Maintaining a relationship AFTER a girl retires

[Sexaddict]

For those of us who have had a relationship or friendship with a provider—whether it’s “just” a favorite (ATF) or something deeper like a sugarbabe—it can...

For those of us who have had a relationship or friendship with a provider—whether it’s “just” a favorite (ATF) or something deeper like a sugarbabe—it can be incredibly hard to say goodbye to someone we’ve seen regularly for years.

I’ve had to bid farewell to a few providers for good, but only once was it because the woman decided to retire from the industry. Unfortunately, we don’t talk anymore. Her attitude toward me seemed to change quite suddenly. Her responses became slower and more sporadic until she eventually stopped replying altogether. It left me wondering if our connection ever truly meant anything to her or if it was simply a matter of circumstances changing.

That experience has made me curious: are there any stories out there where a client and a provider—or a sugar babe — have stayed in touch and maintained a positive relationship after the woman retired from sex work? Has anyone managed to transition from that dynamic into a genuine, lasting friendship or connection? I’d love to hear about some sunshine stories if they exist.

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[drnu]

Will update in a few weeks, fingers crossed

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[zm7000]

I am very good friends with Morgan Lee who has been in and out of providing over the last few years. We talk pretty regularly even now that she is in mom mode (I’m not the dad )

Idk when it pivoted from being more than a provider client relationship but I think during one of her lowest moments I was there for her and that changed things to where we are now.

Borderline platonic at this point

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[Sexaddict]

Will update in a few weeks, fingers crossed

Amazing! Are you reconnecting with an ATF/SB?

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[Sexaddict]

I am very good friends with Morgan Lee who has been in and out of providing over the last few years. We talk pretty regularly even now that she is in mom mode (I’m not the dad )

Idk when it pivoted from being more than a provider client relationship but I think during one of her lowest moments I was there for her and that changed things to where we are now.

Borderline platonic at this point

Wow! That’s amazing
How long have you two known each other?

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[big.tits.lover]

For those of us who have had a relationship or friendship with a provider—whether it’s “just” a favorite (ATF) or something deeper like a sugarbabe—it can be incredibly hard to say goodbye to someone we’ve seen regularly for years.

I’ve had to bid farewell to a few providers for good, but only once was it because the woman decided to retire from the industry. Unfortunately, we don’t talk anymore. Her attitude toward me seemed to change quite suddenly. Her responses became slower and more sporadic until she eventually stopped replying altogether. It left me wondering if our connection ever truly meant anything to her or if it was simply a matter of circumstances changing.

That experience has made me curious: are there any stories out there where a client and a provider—or a sugar babe — have stayed in touch and maintained a positive relationship after the woman retired from sex work? Has anyone managed to transition from that dynamic into a genuine, lasting friendship or connection? I’d love to hear about some sunshine stories if they exist.

I lived with a girl who I met working as an escort and we tried to make it work. You don’t realize how fucked up these girls are until you live with one.

Regular women are nuts enough as it is. These girls are insane. The longer they do it, the crazier they get.

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[Nick_247365]

I’ve maintained a friendship with a retired Pornstar for about 10 years now, since her retirement. We text on the regular on a whole range of topics. What’s crazy is this past summer I was in her home country, she moved back about 8 years ago and she met me to play tour guide and translator for the day. I even ended up taking her and her husband out to dinner that night. It was interesting to say the least lol

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[zm7000]

Wow! That’s amazing
How long have you two known each other?

6 years

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[ludu]

It was interesting to say the least lol

Does "interesting to say the least" = "a helluva threesome"?

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[Townbizz54]

I lived with a girl who I met working as an escort and we tried to make it work. You don’t realize how fucked up these girls are until you live with one.

Regular women are nuts enough as it is. These girls are insane. The longer they do it, the crazier they get.

Facts

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[Sexaddict]

I lived with a girl who I met working as an escort and we tried to make it work. You don’t realize how fucked up these girls are until you live with one.

Regular women are nuts enough as it is. These girls are insane. The longer they do it, the crazier they get.

Insane in a good way or insane insane?

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[big.tits.lover]

Insane in a good way or insane insane?

Bad way insane. Really bad

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[weird0]

Bad way insane. Really bad

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[Townbizz54]

Insane in a good way or insane insane?

I can answer this for him.it was a nightmare by the end

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[SlyJr]

Interesting reads and look forward to seeing more stories. There are a few i am "friendly" with but I'm under the assumption that if I don't book em, we never will be in contact again. I had that happen recently. Also recently I had one retire due to health reasons. She sent me a message letting me know that she was cutting her line off for good and to take care...the end.

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[Sexaddict]

Interesting reads and look forward to seeing more stories. There are a few i am "friendly" with but I'm under the assumption that if I don't book em, we never will be in contact again. I had that happen recently. Also recently I had one retire due to health reasons. She sent me a message letting me know that she was cutting her line off for good and to take care...the end.

So in other words, she only wanted to keep in touch as long as she was actively providing?

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[SlyJr]

So in other words, she only wanted to keep in touch as long as she was actively providing?

Pretty much. Which was odd because in the session we had she got very personal and "vulnerable".

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[GeneWood]

One of the first escorts I ever saw reached out to me about a visit to NY, and I paid a 50% deposit. Then she had some emergency come up and had to cancel the trip, and refunded my deposit. Not too long after that, she retired from both escorting and porn, and became VERY vocal on social media about how toxic SW had been for her.

She reached out to me a few months later to see if I wanted to set up a date, but I didn't reply. I didn't want to get in the middle of a mental health crisis or something. I hope she's doing OK. She still hangs out with some SWers, so I don't think she has a problem with it, just not right for her. Still wish I could have seen her a second time.

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[Sexaddict]

It’s quite interesting to see how some providers want to maintain a friendship or relationship after leaving sex work, while others simply say farewell and move on.

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[SlyJr]

It’s quite interesting to see how some providers want to maintain a friendship or relationship after leaving sex work, while others simply say farewell and move on.

I think it shows exactly where you stand. But I respect it and don't/can't take it personally. I try to never get too high or too low when dealing with them.

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