Happy Monday, everyone!
I hope you all had a fantastic weekend—I sure did!
As we kick off the week, I wanted to share my thoughts on why I believe no expense should be spared when seeing a provider—whether it's a non-PS provider or a pornstar—and why I think it's time we reconsider sugar arrangements altogether.
When I see a provider, I don't usually bring gifts (at least not store-bought ones), but I almost always tip $200–$300 if I really connect with the girl and enjoy her service. My reasoning is simple: every provider deserves to feel appreciated. I also like to stand out a bit—maybe so that if we cross paths again, she’ll remember me in a positive way.
Second, I always book a minimum of two hours.
I feel like I’m forgetting something, but oh well—I might come back and edit this later.
Why I think you should lay off sugar arrangements entirely:
Big shoutout to @SlyJr for sparking this thought with a comment.
The term “sugarbabe” got me reflecting on what it truly implies. Typically, these girls expect the gentlemen to fulfill all their financial needs—rent, bills, etc.—while the men receive very little in return. By that, I mean the girls are essentially being supported passively. The man footing the bill doesn’t even get to spend quality time with her, except here and there for a few hours.
Personally, I’ve moved away from sugar arrangements altogether. My new preference? PPM relationships (Pay Per Meet)—they’re so much easier to manage! With PPM, I know exactly what I’m getting: quality time with the girl for the agreed-upon amount.
Now, this might sound like a typical outcall arrangement with any provider, but the key difference is that it’s with one girl. Over time, you build a rapport and a mutual understanding. She knows what you like, and you know what she likes. While I still enjoy meeting new providers occasionally, I find that keeping PPM relationships offers a more meaningful bond.
Anyway, just some thoughts to start the week.
I hope you all had a fantastic weekend—I sure did!
As we kick off the week, I wanted to share my thoughts on why I believe no expense should be spared when seeing a provider—whether it's a non-PS provider or a pornstar—and why I think it's time we reconsider sugar arrangements altogether.
When I see a provider, I don't usually bring gifts (at least not store-bought ones), but I almost always tip $200–$300 if I really connect with the girl and enjoy her service. My reasoning is simple: every provider deserves to feel appreciated. I also like to stand out a bit—maybe so that if we cross paths again, she’ll remember me in a positive way.
Second, I always book a minimum of two hours.
- Because there’s time to go for round two—or even three sometimes.
- It avoids the rushed feeling that shorter sessions can sometimes have.
Getting to know a provider on a more personal level is, in my opinion, an essential part of the experience.
I feel like I’m forgetting something, but oh well—I might come back and edit this later.
Why I think you should lay off sugar arrangements entirely:
Big shoutout to @SlyJr for sparking this thought with a comment.
The term “sugarbabe” got me reflecting on what it truly implies. Typically, these girls expect the gentlemen to fulfill all their financial needs—rent, bills, etc.—while the men receive very little in return. By that, I mean the girls are essentially being supported passively. The man footing the bill doesn’t even get to spend quality time with her, except here and there for a few hours.
Personally, I’ve moved away from sugar arrangements altogether. My new preference? PPM relationships (Pay Per Meet)—they’re so much easier to manage! With PPM, I know exactly what I’m getting: quality time with the girl for the agreed-upon amount.
Now, this might sound like a typical outcall arrangement with any provider, but the key difference is that it’s with one girl. Over time, you build a rapport and a mutual understanding. She knows what you like, and you know what she likes. While I still enjoy meeting new providers occasionally, I find that keeping PPM relationships offers a more meaningful bond.
Anyway, just some thoughts to start the week.
