When Should We Expect An Answer?

[Sexaddict]

I mostly book with my regulars and they (or their phone ladies in many cases) almost always reply within 30–60 minutes.
That quick response makes booking...

I mostly book with my regulars and they (or their phone ladies in many cases) almost always reply within 30–60 minutes.
That quick response makes booking smooth and keeps the momentum going, especially when I’m in the mood right then.

With new or independent providers though, it can sometimes take several hours or even longer to get a reply. By that point I’ve usually lost the mood or already gone with someone else who answered faster.

I’ll often message 3 girls at the same time and give the booking to whoever responds first.

So I’m curious what you do/if you do the same.

Do you also message multiple girls at once and let the fastest responder get the booking?

This is also a "hack", who wants to sit around and waste time. Got to move.

I know that it´s different for pornstars, considering screening etc, so thats why I´m not talking about them.

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[Orton316]

Whoever responds first, I go see that provider. There have been many times I contact someone who has their ad up at like 10 in the morning and not respond back till 5 in the evening, If I am contacting someone I am ready for some action right then and there so the ones who respond back in a good time I see them and also show some grace in future bookings with them if they don't respond fast enough.

Now ofcourse there have been times multiple women contact me at the same time after I message my potential meets and the ones I don't choose all go mad and call me a time waster but I view wasting time as being a no-show which I haven't done, especially if they turned away other clients for the time they think was going to be used.

Im not expecting ultra fast responses everytime but damn if you are going to post an ad and not with a client, you gotta stay on top of your response time.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

24 hours is my window because they could be busy on a date or anything else. After that, they are no longer a priority but still in consideration.

I do not do multiple requests at or for the same time because if I’m only intending to see one of them, then it’s being a time waster for the others. I only make contact with providers or agents if I have intention to follow through with booking.

I’ve had girls that were extremely late replying but ended up being good sessions.

Your mileage may vary, so tolerate what you can handle.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

I used to use mostly PD and tryst(not TA) and hit up multiple girls at once and first one to respond got my donation etc… but now after my last encounter with @sagehunterxo im gonna keep saving up and do a few excursions with her lol

I always consider PD/Tryst kind of “window shopping” first girl that wanted my business and looked pretty enough I was all for them but now I’m of a different mindset lol but yea 24 hours was my window If they didn’t respond I’d never bother hitting them up again lol

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[ghost0]

I’m fairly patient and understanding. But if she has an assistant, it should ABSOLUTELY be the same day and within a few hours. I don’t think there’s any excuse.

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[shion]

I mostly book with my regulars and they (or their phone ladies in many cases) almost always reply within 30–60 minutes.
That quick response makes booking smooth and keeps the momentum going, especially when I’m in the mood right then.

With new or independent providers though, it can sometimes take several hours or even longer to get a reply. By that point I’ve usually lost the mood or already gone with someone else who answered faster.

I’ll often message 3 girls at the same time and give the booking to whoever responds first.

So I’m curious what you do/if you do the same.

Do you also message multiple girls at once and let the fastest responder get the booking?

This is also a "hack", who wants to sit around and waste time. Got to move.

I know that it´s different for pornstars, considering screening etc, so thats why I´m not talking about them.

A few things:

I try to avoid to booking when I am in the mood because you ignore when thinking with the wrong head.....and end up getting scammed with a non-refundable deposits or " no shows"

I usually try to book a week in advance..or a minimal a day prior....this also depends on what part of the week as well ( early/mid week...not an issue BUT upcoming weekend/holidays might be a problem getting the girl you prefer)


I tend to give a girl a day to respond because quite a few Providers have jobs and other responsibilities like I do and not always attached to their phones

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[shion]

I mostly book with my regulars and they (or their phone ladies in many cases) almost always reply within 30–60 minutes.
That quick response makes booking smooth and keeps the momentum going, especially when I’m in the mood right then.

With new or independent providers though, it can sometimes take several hours or even longer to get a reply. By that point I’ve usually lost the mood or already gone with someone else who answered faster.

I’ll often message 3 girls at the same time and give the booking to whoever responds first.

So I’m curious what you do/if you do the same.

Do you also message multiple girls at once and let the fastest responder get the booking?

This is also a "hack", who wants to sit around and waste time. Got to move.

I know that it´s different for pornstars, considering screening etc, so thats why I´m not talking about them.

"I’ll often message 3 girls at the same time and give the booking to whoever responds first."

Question, if you message 3 at the same time but its first come, first serve...what do you tell the other 2 ?

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[Sexaddict]

"I’ll often message 3 girls at the same time and give the booking to whoever responds first."

Question, if you message 3 at the same time but its first come, first serve...what do you tell the other 2 ?

I´ll let them know that I went with another girl, it´s funny to see how mad some gets and blocks you for being honest - I just find it hilarious.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

I´ll let them know that I went with another girl, it´s funny to see how mad some gets and blocks you for being honest - I just find it hilarious.

Honesty doesn’t make carrot dangling ok. That’s the way they see it.

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[Sexaddict]

Honesty doesn’t make carrot dangling ok

The providers will manage, trust me.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

Yawn…unwatching thread now

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[BenDover69420]

Most I’ve ever waited for a response is 2 days and some change

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[shion]

I´ll let them know that I went with another girl, it´s funny to see how mad some gets and blocks you for being honest - I just find it hilarious.

Surprised by their reaction.

You would think they would just charge it to the game...you snooze, you lose.

If a female doesn't respond to me in 24 hours but the second girl does....I just ignore the first or tell her maybe next time when I am in town

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[shion]

24 hours is my window because they could be busy on a date or anything else. After that, they are no longer a priority but still in consideration.

I do not do multiple requests at or for the same time because if I’m only intending to see one of them, then it’s being a time waster for the others. I only make contact with providers or agents if I have intention to follow through with booking.

I’ve had girls that were extremely late replying but ended up being good sessions.

Your mileage may vary, so tolerate what you can handle.

Exactly.
I treat it like a business: time is money, money is time.
I don't take away from their time as well so I never contact more than one female at the same time.

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[lvg99]

I´ll let them know that I went with another girl, it´s funny to see how mad some gets and blocks you for being honest - I just find it hilarious.

I don't think you need to be like that. Just say "thank you for the response but I already have other plans". You wouldn't want them to reply to your inquiry with "sorry for taking 2 hours to reply, I was busy taking 10 inches". Courtesy and professionalism should be a 2-way street.

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[shion]

Also, initial contact along with the vet process depending on how long it takes for them to do a background check" plays into it as well.

Even if they are a established veteran, Don't give all of your info at once to them ,otherwise, they find it suspicious and may ignore you.

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[juanny_depp]

Agreed. “I made other plans” is a good code phrase for you snooze you lose. Never had a provider get mad over that phrasing.

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[shion]

I´ll let them know that I went with another girl, it´s funny to see how mad some gets and blocks you for being honest - I just find it hilarious.

If they get Mad and block over that.

They did you a favor by NOT booking them.

Their " attitude " during the initial communication foreshadows the actual in- person meet.
Don't tolerate nor accommodate rude behavior.

I'm all for men in the hobby holding themselves accountable along with the providers.

Your time, money and energy is forever priceless....unlike what they charge by the hour between their legs.

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