Before I write this out, I want to say that bareback is extremely enjoyable. I love everything about it, from the feel of being in a pussy to the unreal...
Before I write this out, I want to say that bareback is extremely enjoyable. I love everything about it, from the feel of being in a pussy to the unreal wetness that captivates my soul every time I’m in there. Nothing really comes close to that feeling, since it’s so euphoric that maybe certain drugs might compare, but I’ve never done those drugs, so I wouldn’t really know for sure. The point being, BB sex is something that makes the experience with a provider top tier. However, a lot of us have this notion that if it isn’t BB sex, then the experience is lackluster and the provider isn’t worth being seen. I even have that notion, if I’m being honest, though it comes to light whether we should be judging an experience on that or not.
We already know there are key factors to what we see as a great experience. I don’t believe we’ve talked about it formally, since I can’t find it in the community, and the more I think about it, the more I believe this really depends on the client. Though, if I had to give broad terms on what we all might be looking for, they would be communication, authenticity, boundaries, pacing, and professionalism. All of these can be broken up and broken down however you want, being expressed throughout the entire experience and delivering excitement whether BB or not.
Communication isn’t difficult to understand. If you were to specify more into adult communication, it’s something that can be achieved before, during, and after the experience altogether. Strangely enough, I think this might be the most difficult for certain providers and clients to accomplish, given that you’re talking to a stranger about things you’ve probably never spoken to anyone about.
The authenticity side of the hobby is more on the provider than the client, I believe. Having a provider give you their real self is pretty hard to ask for, but it isn’t something most of us, I think, want. Being authentic in a session is more like being in the moment, whether it’s the real you or not. I think it can be something as simple as eye contact or not checking your phone. Just the two of you or three whatever you want to call it.
Then there are the boundaries, which really take place throughout the entire session and after. This can be anything from the provider knowing her boundaries to her respecting the client’s, to consent being well known and heard without the need for it to be brought back up after the fact, to knowing where each other stands after you leave that hotel room. Simple as that.
The pacing of it all is what we all want. It’s nothing more than the consistent flow of things without the need to feel rushed or hurried. This also ties into letting things come naturally rather than switching positions every third hump and calling it PSE. Just my two cents here.
Finally, being as professional as one can be. I would say this is the umbrella that covers everything I spoke about prior being as reliable, discreet, and structured as possible without killing the vibe.
It goes without saying that mind blowing sex is something we're all going to be looking for. Although, there are members here who have just gone on dates without sex being involved talking about it as if it was their first date back in high school. Though I do acknowledge that sex more specifically BBFS sex is one of the most enjoyable aspects about an entire session, It's probably not something that should be key in whether an experience was a good one or not. It’s hard to separate bareback sex from what many of us define as a great experience and pretending otherwise doesn't make sense. BBFS hits different, and for a lot of us it always will. But when you really step back and look at the sessions that linger in your mind long after they’re over, it’s rarely just about that one thing. It’s about how you were treated, how present the provider was, how natural everything felt, and whether the time together flowed instead of feeling transactional.
BB can elevate an experience but it can’t carry one on its own. It can have you lingering only I don't believe it can do it by itself. That feeling of being desired right there and now in the present isn't something that can be achieved with BBFS alone.
We already know there are key factors to what we see as a great experience. I don’t believe we’ve talked about it formally, since I can’t find it in the community, and the more I think about it, the more I believe this really depends on the client. Though, if I had to give broad terms on what we all might be looking for, they would be communication, authenticity, boundaries, pacing, and professionalism. All of these can be broken up and broken down however you want, being expressed throughout the entire experience and delivering excitement whether BB or not.
Communication isn’t difficult to understand. If you were to specify more into adult communication, it’s something that can be achieved before, during, and after the experience altogether. Strangely enough, I think this might be the most difficult for certain providers and clients to accomplish, given that you’re talking to a stranger about things you’ve probably never spoken to anyone about.
The authenticity side of the hobby is more on the provider than the client, I believe. Having a provider give you their real self is pretty hard to ask for, but it isn’t something most of us, I think, want. Being authentic in a session is more like being in the moment, whether it’s the real you or not. I think it can be something as simple as eye contact or not checking your phone. Just the two of you or three whatever you want to call it.
Then there are the boundaries, which really take place throughout the entire session and after. This can be anything from the provider knowing her boundaries to her respecting the client’s, to consent being well known and heard without the need for it to be brought back up after the fact, to knowing where each other stands after you leave that hotel room. Simple as that.
The pacing of it all is what we all want. It’s nothing more than the consistent flow of things without the need to feel rushed or hurried. This also ties into letting things come naturally rather than switching positions every third hump and calling it PSE. Just my two cents here.
Finally, being as professional as one can be. I would say this is the umbrella that covers everything I spoke about prior being as reliable, discreet, and structured as possible without killing the vibe.
It goes without saying that mind blowing sex is something we're all going to be looking for. Although, there are members here who have just gone on dates without sex being involved talking about it as if it was their first date back in high school. Though I do acknowledge that sex more specifically BBFS sex is one of the most enjoyable aspects about an entire session, It's probably not something that should be key in whether an experience was a good one or not. It’s hard to separate bareback sex from what many of us define as a great experience and pretending otherwise doesn't make sense. BBFS hits different, and for a lot of us it always will. But when you really step back and look at the sessions that linger in your mind long after they’re over, it’s rarely just about that one thing. It’s about how you were treated, how present the provider was, how natural everything felt, and whether the time together flowed instead of feeling transactional.
BB can elevate an experience but it can’t carry one on its own. It can have you lingering only I don't believe it can do it by itself. That feeling of being desired right there and now in the present isn't something that can be achieved with BBFS alone.
