A cautionary tale... I'm an idiot

[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

It’s really encouraging to see that OP has changed his handle from Committing Suicide to Stayin’ Alive

Definitely making me feel a lot better about myself right now keep on trucking along @Stayin’ Alive and if u need to reach out remember many here have offered to talk

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[Stayin’ Alive]

Yeah I must say that you all who commented here or messaged me in private or helped me in some other ways really made a huge difference.

I have bi-polar depression so when one thing goes south I have trouble separating it out and I spiral down real bad and this situation was the spark of the fire this time.

I’ve been beating myself up over it pretty bad for months.. and for a few reasons.

But your stories of similar situations and advice for going forward has helped. Going to continue talking to professionals about the depression stuff and while my disappointment over this specific woman and situation will take a bit to fully get over, I’ll start to look at continuing in this hobby with others I’m not as attached to. Should be easier.

So again, thanks to so many of you. Message boards/forums are usually very dark places with mean folks saying horrible things behind a computer screen but you guys were the exact opposite. Woulda been easy to call me a moron and laugh at me and Even take her side potentially but it was the opposite.

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[Stayin’ Alive]

Welp, the conclusion to this has arrived...

Today on her IG stories, this provider sent out a video to all saying she's running a sale and to DM her.

So, I DM'd and said "If you're selling and mailing out worn lingerie to people, think you can finally send me the thong and corset I been asking for and paid you to ship already that you said you had shipped numerous times but couldn't find the tracking number for?"

Her reply: "Didn't mean to send that to you" and then I noticed... she blocked me on Instagram. (Mind you, I still have her personal e-mail and phone number but she blocked me on IG...)

So, I sent a "final goodbye" e-mail and a text that said: "You just blocked me on Instagram? Seriously? OK dude I'm done. Don't ever speak to me again. You've hurt me more than you'll ever know. Treated me like shit. Used me.... Have a great life."

Think that should put a permanent end to the problems this cunt has caused me both mentally and financially.

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[solarphile]

Welp, the conclusion to this has arrived...

Today on her IG stories, this provider sent out a video to all saying she's running a sale and to DM her.

So, I DM'd and said "If you're selling and mailing out worn lingerie to people, think you can finally send me the thong and corset I been asking for and paid you to ship already that you said you had shipped numerous times but couldn't find the tracking number for?"

Her reply: "Didn't mean to send that to you" and then I noticed... she blocked me on Instagram. (Mind you, I still have her personal e-mail and phone number but she blocked me on IG...)

So, I sent a "final goodbye" e-mail and a text that said: "You just blocked me on Instagram? Seriously? OK dude I'm done. Don't ever speak to me again. You've hurt me more than you'll ever know. Treated me like shit. Used me.... Have a great life."

Think that should put a permanent end to the problems this cunt has caused me both mentally and financially.

Good On Ya!

Hope you feel lighter after creating a solid boundary and removing that toxicity from your life!

Very happy for you!

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[bigfan47]

Welp, the conclusion to this has arrived...

Today on her IG stories, this provider sent out a video to all saying she's running a sale and to DM her.

So, I DM'd and said "If you're selling and mailing out worn lingerie to people, think you can finally send me the thong and corset I been asking for and paid you to ship already that you said you had shipped numerous times but couldn't find the tracking number for?"

Her reply: "Didn't mean to send that to you" and then I noticed... she blocked me on Instagram. (Mind you, I still have her personal e-mail and phone number but she blocked me on IG...)

So, I sent a "final goodbye" e-mail and a text that said: "You just blocked me on Instagram? Seriously? OK dude I'm done. Don't ever speak to me again. You've hurt me more than you'll ever know. Treated me like shit. Used me.... Have a great life."

Think that should put a permanent end to the problems this cunt has caused me both mentally and financially.

She's a shitty person, no other way to say it. She's a scammer. She's has no intention of providing a quality service; only for guys she can rip off. Probably the worst form of 'female' you can deal with before branching out to criminal behavior like abuse, murder, pdf on children. I had a girl on manyvids ripped me off in a similar fashion saying she sent the item despite not have a tracking number. Meanwhile a girl in the same line of work treated me well and sent me the items I bought from her. In the end, it's really a reflection of her poor character

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[Stayin’ Alive]

Here are her replies to that last message I sent. I have not replied. No intention of ever speaking to her again…

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[JakeyFootball19]

I have observed this thread for weeks and been following it.

1) you're not stupid. All women are liars and con artists. I'm sorry that this happened to you.
I hate when guys let this stuff get them down.
2). You are 100%. correct. We have a handful of guys who do this that are under the false idea that they're "friends" or have a "deep connection" with companions. You are correct. Their only friend in this business is Benjamin Franklin.
3) yes they do. But don't allow it to change your stance or who you are.
4) you're 100% correct on this too. However......I've come across a select few regulars who have been genuine and kind to me. Not every companion I see of course. It can be a slippery slope. We walk a fine line between service and feelings. I refuse to catch feelings for any woman. That's how I keep a clear perspective.

I'm glad to see that your overall perspective has seemingly taken a turn for the better. I have a buddy in this hobby who's a legitimately good guy and an optimistic person. He's been played multiple times by providers. Great guy but he just never learns from it. The important thing is that you learned from your experience. Still a lot of great ladies out there who will give you great service and value your business.

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[PorkysReturn]

I have observed this thread for weeks and been following it.

1) you're not stupid. All women are liars and con artists. I'm sorry that this happened to you.
I hate when guys let this stuff get them down.
2). You are 100%. correct. We have a handful of guys who do this that are under the false idea that they're "friends" or have a "deep connection" with companions. You are correct. Their only friend in this business is Benjamin Franklin.
3) yes they do. But don't allow it to change your stance or who you are.
4) you're 100% correct on this too. However......I've come across a select few regulars who have been genuine and kind to me. Not every companion I see of course. It can be a slippery slope. We walk a fine line between service and feelings. I refuse to catch feelings for any woman. That's how I keep a clear perspective.

I'm glad to see that your overall perspective has seemingly taken a turn for the better. I have a buddy in this hobby who's a legitimately good guy and an optimistic person. He's been played multiple times by providers. Great guy but he just never learns from it. The important thing is that you learned from your experience. Still a lot of great ladies out there who will give you great service and value your business.

a bit red pill ish but i agree, be cautious of women who dont respect you at all times. Your paying for sex so theres a big chance you are seen as a mark at the very least in the beginning and in most cases through our your dynamic with a provider.

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