How should I feel about this?

[hotplayboy]

I recently saw an independent provider who has stellar 10/10 reviews, even the new one after my appointment is amazingly 10/10 review.
But my experience had...

I recently saw an independent provider who has stellar 10/10 reviews, even the new one after my appointment is amazingly 10/10 review.
But my experience had that illusion of intimacy missing, her vibe was not exciting or electric like the reviews mentions, conversation was bland.

How do I not let this get to me?
I'll admit I'm absolutely not a great conversationist alpha leader person who will make a room light up but it's getting to me that it might be looks/race thing :/

I stay fit, groom, smell great, bring gift, write note and prepare my best for every appointment.

Sorry for venting, I've been having wrong place, wrong time experiences recently.

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[Sexaddict]

She could have had an off day. However, don’t try her again, Try another provider

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[hotplayboy]

She could have had an off day. However, don’t try her again, Try another provider

Hmm, this did not occur to me, it seems to be taking some weight off my mind for now.
Hoping for better experiences in future.

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[lustman]

My two cents: there is such a thing as chemistry between people. It's hard to describe, especially for people whose brains tend to go towards logic (i.e. Mr. Spock from Star Trek,) but you can absolutely be with someone, perfectly nice person, and just not vibe with them. This can apply to all relationships. It's like going on a regular real life date, person looks fine, nice, and you want to leave 15 minutes in because there's no chemistry. It's part of being human. So don't beat yourself up, or think "there must be something wrong with me!" Etc. Because that's probably not true (at least as far as I can tell.)

I've been where you are, so no worries. We all have.

It's also okay to get frustrated about this too. That's also part of being human.

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[king-sama4u2nv]

You can’t take too much from a review. You never know how comfortable the two people were with each other or what circumstances made that session a 10/10. Maybe the client bought the provider a gift, maybe they had been talking for months, or maybe they met through a duo experience. In the end, there’s no guarantee you’ll get the same treatment just because you read about it in a review.

In my opinion, even if you didn’t get exactly what you wanted, the session being rated a 10/10 is still a win. When you see her again, you can hint at things you'd like to explore. She'll probably be more open to it since you’ve already met, and neither of you will feel as nervous.

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