This came up because of the infamous Shannon Twins. I wrote a post a while back that's still circulating about the Shannon Twins returning to the spotlight in their own way. It's very obvious these twins aren't the same as they were during their Playboy days back in 2009; they've gained some weight. Some of us have made it very vocal that these twins are too big to book. My thought process in this is, what's too big for one may not be too big for others. Like I said, this came after the Shannon Twins post, but it didn't really make sense to me until @oc.businessman.33 said he was booking Nikki Sexx again.
First, I want to say that everyone has their own preference, and that's fine. I'm not downplaying anyone's likes or dislikes in a provider. What I'm more focused on is how big of a decision we are making when it comes to the weight of the provider.
So, using @oc.businessman.33 and Nikki Sexx as an example. We all know that Nikki wasn't always as big as she is right now; she was once pretty thin. Fast forward, Nikki has gained some extra pounds, and she's a little thicker in parts of her body, which is very noticeable. I have no doubt in my mind a lot of you would not book her. However, clients like myself, @oc.businessman.33, and many others don't seem to mind the weight gain. I have no idea if it's because I'm a fan, Nikki's on my list, or the weight really doesn't bother me, but booking someone like Nikki's size or the twins' size, for that matter, doesn't seem like something that would stop me all that much.
Don't get me wrong, there are some providers that may be too big for me to book, and they're much bigger than these women; that's when my decision-making comes into play. These women are much larger and much more robust, which would for sure keep the majority of us away. But when you have women like the ones I mentioned prior, they seem to fall in that category when in reality, they should be in their own.
For instance, the model Riss DuBois (on the left) was making headlines a couple of weeks back. She turned heads in Miami for a runway show, and women were hinting that men would think she was fat at first glance. I, for one, don't see it, but after seeing some of us giving our opinions on some women in the community, I'm thinking they might be right.
Everyone has their own perception of what an overweight person is; it's not hard to tell. Still, if some of us would think that this woman is fat, then I'd have to question some of our decisions when seeing a provider. The twins and Nikki aren't to this woman's figure, but I think they fall into the same wheelhouse as her, which can be called voluptuous.
I know I'm digging deep into this, and I already see the comments in my head coming left and right, but I'm a curious sonofabitch. To know what, as men, we classify as too big interests me. To know what factors are being decided comes to mind because no decision will be the same. Like, if I'm booking Nikki, does her being a pornstar play a part in it? If she was thinner, would I be all the more eager to see her? Because I still see her as very beautiful. My mind is going a million miles a minute, and I'm trying to figure out where weight comes into the equation.
First, I want to say that everyone has their own preference, and that's fine. I'm not downplaying anyone's likes or dislikes in a provider. What I'm more focused on is how big of a decision we are making when it comes to the weight of the provider.
So, using @oc.businessman.33 and Nikki Sexx as an example. We all know that Nikki wasn't always as big as she is right now; she was once pretty thin. Fast forward, Nikki has gained some extra pounds, and she's a little thicker in parts of her body, which is very noticeable. I have no doubt in my mind a lot of you would not book her. However, clients like myself, @oc.businessman.33, and many others don't seem to mind the weight gain. I have no idea if it's because I'm a fan, Nikki's on my list, or the weight really doesn't bother me, but booking someone like Nikki's size or the twins' size, for that matter, doesn't seem like something that would stop me all that much.
Don't get me wrong, there are some providers that may be too big for me to book, and they're much bigger than these women; that's when my decision-making comes into play. These women are much larger and much more robust, which would for sure keep the majority of us away. But when you have women like the ones I mentioned prior, they seem to fall in that category when in reality, they should be in their own.For instance, the model Riss DuBois (on the left) was making headlines a couple of weeks back. She turned heads in Miami for a runway show, and women were hinting that men would think she was fat at first glance. I, for one, don't see it, but after seeing some of us giving our opinions on some women in the community, I'm thinking they might be right.
Everyone has their own perception of what an overweight person is; it's not hard to tell. Still, if some of us would think that this woman is fat, then I'd have to question some of our decisions when seeing a provider. The twins and Nikki aren't to this woman's figure, but I think they fall into the same wheelhouse as her, which can be called voluptuous.
I know I'm digging deep into this, and I already see the comments in my head coming left and right, but I'm a curious sonofabitch. To know what, as men, we classify as too big interests me. To know what factors are being decided comes to mind because no decision will be the same. Like, if I'm booking Nikki, does her being a pornstar play a part in it? If she was thinner, would I be all the more eager to see her? Because I still see her as very beautiful. My mind is going a million miles a minute, and I'm trying to figure out where weight comes into the equation.
