A woman giving me her opinion on sex—whether as a civilian or a hobbyist—is something I welcome. If she’s a provider, I enjoy hearing it even more since I can apply that knowledge to my civilian life and improve myself. That said, one of my biggest fears has always been seeing a provider’s negative critique of a session we had together. It’s been a lingering fear ever since I got heavily into social media and truly understood its reach.
I saw this, and I could genuinely feel this man's pain. Despite what I assume is a vast distance between us, I could sense the disappointment he must have felt.
Addis Fouche (Tryst Agency) recently shared an experience where she gave a brutally honest critique of a man she had been with. To be fair, it’s her platform, and she has every right to say whatever she wants. We do the same thing here, so I don’t see any issue with that. But still… FUCK.
Seeing something like this after a session has to be one of the worst feelings imaginable. Now, this could have easily been one of her content co-stars, since Addis does collaborations here and there, but I don’t think an established co-star would have performed
this badly. I could be wrong, though. Still, the hobbyist in me initially assumed it was a client because, let’s be real—not everyone knows what they’re doing. Some guys lack experience, and that’s just how it is. You have to practice to get better.
Then I saw
this! Right away, I knew it
wasn’t one of us. It still
could be, but I don’t think so. Everything about her critique suggests this was a content co-star—especially the part where she commented on his looks. That tells me she had only seen this person through their content before meeting them, and they didn’t live up to her expectations. It’s even sadder if this was a fellow content creator, but honestly, I’m just relieved it wasn’t one of us.
Again, Addis has every right to speak her mind on her platform. As blunt as it may be, she can say whatever she pleases. But this definitely changes how I see her compared to the sweetheart many of you have described. It’s still scary as hell, though. At some point, all of us will likely face a hard critique. We’ll be off our game that day, or whatever you want to call it. It’s not something we can fully prevent—just something we hope isn’t bad enough to end up blasted on social media.
