of seasoned mongers ... who have had boots on the ground and have been in the trenches!
(In the hobby ... there is no substitute for experience!)
By so doing, you will appreciably flatten your learning curve!
And tip the scales of mongering success heavily in your favor!
i.e.
Avoiding LE stings and spending your time and $$$ on true professionals with bona-fide GFE playbooks and skill sets!
(And not, getting suckered by an LE undercover about to entrap you!)
By employing street smarts ... there is, most certainly, a proven modus operandi for finding such providers!
There is, most certainly, an effective modus operandi for separating the wheat from the chaff!
Such an MO will assure you that you will never find yourself schepping to the hood to hookup with a pimped-out hood rat (and get pimp-rolled)!
Or pulling into a shithole dump to hook-up with a low-information provider who advertises on SkiptheGames, Bedpage or Private Delights!
(avoid, Avoid, AVOID! )
There are specifically 4 (four) attributes in identifying providers who are true professionals @ the top of their game (and NOT LE UNDERCOVERS):
1) High-end hotel
2) Website
3) Teaser video
4) Reviews on TER
If a provider checks these 4 boxes ... she deserves serious consideration for your time and $$$!
(If a provider checks these 4 boxes .... she is the real deal and there is virtually NO CHANCE that she is an undercover about to entrap you in an LE sting!)
Firstly: The overwhelmingly vast majority of LE stings ( 99.999%) ... are low-budget, keystone-cops operations conducted out of shithole dumps ... And NOT out of high-end hotels!
(When was the last time you read about an LE sting at a Hilton, a Sheraton or a Marriott?)
Secondly: In LE stings the undercover will rarely (if ever, probably never) have a website!
Thirdly: In LE stings the undercover WILL NEVER HAVE a CFM, teaser video!
Fourthly: In LE stings the undercover WILL NEVER have dozens of stellar reviews from reputable mongers on TER!
(Before I pulled the trigger on My ATF ... she had 37 stellar reviews on TER!)
These factors are what a savvy, street-smart monger takes into consideration before ultimately deciding on a provider ... and avoiding an LE sting!
Best of luck on your maiden voyage!
(An interesting journey awaits!)

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[Sexaddict]

The secret to mongerong success (avoiding LE and hookin-up with a true professional) ... is to use street smarts!
And you can develop mongering street smarts by heeding the advice of seasoned mongers ... who have had boots on the ground and have been in the trenches!
(In the hobby ... there is no substitute for experience!)
By so doing, you will appreciably flatten your learning curve!
And tip the scales of mongering success heavily in your favor!
i.e.
Avoiding LE stings and spending your time and $$$ on true professionals with bona-fide GFE playbooks and skill sets!
(And not, getting suckered by an LE undercover about to entrap you!)
By employing street smarts ... there is, most certainly, a proven modus operandi for finding such providers!
There is, most certainly, an effective modus operandi for separating the wheat from the chaff!
Such an MO will assure you that you will never find yourself schepping to the hood to hookup with a pimped-out hood rat (and get pimp-rolled)!
Or pulling into a shithole dump to hook-up with a low-information provider who advertises on SkiptheGames, Bedpage or Private Delights!
(avoid, Avoid, AVOID! )
There are specifically 4 (four) attributes in identifying providers who are true professionals @ the top of their game (and NOT LE UNDERCOVERS):
1) High-end hotel
2) Website
3) Teaser video
4) Reviews on TER
If a provider checks these 4 boxes ... she deserves serious consideration for your time and $$$!
(If a provider checks these 4 boxes .... she is the real deal and there is virtually NO CHANCE that she is an undercover about to entrap you in an LE sting!)
Firstly: The overwhelmingly vast majority of LE stings ( 99.999%) ... are low-budget, keystone-cops operations conducted out of shithole dumps ... And NOT out of high-end hotels!
(When was the last time you read about an LE sting at a Hilton, a Sheraton or a Marriott?)
Secondly: In LE stings the undercover will rarely (if ever, probably never) have a website!
Thirdly: In LE stings the undercover WILL NEVER HAVE a CFM, teaser video!
Fourthly: In LE stings the undercover WILL NEVER have dozens of stellar reviews from reputable mongers on TER!
(Before I pulled the trigger on My ATF ... she had 37 stellar reviews on TER!)
These factors are what a savvy, street-smart monger takes into consideration before ultimately deciding on a provider ... and avoiding an LE sting!
Best of luck on your maiden voyage!
(An interesting journey awaits!)

The best thing is to get an outcall from your favorite pornstar(s), for sure.

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[alphamale]

The best thing is to get an outcall from your favorite pornstar(s), for sure.

That'll work!
What porn stars have you partaken of?
How much were they?
They gotta be absurdly overpriced!
What was their level of hygiene?
Could you DATY/DATO them with confidence?
Did they possess a GFE playbook and skill set?
Did they come across as being mercenary?
Could they hold an intelligent conversation?
Were they worth it?
Or were they overrated?
Were they just overpriced hype?
How much of a difference in appearance was there from their porn videos and what you see in real life?

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[Sexaddict]

That'll work!
What porn stars have you partaken of?
How much were they?
They gotta be absurdly overpriced!
What was their level of hygiene?
Could you DATY/DATO them with confidence?
Did they possess a GFE playbook and skill set?
Did they come across as being mercenary?
Could they hold an intelligent conversation?
Were they worth it?
Or were they overrated?
Were they just overpriced hype?
How much of a difference in appearance was there from their porn videos and what you see in real life?

A few but noteworthy is Danielle Derek (Alluring Intros), she´s $800/hour. I wrote a review of her. She´s the perfect PSE experience.

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[Swytypy]

That'll work!
What porn stars have you partaken of?
How much were they?
They gotta be absurdly overpriced!
What was their level of hygiene?
Could you DATY/DATO them with confidence?
Did they possess a GFE playbook and skill set?
Did they come across as being mercenary?
Could they hold an intelligent conversation?
Were they worth it?
Or were they overrated?
Were they just overpriced hype?
How much of a difference in appearance was there from their porn videos and what you see in real life?

For what it’s worth, I’ve seen more than 25 porn stars and they’ve all been absolutely fantastic. Are they pricier than non-porn star escorts? In many cases, yes. But all your fantasies can come true and most of them allow and even enjoy everything you are looking for. You should check out the reviews section of this forum.

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[alphamale]

For what it’s worth, I’ve seen more than 25 porn stars and they’ve all been absolutely fantastic. Are they pricier than non-porn star escorts? In many cases, yes. But all your fantasies can come true and most of them allow and even enjoy everything you are looking for. You should check out the reviews section of this forum.

I gotta check it out.
Thanx.

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