Open relationship (escorts / swing / sugar): How do people get there?

[hotplayboy]

I've had to grind to get just here and I want to go a long way up in terms of career success.
But I haven't had any sexual success (outside of hobby), I...

I've had to grind to get just here and I want to go a long way up in terms of career success.
But I haven't had any sexual success (outside of hobby), I missed out on sleeping around in college and in 20s, so I don't intend to lock myself down in a monogamous relationship/marriage which starts to not feel fulfilling over the years because at that point what am I even earning / living for?
I've had a stressful life so far and from here on my interests are purely earning more money and having fun.

How do this swinging / seeing escorts as couple / openly sugaring couples get there? Do they introduce this concepts in the relationship later or they make each other aware of their non-monogomous interests?

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[Sexaddict]

Most couples who either goes swinging or sees escorts together has done so from the stars, by sending non-monogamy signals early on.

my interests are purely earning more money and having fun.

We have the exact same interests

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