Every SB has let me go raw

[Mateocast98]

All the sugar babies I’ve met prefer it raw and having a clean test and showing your aware of your sexual health has always been enough. And offering to pay for there test if they need it helps as well if you think it’ll be a longer term thing.

The sugar babies asking for condoms tend to be pros trying to pretend they aren’t an escort.

Real sugar babies you can grow a friendship or more with and aren’t watching the clock. Get dinner, go hot tubbing. Sugaring imo shouldn’t just be about the sex but enjoying one another’s company and wanting to support them.

Well said, real sugarbaby relationships begins when “you stop keeping score”

I.e you aren’t penny pinching and she isn’t clock watching, you are hanging out and boom it’s 9pm and you realize you met up for lunch at 1pm, went shopping, fucked, cuddling/chatting, ordered food, fucked again, etc. And it’s getting late

She doesn’t ask for more than the agreed amount because she stayed way longer, and you don’t try to pay less because she likes you

I have 1 of those currently it’s my only true SB relationship, she’s basically the only woman I can truly be honest with. It’s been like 5 years at this point

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[Mateocast98]

@Mateocast98 @jdawgwitit @F10t

How much are you paying these girls on seeking? And was it sex on first date for you? Or were there platonic dates to start?

Recently as in since 2024
The cheapest was 500$ most expensive was 1200
And a bunch in the middle closer to the 1k is normal tho, they are all down to spend more time if the date is fun, ie dinner, shopping concert, then fuck for 3 hours is fine. But not be in the hotel for 6 hours.


First date, 45 min meetup at the bar to make sure we aren’t weird/ are real, and click, then 3 hours at the hotel, as many pops as I want. Always raw, these two examples are the extremes of the spectrum mentioned abovee. Both didn’t allow creampies no BC. Both blonde white girls( my favorite) 23 and 26 yo, I’ve repeated with both. I’m also on the younger side and in shape. Fellas that is the most important part, she’s probably not gonna fuck you raw/ let you creampie, make out. if you’re 55, bald with a beer belly. Def not for the same rate. These aren’t hookers they are hot college age girls who are spoiled for choice. The exception of course is, you’re buying her a Rolex and Dior bags, then it doesn’t really matter what the fuck you look like, but that’s not most of us is it.

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[Mateocast98]

All the sugar babies I’ve met prefer it raw and having a clean test and showing your aware of your sexual health has always been enough. And offering to pay for there test if they need it helps as well if you think it’ll be a longer term thing.

The sugar babies asking for condoms tend to be pros trying to pretend they aren’t an escort.

Real sugar babies you can grow a friendship or more with and aren’t watching the clock. Get dinner, go hot tubbing. Sugaring imo shouldn’t just be about the sex but enjoying one another’s company and wanting to support them.

Regarding testing, I’ve yet to meet any girl under 24 who has asked to see results. The few who did were a little older and just asked that I get tested for next time please, for peace of mind, even tho I did just have my raw dick in them. Weird but probably cope from them.

Also once they see your results once you’re good for life. I had this one high end escort I was see for a while, I just asled if bare as possible with a test, she said yes, creampied her for 3 years off that one test, then she finally asked for another one I did it, she didn’t even ask to see it, I was mid stroke when she remembered she asked and just asked I show her when we finish. She’s a well known escort two solid TER ( won’t share her) she doesn’t have any reviews mentioning it thus I assume it’s YMMV, we always had fun

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[6lover9]

By and large SA all were willing to go raw with creampie. Mostly late 20s-early 30s grad students or professional jobs. Generally were tested. I got snipped so don't need to worry if they are on bc. Those that were ppm were typically an evening or overnight at what a PS asks for an hour. Arrangements was less if calculated as a ppm. A different world.

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[FishMonger]

@Mateocast98 @jdawgwitit @F10t

How much are you paying these girls on seeking? And was it sex on first date for you? Or were there platonic dates to start?

Most of the money was spent on going out (dinner, shows, travel etc) and gifts, but it was average about 7k/month. They were getting maybe around 1.5/2K in cash month and the rest in 'lifestyle'.

I only had 2 SBs total, but maybe went on 5 or 6 'meet and greets', so limited experience. This how they worked for me. 1. after communicating on seeking and determining mutual interest, setup a 'meet and greet' date, that was not paid for, but I would always bring a gift. 2. typically after meet and greet, if both of us wanted to continue, I would finalize the financial specifics. Since most of the costs were 'activities', I would loosely coordinate expectations with the SB. 3. From then on out, e.g. date 2, it was full on. I never really had to inquire about the sex specifically, they girls I met all knew that sex was expected and they initiated the sex pretty much on every date. Everything else was pretty much same as normal dating. I would usually see them 1 to 3 times a week. Dates were always planned with activities and gifts and what not, e.g. not much just chilling at home type stuff. The pro/cons, 1. Got to date some really hot and fun woman that would never date me in normal manner. 2. sex was always 'on the table', so I could just be myself and make sure I was a good SD and just have fun. 3. lots of bbfs sex 3. the only con, had to spend a fair amount of time planning dates (finding concerts, shows, get away weekends took more effort than I anticipated, month after month). My SBs did not have to plan anything but their preferences were always put before mine. If I could afford the lifestyle , I'd still probably be doing it.

