I first got into this hobby back in 2015 when I was 18. At the time, I knew absolutely nothing — I hadn’t even been with a woman before.
Yes, it was an escort who took my virginity.
I had read a lot about escorts on websites, and one day, I finally decided to go through with it. With a trembling hand, I rang the doorbell of my very first provider. That experience, while nerve-wracking, opened the door to a world I’ve now been part of for nearly a decade.
But this post isn’t about how I started — it’s about how I approach sessions today, after 10 years in the game and over 250 encounters under my belt.
Pre-Session Routine
When I reach out to a provider, I always introduce myself politely. I let her know who I am, what kind of session I’m interested in, and how long I’d like to book. Clarity from the start sets the tone for mutual respect.
If the location is a bit far, I’ll hit up one of my two regular drivers. These guys are absolute legends — GOATED, really. Building rapport with a good cab driver goes a long way, especially when you're in this scene often. We usually chat about this and that — nothing serious — just enough to get me relaxed and pumped for what’s ahead.
If it’s a short distance (10–15 minutes away), I’ll walk there. I usually throw on a light podcast — something entertaining but not too deep. It helps me shift into the right mindset without overthinking. Sometimes I have a cigar while listening to the podcast, just to relax my entire body.
About an hour before the session, I’ll pop one or two Viagra, depending on the mg strength. It’s part of my ritual now.
Not because I necessarily
need it, but because I like to come prepared — mentally and physically.
Arrival and First Impressions
Once I arrive, I message the girl to let her know I’m outside, and she’ll tell me which buzzer to ring. If it’s someone I haven’t met before, I greet her like a gentleman should. If I had a hat, I’d tip it and say, “Good day, miss.” I don’t — not yet, at least — but you get the point.
Once we’re in her room, I hand over the cash and give her space to count it. I want her to feel comfortable and secure from the start. That way, everything flows better for both of us.
Setting the Tone
Then the fun begins.
I believe in asserting dominance — respectfully, of course — from the moment we step into that room. That doesn’t mean being rude or overbearing. It means having confidence, clear intentions, and reading the vibe.
I typically begin with DFK, always starting slow to gauge her comfort level. If the chemistry’s there, the energy builds fast. And yes, I take the lead — because that’s how I enjoy it. She has to respect my presence from the first minute.
When the clothes come off — whether quickly or gradually — I always start by going down on her. That’s just how I do things. If I can make her feel good first, the whole session levels up. It sends a message:
“I pleased you, now I expect the same.” That mutual energy exchange puts me in control, and that’s what I thrive on.
Mutual Respect = Limitless Possibilities
The truth is, many of these women have encountered clients who treat them like nothing more than a transaction. Cold. Mechanical. Disrespectful.
So when they meet someone who brings confidence, respect, and knows how to treat them right — they often open up in ways you wouldn’t believe.
Anything becomes possible. And yes, I do mean anything.
That’s the power of experience. After 250+ sessions, I don’t walk in wondering how it’ll go. I walk in knowing exactly how to set the tone, take control, and make sure both of us walk away satisfied (mostly me - by far).
Confidence, gut feeling, and dominance are where the money is.
