Okay so say you are into anal. You can't just come out and say right away hey do you do anal? Can't wait to slide my meat across the crack of that ass.
So we have to be indirect. Thankfully this is where psychology is useful
At some point in the conversation with your initial meetings with your sugar baby you'll probably wanna say something like this
I don’t want to waste either of our time, and intimacy styles matter to me. Can I ask you a couple of quick vibe questions?
1)When it comes to private choices, do you care more about what feels right to you, or how it looks to other people?”
(You are seeing if the structure for taboo is there if you have other fetishes)
2)when it comes to intimacy Are you pretty squeamish about the human body, or not really?
(You are checking for disgust sensitivity. Some people find anal sex disgusting if she says yes or give a moral or close indicator yall might not be a good match)
3) you usually find intense or messy experiences exciting, or more stressful?”
(Again checking for intensity and disgust sensitivity)
She says yes to 3 all close match
She says yes to 2 proceed with caution
She says no to 2 exit cleanly
Also things to look for. Chicks who have gone to burning man. This is an indicator of openness to experience.
Chokers - a given
She says things like she not vanilla these increase the chances. Filter hard and filter fast.
Let me know if you think this idea is bat shit crazy. I'm sure you can sprinkle these throughout the conversation and go from there.
So we have to be indirect. Thankfully this is where psychology is useful
At some point in the conversation with your initial meetings with your sugar baby you'll probably wanna say something like this
I don’t want to waste either of our time, and intimacy styles matter to me. Can I ask you a couple of quick vibe questions?
1)When it comes to private choices, do you care more about what feels right to you, or how it looks to other people?”
(You are seeing if the structure for taboo is there if you have other fetishes)
2)when it comes to intimacy Are you pretty squeamish about the human body, or not really?
(You are checking for disgust sensitivity. Some people find anal sex disgusting if she says yes or give a moral or close indicator yall might not be a good match)
3) you usually find intense or messy experiences exciting, or more stressful?”
(Again checking for intensity and disgust sensitivity)
She says yes to 3 all close match
She says yes to 2 proceed with caution
She says no to 2 exit cleanly
Also things to look for. Chicks who have gone to burning man. This is an indicator of openness to experience.
Chokers - a given
She says things like she not vanilla these increase the chances. Filter hard and filter fast.
Let me know if you think this idea is bat shit crazy. I'm sure you can sprinkle these throughout the conversation and go from there.