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[6lover9]

Back of envelope calculation my SBs have cost less, all inclusive, for more hours than a PS hour once a week would. Doesn't mean o don't occasionally indulge in the latter. No SB has ever been the insanity of Ava Devine fucking.

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[shion]

Major US city, true. You learn to navigate it tho. I’ve been on it for like 6 years at this point. It’s like Malcolm Gladwell’s Blink

Is it really worth it?

What membership are you using? The most premium?

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[Sexaddict]

"Don´t cum inside".. well, I´m already halfway there so don´t mind if I do.
I´ve had 1 or two sugar relationships and they have just used the words as a precaution, then they take a pill the day after and it´s all good.

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[shiru]

Is it really worth it?

What membership are you using? The most premium?

How much does the most premium cost

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[Mateocast98]

How much does the most premium cost

It’s like 100$ per month. Discounts if you buy 3 months or a year

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[tinman]

I recall signing up for access in 2022 and cancelled my account within the week as I was overwhelmed or flooded with the most obese homey repulsive chicks in their 30s to 50s hitting me up seeking arrangements and it was almost funny to think i would even spend a dime on them let them pay them to be out in public with me ( I won’t even touch them if they pay me). Maybe it is my luck but never again waste my time and dime on that site. ( and This is in Los Angeles!!)

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[shiru]

It’s like 100$ per month. Discounts if you buy 3 months or a year

Yall found college chicks in nyc or other cities?

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[Mateocast98]

Yall found college chicks in nyc or other cities?

Yes to NyC and Miami, probably two of the hottest regions for it. Miami has the hottest girls for sure. A few college girls. Most are 23-29 on seeking from my experience. Very few in the 18-22 range comparatively

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[6lover9]

Yes in chicago. Similarvto mateocast98 observation most 23-39. Every so often 18-22 worth any time

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[SugarD]

Yes in chicago. Similarvto mateocast98 observation most 23-39. Every so often 18-22 worth any time

In Chicago area. I signed up last month, but haven’t moved to a paid subscription. 6 months of being on Sugar Baby and all the Sugar Bots on that site has made wary.

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[GeneWood]

I've seen two girls I met on Seeking. One also had an escort as ad on Tryst, and after one coffee date, I just ended up booking her that way. She let me go raw, heat sex, food rapport, but the rate was too high for me to keep seeing her.

The other one was a much better rate, but no raw. Even CBJ, until that time we had a threesome with a trans woman. I would probably still be seeing her if she let me creampie. Much thinner than I usually see, but that was a nice change of pace.

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[johncreampie]

One thing about seeking that is important yo remember it’s all about location. Have had great success and super easy to find new girls in places like Orlando or salt lake for cheap. But places like Seattle or LA tend to have more wannabe pros that charge very high ppms where in Orlando there seems to be so much competition you can find 2-300 ppm sugar babies.

And if you’re in the middle of nowhere the picking and selection isn’t great. College towns tend to be amazing for sugar babies.

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[Vortex]

A couple of years back I met a duo on Seeking that let me BB both of them…I’d line them up doggy and exchange thrusts between them, stacked pussies we’re super hot too…I still get off thinking about one of them holding my cock while the other would slide down on it. They both had big bolt-on’s and were tatted up, but super fit. One was a great dirty talker…she’d ask me if I liked fucking her friend’s pussy bare…it was outrageous. It finally ended when one of them wanted to date me and they got into a spat…

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[tylardurden]

Have you guys had this experience? Every chick I’ve met on seeking has let me go raw 4 in the US, 8-9 abroad. I never thought about it. All between 18-26, a few wouldn’t let me creampie because of no BC, but all first date raw. Two I asked first via text if they would let me, two just hopped on with no discussion. The rest we had a pretty good date first and we were making out at the hotel and we just went for it.

1 stands out, this Italian chick, a true dime piece. We were making out and I put her in mish. “Can we”, she goes “do you have a condom?” , she gets worried saying I don’t know you etc. I play shy like hey I just got out of a relationship, which was true, I just really want to get my mind off it, you’re so pretty could we please. She thinks it over, says fine. As I’m putting it in she says don’t cum inside, 10 minutes later I swear I could have filled up a shot glass. Best ass I’ve ever felt. In between rounds she mentioned she was a stripper and seeing a few clubs and doing seeking on the side. We went on a few more dates than a few months later she blocked me on everything. The one that got away, I saw later she got engaged…still miss that one

How does the SB thing work? Did you pay them beforehand? Are you a millionaire?

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[johncreampie]

How does the SB thing work? Did you pay them beforehand? Are you a millionaire?

You don’t need to be a millionaire for a typical sugar baby. I’ve had a sugar baby on a monthly arrangement that just wanted 850 every month to cover her half of rent. She would spend most weekends with me as well. Just depends, there are definitely girls that want much much more and It’s certainly not common to find a monthly arrangement at 850 especially considering the amount of time / sex we had. But she wasn’t an escort just a college girl who needed help and wanted someone in her life to be there for her.

Gotta find the girls that want an actual sugar relationship. And not amateur escorts. Ideally you have a friend with benefits and you enjoy spending time together and you can be supportive of them.

It’s a much different vibe than an escort if you find a real sugar baby. Any girl trying to jump right to sex or charging by hours aren’t looking for a sugar relationship.

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