Damn
@tinman, sorry you had to go through this.
I’ve read a few stories like this and I just shake my head. I get wanting to help someone but you guys have to remember that no matter how tight you get with a provider, she’s still an escort and we’re still John’s.
If you want to help someone out in need, send them cash. Never give them access to any type of accounts, no matter what it is. And don’t let them stay for more than the night that you’re with her in the hotel room that you booked on your cards. It just opens up too much potential for bullshit like this.
I had a well known provider hit me up a few months ago asking for help as she was in a bind. Someone I’d seen a few times and really got along with at this point (random hello texts, using her real name, etc). I said no problem, and sent her cash (wasn’t a massively significant amount). She was overwhelming with her thanks. But that was it. No repeated asks, no abusing an account.
Always think with the big head fellas.
