In this hobby, it’s all about grabbing every opportunity! Whether it’s with an SB or just an ATF, every minute counts. Bring your A-game for the duration of the meeting—whether it’s a few hours or a few days. Half-hearted effort gets you nowhere.
I’ll give you a personal example. When I first met my former SB in Madrid for five days, I could have made
so much more out of that experience. The problem? I was too caught up in “showing off my trophy”—walking around with a hot girl in public—rather than focusing on the moment and building a genuine connection. I held back. I didn’t pull her close, didn’t kiss her when I should have, didn’t fully engage. She literally had to initiate sex every time.
With that kind of self-obsession, you’re setting yourself up to fail. I wasted a five-day, once-in-a-lifetime experience because I wasn’t fully present. Don’t make the same mistake.
Here’s the rule:
bring your A-game no matter who you’re with. Be confident, be proactive, and don’t let fear or ego get in the way. Pull her in. Flirt. Kiss. Live in the moment. Every second counts, because you can’t rewind time.
Opportunities like these don’t come often. You’ll meet women who are stunning, smart, or just plain unforgettable—but if you’re not all in, you’ll look back and regret it. Trust me, I know.
That said, it’s not just about sex or showing off. It’s about
creating memories, enjoying time together, and making every interaction meaningful. The chemistry, the fun, the little inside jokes—all of that is wasted if you’re too busy thinking about how you look, who’s watching, or what comes next.
Even now, I keep in touch with my former SB. Her birthday is next month, and I plan to reach out once again, maybe send a little gift.
It’s a reminder that relationships—whether short-term or long—deserve attention and care, not just passing moments.
So here’s the takeaway:
stop hesitating. Stop holding back. Every meeting, every encounter, every moment is an opportunity. Grab it. Own it. And make sure you have no regrets when it’s over. That´s the best advice that I can give.
