Gifts

[Dark knight]

Men who gift escorts presents and "spoil" them. Why? Youve already paid them for their services so why so all the extra. Especially for women who only see...

Men who gift escorts presents and "spoil" them. Why? Youve already paid them for their services so why so all the extra. Especially for women who only see you as a wallet and most of the time dont return the favor. Its like if you are going to be doing that do it for a women who cares about you. Not about your business but YOU.

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[Townbizz54]

Men who gift escorts presents and "spoil" them. Why? Youve already paid them for their services so why so all the extra. Especially for women who only see you as a wallet and most of the time dont return the favor. Its like if you are going to be doing that do it for a women who cares about you. Not about your business but YOU.

They think they’re getting something extra reality is they’re getting played

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[Sexaddict]

I only spoil ATFs and/or SB’s.

Because it is very true, it is all just a game. A roleplay if you will.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

I’m a blue collar guy so although I still get “gifts” they are smaller in value ie a gift card or two and a few other things off their Amazon wishlist/things I think they would like

However it just goes to show that you appreciate them as a person and that you leave a good impression unlike probably over half the guys they see


Im sure some providers on here can feel free to chime in on getting gifts even small things like $100-250 value and give you a good insight as to not just to why but also how it probably helps ease their mind

Like maybe @sagehunterxo or @alexisjames or @TaylorVixxen or others(sorry I’m blanking out on other ones here on the forum)

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[oc.businessman.33]

I do it because I can and because I choose to set myself apart.

A lot of people carry the same mindset you’re describing, and that’s exactly why I move differently. From experience, the extra effort never goes unnoticed. It’s appreciated.

When you show up polished, respectful, and thoughtful with presence, presentation, and a few well placed gestures it creates a different kind of experience. And these ladies respond to that.

I’ve found that when you carry yourself that way, the energy is reciprocated. The experience is elevated, the connection is stronger, and doors tend to open that wouldn’t otherwise.

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[Felton]

I feel the same way. I just feel better bringing something. And many times a get a thank you text later or the next day.

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[Dark knight]

I do it because I can and because I choose to set myself apart.

A lot of people carry the same mindset you’re describing, and that’s exactly why I move differently. From experience, the extra effort never goes unnoticed. It’s appreciated.

When you show up polished, respectful, and thoughtful with presence, presentation, and a few well placed gestures it creates a different kind of experience. And these ladies respond to that.

I’ve found that when you carry yourself that way, the energy is reciprocated. The experience is elevated, the connection is stronger, and doors tend to open that wouldn’t otherwise

I do it because I can and because I choose to set myself apart.

A lot of people carry the same mindset you’re describing, and that’s exactly why I move differently. From experience, the extra effort never goes unnoticed. It’s appreciated.

When you show up polished, respectful, and thoughtful with presence, presentation, and a few well placed gestures it creates a different kind of experience. And these ladies respond to that.

I’ve found that when you carry yourself that way, the energy is reciprocated. The experience is elevated, the connection is stronger, and doors tend to open that wouldn’t otherwise.

So youre telling even after paying hundreds, if not, thousands of dollars you still need a gift for the experience to be heighten. Apply that to a barber and see if that would still stand.

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[Sovereignty]

It's more about appreciating the person. I've sent small gifts to providers to show them how much I appreciate them even after we had our session. Small gifts like Gift cards, Donations, or Funding their Chipotle Addiction goes a long way....lol

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[Dark knight]

It's more about appreciating the person. I've sent small gifts to providers to show them how much I appreciate them even after we had our session. Small gifts like Gift cards, Donations, or Funding their Chipotle Addiction goes a long way....lol

I get that. I guess i should have been more specific in my post. I meant like people who give extravagant gifts.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

I get that. I guess i should have been more specific in my post. I meant like people who give extravagant gifts.

It’s not about “extravagant” it’s bout the size of your wallet IE OC can prob afford to be more “generous” with high quality jewelry me my wallet is blue collar so I give a few things in the $20-50 range and a gift card or two and most every provider I’ve been with is and given a few things I leave a lasting impression with in a good way or set the bar a little higher for “gentlemen”

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[Dark knight]

It’s not about “extravagant” it’s bout the size of your wallet IE OC can prob afford to be more “generous” with high quality jewelry me my wallet is blue collar so I give a few things in the $20-50 range and a gift card or two and most every provider I’ve been with is and given a few things I leave a lasting impression with in a good way or set the bar a little higher for “gentlemen”

So being a gentleman is dependent on if you give gifts

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

So being a gentleman is dependent on if you give gifts

No I did not imply or intend it that way I simply meant it as it sets the bar a little higher vs your standard client as in every provider a girl sees is a “gentleman” it just raises the bar a little higher in my opinion of the word “gentleman”

Ie using a service metaphor let’s say you go to a restaurant and standard tip is 10-20% if service was great you might leave a 25-30% tip and that person serving you ie waiter whoever would remember you and be like “he was a cool customer and left me a nice tip” then the next time you go to the same place and sit at the same table they might make sure your drinks are constantly refilled etc of they might tell other waiters and waitresses at same restaurant “he was a solid customer who tipped well” and they might do the same


Sorry im rambling/end Ted talk

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[oc.businessman.33]

So youre telling even after paying hundreds, if not, thousands of dollars you still need a gift for the experience to be heighten. Apply that to a barber and see if that would still stand.

Continue doing what you think is best for you.

I'm going to continue doing what works best for me. Being generous has opened up multiple opportunities, experiences, and direct connections. Ultra UTR pornstars on other wishlist, invitation to participate in industry events, and VIP client only events.

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[Windy]

I dont get the whole gift thing either, it´s a waste if you're not getting pussy for your cash.

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[djbadboy]

I do it because I can and because I choose to set myself apart.

A lot of people carry the same mindset you’re describing, and that’s exactly why I move differently. From experience, the extra effort never goes unnoticed. It’s appreciated.

When you show up polished, respectful, and thoughtful with presence, presentation, and a few well placed gestures it creates a different kind of experience. And these ladies respond to that.

I’ve found that when you carry yourself that way, the energy is reciprocated. The experience is elevated, the connection is stronger, and doors tend to open that wouldn’t otherwise.

I'm in the same boat as you. I do because I can and a small gesture sets me apart. You leave a lasting impression on the girl and the energy is almost always reciprocated. Ohh and the doors that open yes you're right, are shut for others for sure

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