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bigverk · Jan 13, 2026

Maybe I’ve been hitting the ganja too much, but I’d like to hear from those who do this hobby discreetly while in a relationship. Have you ever been worried...

Swytypy · Jan 13, 2026

Regardless of relationship status, having sex with porn stars has ruined me. I’ll never be able to have sex with a civilian again.

weird0 · Jan 13, 2026

Hentai_Hibiki · Jan 13, 2026

Swytypy said:
Regardless of relationship status, having sex with porn stars has ruined me. I’ll never be able to have sex with a civilian again.

That’s why I plan on still seeing escorts even if I ever get married.

TimboNY23 · Jan 13, 2026

bigverk said:
Maybe I’ve been hitting the ganja too much, but I’d like to hear from those who do this hobby discreetly while in a relationship. Have you ever been worried that if you fucked someone too hot, that it would ruin regular at-home sex for you?

If you’re in a committed relationship with someone and you’re sneaking around, you have to ask yourself…is that really a good idea? Is it worth the risk in potentially losing that person?

Hentai_Hibiki · Jan 13, 2026

TimboNY23 said:
If you’re in a committed relationship with someone and you’re sneaking around, you have to ask yourself…is that really a good idea? Is it worth the risk in potentially losing that person?

If you’re in a sexless relationship, which I have a few friends that are in, it’s just a matter of their wife becoming a roommate after parenthood.

But then again they all have foreign spouses, so there’s cultural differences. American women tend to want to have it both ways.

theeaglekid · Jan 13, 2026

Definitely makes it more challenging for me.

I know for a fact, I will never get a PAWG in my civil life, but I live the fantasy through PSE.

So for me, its about separating out the reality from fantasy... and well, that is incredibly hard

Hentai_Hibiki · Jan 13, 2026

theeaglekid said:
So for me, its about separating out the reality from fantasy... and well, that is incredibly hard

It made it clear for me that sex with hot women is a fleeting feeling and is not the end all be all to my life’s goals.

Post nut clairity kicks in and I still got to deal with the same problems.

theeaglekid · Jan 13, 2026

Hentaihibiki said:
Post nut clairity kicks in and I still got to deal with the same problems.

For me, its the costs associated with a bad session... the PNC is potent

TimboNY23 · Jan 13, 2026

Hentaihibiki said:
If you’re in a sexless relationship, which I have a few friends that are in, it’s just a matter of their wife becoming a roommate after parenthood.

But then again they all have foreign spouses, so there’s cultural differences. American women tend to want to have it both ways.

Yes. But that’s a different situation. What I meant was if you’re in a long committed relationship, and you’re both truly in love, and are having sex regularly…then it’s probably not the best idea.

dfr345 · Jan 13, 2026

theeaglekid said:
Definitely makes it more challenging for me.

I know for a fact, I will never get a PAWG in my civil life, but I live the fantasy through PSE.

So for me, its about separating out the reality from fantasy... and well, that is incredibly hard

Don’t sell yourself short. You can get anyone you want. It’s all in your head. I’ve seen people I could never imagine get women that are beautiful beyond belief for most men. Color/Creed/Appearance is immaterial. Just be confident and chase what you desire. All you need is to be self assured.

Hentai_Hibiki · Jan 13, 2026

TimboNY23 said:
Yes. But that’s a different situation. What I meant was if you’re in a long committed relationship, and you’re both truly in love, and are having sex regularly…then it’s probably not the best idea.

If my partner is giving it up on the regular, I won’t NEED to look around.

I’m not a normie, but then again some dudes just want variety regardless.

That honeymoon phase of love doesn’t last forever for most people.

Townbizz54 · Jan 14, 2026

Swytypy said:
Regardless of relationship status, having sex with porn stars has ruined me. I’ll never be able to have sex with a civilian again.

You’ll figure out a way when the opportunity presents itself

TimboNY23 · Jan 14, 2026

Hentaihibiki said:
If my partner is giving it up on the regular, I won’t NEED to look around.

I’m not a normie, but then again some dudes just want variety regardless.

That honeymoon phase of love doesn’t last forever for most people.

Again, for those who are in a happy and committed relationship, having to be discreet, and sneak around is disrespectful to the other person.

Lewinmsu · Jan 14, 2026

My father is 80 years old and went to Texas. He was a Jewish Fraternity boy. So he went to the Chicken Ranch, it was a real place in La Grange. So I was like 20 and before I hobbied I asked my dad why my mom married a guy who went to a whore house. He answer was if that was her criteria then she could not have married a single Jewish man in Texas. Now times change but that was the 60s. Several years later he took me to my first brothel in Israel. I assume he visited others during his marriage to my mom but I never asked. They just celebrated 55 years of marriage and he is her care giver as she has fallen into ill health.

Sexaddict · Jan 14, 2026

All I can say is, once you see a hot escort there's no going back. It´s so much easier than to go on dates and wait and what not.

zm7000 · Jan 14, 2026

Everyone has their reasons for doing this, even if in a relationship, I guess it’s seeking something that is not there in said relationship. Id imagine being in that scenario is quite stressful.

One thing I do know is I dont ever want to get to a place where pornstars/escorts is the only thing I want. Its fun in the moment but I dont believe this is a healthy activity over the long term.

Swytypy · Jan 14, 2026

Townbizz54 said:
You’ll figure out a way when the opportunity presents itself

If

Nopainjared · Jan 14, 2026

theeaglekid said:
Definitely makes it more challenging for me.

I know for a fact, I will never get a PAWG in my civil life, but I live the fantasy through PSE.

So for me, its about separating out the reality from fantasy... and well, that is incredibly hard

What PAWGs have you been with ? That’s a fantasy of mine too … having trouble finding the perfect one

trystagency · Jan 14, 2026

"Too Hot too fuck?" is that a real question?
Thats like talking about having leftover bacon..Ive never heard of such a thing

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