I think it’s about time I go through the whole scenario with my former SB. I already made a post about how we met, but I haven’t done a full breakdown of everything that happened between the beginning and the inevitable end. That’s just how the game goes… for now.
To jump from when we met to our first meeting in Madrid, I want to explain how the experience was in between - and point out the “traps” for other gentlemen who may find themselves in similar situations.
Overall, the experience was actually good, and I would recommend it. We texted almost daily - if not every single day. The classic “¿Qué haces?” Well, baby, I’m doing what I’m doing. Those are filler questions. I just answered politely with something generic. The woman in question probably sends the same message to four or five other guys, so just reply with something neutral. She doesn’t really care what you’re doing - unless you’re with another woman. Never say that. Speaking from experience.
When we were together in the same city, it was different. However, I would strongly recommend that every sugar daddy get a sugar baby who speaks English. It’s way too much of a hassle to be with an SB who doesn’t speak your language. Otherwise, you’ll end up like me - using Google Translate every second sentence. I would literally ask her in English, “Are you okay?” every ten minutes. Very awkward in public.
She eventually learned English, but that was too late - by then we were halfway broken up.
Always choose an SB who speaks your native language, or at least English at a C1 level. It makes the whole experience better for both of you.
The second downside was how emotional she was. I wouldn’t say she acted like a spoiled brat, but come on.
Either way, only choose an SB who is emotionally stable. Test that before you commit to anything.
Now, something positive: SBs can be extremely sensual. They understand that part of their “job” is to keep you happy. If they don’t have sex with you, flirt in public, or call you “baby,” they know they’re not doing their part. These women are far from unintelligent. They know exactly which buttons to press, when to say certain things, and when to send a “solo” video.
Another positive is that you can use that dynamic to your advantage - but you have to walk on eggshells. She can replace you easily; not necessarily the other way around.
So it’s about finding balance - 50/50. Show interest. Show that you care. But don’t be naive enough to cave in to unreasonable demands.
To end this post: be careful. Tread carefully. Choose the right woman.
