When and Where to Use the Providers Real Name

[king-sama4u2nv]

Don't.

That's the post. That's literally it. Unless the provider gives you permission saying their government name is not something to do. There's no...

Don't.

That's the post. That's literally it. Unless the provider gives you permission saying their government name is not something to do. There's no wiggle room in that whatsoever. Wait for fucking permission.

That's all.

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[connman]

How about when I introduce them to my family?

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[oc.businessman.33]

Completely agree. Do not call a provider by her government name unless she explicitly says to call her that. Even then, never use it in a public setting. Don't be that guy to ask her if it is okay to do so. If she wants you to address her by her government name she will advise you herself. Don't ask. If they ever do allow you to call them by their government name, keep it to yourself. Not everything needs to be disclosed.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

I agree 100% I know kitt jones government name, only time I have used it to write hand written thank you cards and used each syllable as in adjective, again these were obviously kept private so no one else would ever read/learn it... only other time I used it and was given her blessing to do so is on one of her LA trips we were supposed to have sushi dinner and she got a migraine that afternoon, as I had already gone to the grocery store that morning for my weekly food shopping asked if she woild like me to drop them off along with the fee other gifts i had for her... she told me I could and to leave them at the front desk under her legal name so although publicly used hotel was high class and prob discreet and had her blessings/ok to use it

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[weird0]

Ryan Conner and Vicki Chase told me their real names and suggested than I could call them by their real names

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[solarphile]

Don't.

That's the post. That's literally it. Unless the provider gives you permission saying their government name is not something to do. There's no wiggle room in that whatsoever. Wait for fucking permission.

That's all.

Saw the title of this string, and the word that popped into my head was, "Never".

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[Townbizz54]

Went to a friend’s wedding this summer with a girl I’ve know for at least 8 or 9 years. I didnt ask her two but She insisted on using her real name when meeting all my friends. Was kinda awkward when a song she’s name dropped in was played though

But even though I have permission she’ll always be (pornstar name) to me. Calling her Jessica doesn’t seem right

Also it’s not Jessica so that would be weird if I called her that

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[king-sama4u2nv]

If there's permission and trust there then do as you please. I just notice some clients would find a PS providers real name off the internet and run with it. Shit is weird man.

Ryan Conner and Vicki Chase told me their real names and suggested than I could call them by their real names

That's what happens when you get providers prego, giving you their legal name is the most they can do. LMAO!!!!!

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[zm7000]

I just notice some clients would find a PS providers real name off the internet and run with it. Shit is weird man.

If you find a girls name off the internet and decide to use it that’s ridiculous. Common sense people

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[Tipsy_gentleman]

If you trade tests or book a hotel/tkts you’ll get and need their real name. agree with others here - you still don’t use it.
For me it ruins the fantasy. I get why others would want to use their ‘real’ name though.

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[weird0]

That's what happens when you get providers prego, giving you their legal name is the most they can do. LMAO!!!!!

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[wlfgngpck3102]

Don't.

That's the post. That's literally it. Unless the provider gives you permission saying their government name is not something to do. There's no wiggle room in that whatsoever. Wait for fucking permission.

That's all.

Only time I ever have is to book an airplane ticket for her. (And to privately compliment her on how pretty her real name is). I agree with you, absent clear permission, it’s not appropriate and in many cases could be unnecessarily dangerous.

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[big.tits.lover]

I prefer to use their work names. I’m not interested in spending any time with these girls off the clock so I prefer to use their work names.

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[big.tits.lover]

You guys are making more out of it than it is. You can Google most of their real names if you want to. It’s not dangerous to call them by their actual names, it just makes you seem like a fucking weirdo if you call her by her real name and she never gave it to you.

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[thicknickk]

True, Until and unless you went to the same school, were friends or dated for sometime, it's always never.

You may know their name but that doesn't mean you should use that while communication. It does nothing but ring all bells and spook them.

Also additional tip, never reach out to them when they are in public with someone. They are being a civvie and respect that.

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[TopDizzle]

The "Book of Face" is a hell of a thing. I have a number for a certain PS saved in my phone (what I've always assumed was her "work" number), and now her personal profile pops up in my people that I may know section. Never expected to get that information, and I will never see it as something she freely gave me. So, not mine to use.

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[trystagency]

I have been doing this for nearly 17 years and I almost NEVER use their real names
I can tell you that the emails or testes that I get where someone does use a providers real name...instant red flag and often its deleted
Providers think its creepy as hell.
if they WANT you to use their real name they will tell you their real name

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[HolyShitsHim]

There was an incident that I had to bring up this porn star name. Just her initials though.
She had Amazon wishlist some reason it posted her legal name. Not her Stage name.
I sat down with her and told her. “ hey did your know your name was on your Amazon wishlist? She was shocked “ no way” I then just said her initials and’s showed the Amazon and she completely frozen and immediately took down her Amazon wishlist so she can figure out how it happen.

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[tinman]

the only time I ever use the provider’s real name is when they asked me to. A famous retired pornstar (we have all talked about and used to go on tours ) prefers I address her by her real name as she wants to have a break with her former pornstar alias. She made it clear to me after our first meeting not to call her or address her with her porn name. Last year she even asked me to help her track down a creepy stalker using my cyber skills so she disclosed a lot more personal info to me ( there is trust between us)

Another high end provider I have known for over a decade shared her real name with me last year and since then if we meet up she and I will put each others name in the room if one of us need to stay for overnight for whatever reasons ( there have been times she helped me out as I cannot get a room in a city I need to stay overnight for a last minute meeting). So it all depends on the girl and so long as there is mutual respect and understanding I think it is not a big deal.

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[GeneWood]

I have incidentally learned the real name of more than a few providers, in a variety of ways. I was never trying to figure it out. A handful seen unconcerned with their names getting out. Even my favorite provider, who just casually whips out her ID with me when I buy her weed, I don't use that name, because it would be too weird. I think in her personal life, she probably uses a name that is neither her stage name nor her legal name.

Occasionally I've been shocked at how easily I found out. One I stumbled on just because I googled her phone number. A couple have had their civilian Facebook profiles pop up as suggestions. In some cases, I've wondered if I should suggest they tighten their security, but there hasn't been a time yet when that felt like an OK topic to broach.

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