Wife saw me texting a tryst number

DAVES · Feb 1, 2025

bigfan47 said:
Just say a lot of men see escorts including and especially married men.

Yeah, that'll fix it.

Daniel80 · Feb 1, 2025

Guys if anyone has a lover then go for the extra mile in precautions don’t fool yourself. There is many places where you can have privacy to do whatever you want to do like texting or whatever

JakeyFootball19 · Apr 9, 2025

At this point you're already in the doghouse.
As boring as this may sound.....be honest.
I don't know your wife. Old me would say since you're in the doghouse anyway go see the provider. Older me would probably not advise that. Time for an honest conversation I would say. Definitely don't say most guys see escorts anyway. That's a dark hole you ain't getting a life raft out of. I'd just explain the psychology of WHY you initially pursued this

Sexaddict · Apr 10, 2025

Sometimes, I come back to this thread and I wonder what happened to him.
I think we all know the answer of how that relationship went.

philackson757 · Apr 10, 2025

Sexaddict said:
Sometimes, I come back to this thread and I wonder what happened to him.
I think we all know the answer of how that relationship went.

Maybe he faked the story to seek engagements from us. It may be unlikely but I wonder if he was capping with his story.

Borshak · Apr 10, 2025

Time to live in other peoples minds as a world traveling oligarch adventurer.

pbookrazor · Apr 10, 2025

I feel maybe it could be helpful if we make a thread of establishing a protocol to isolate the hobby away from one's personal life? Similar to a list of rules for booking a provider?

worldmarketman1 · Apr 14, 2025

Man, you gotta follow security procedure at ALL times. Use a Google VoIP number, burner phone, whatever you need to to keep shit CLEAN. If we are going to spend thousands on this hobby, a little extra effort or money for this is worth not getting caught.

I've been in your shoes before. I've been caught (not with an escort), but just having a side, and the best you can do now is be a man and just own up and be honest about what you've done. Like you said, there really isn't damage control, just the truth. And whether or not you give the whole truth, women are magicians, and will find out one way or another. ESPECIALLY when they are scorned....

You will come out of this. We are men, and we can learn and survive whatever happens to us. Godspeed bro..

Mrbowtie26 · Apr 15, 2025

Tell her you were asking a provider what it would cost for a 3 way with your wife. Say you wanted to get info and then ask her if she would be willing to try it to spice up your relationship.

geot215 · Apr 16, 2025

Robertico said:
Alright, I messed up bad. My wife saw texts between me and a provider—just basic stuff about scheduling a time while she was going to be out. She took it a step further, googled the number, found a tryst ad, and now I’m getting kicked out of the apartment.

She’s not stupid. She knows exactly what this looks like. But I need to figure out what to say to her that gives me a chance to fix things without admitting to some full-blown addiction or making things worse. I wasn’t actually with anyone—just talking, just considering.

What’s the move here? Do I go full damage control, claim it was just curiosity, a dumb moment of weakness? Do I come clean to a degree but not all the way? Has anyone here been through something similar and managed to smooth things over?

I know a lot of you have juggled this lifestyle and relationships—so any advice on what to say (or NOT say) would be appreciated. Right now, I just need a way to frame this so my marriage isn’t totally over.

Any help would mean a lot.

Admit everything and be totally open go to couples counseling or even intense counseling where you go somewhere and do sessions with each other for like 3 days. Tell her you were just bored and wanna take accountability get a blocker on your phone that shows her what sites you go on. Just because it's "over" today doesn't mean it's over forever you have no clue what the future holds. Fyi get a burner lol

geot215 · Apr 16, 2025

Honestly fuck your wife her friends family people on here etc. do "you" want your marriage to work do you feel like you have a problem with this hobby? Then get help for yourself and work on yourself fuck everyone else if you do that everything else will fall into place no one including your wife has the right to judge you nobody is perfect

mcsylv · Apr 16, 2025

Didn't read anything except the first post, but the fact that some guy gets found out by his wife and is probably facing divorce and his first act is to register an account here and ask strangers on the internet for guidance, instead of say, Googling a lawyer or marriage therapist, is hilarious.

Swytypy · Apr 16, 2025

mcsylv said:
Didn't read anything except the first post, but the fact that some guy gets found out by his wife and is probably facing divorce and his first act is to register an account here and ask strangers on the internet for guidance, instead of say, Googling a lawyer or marriage therapist, is hilarious.

He didn’t join here just to post about it. He was a forum member for 5 weeks before posting about it. And he hasn’t been on the forum since the day after he posted it. Read into that whatever you will.

Borshak · Apr 16, 2025

Swytypy said:
He didn’t join here just to post about it. He was a forum member for 5 weeks before posting about it. And he hasn’t been on the forum since the day after he posted it. Read into that whatever you will.

I'll read into it and write some saucy fan-fiction.

smorezx · Jul 10, 2025

My theory is that he fixed everything and now they're both booking escorts together. I'll take the oscar now

PorkysReturn · Jul 10, 2025

this reminded me of them reddit post where young dudes were typing out fantasies

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