So I think it'd be fun to share sex toy recommendations / experiences in this space, where ultimately we're in search of awesome orgasms. While nothing will ever replace the touch of a woman (IMO, there's really no sex toy that can ever be “realistic” to sexing up a woman), sometimes you just need to get your rocks off, and so you masturbate to porn (or whatever.)
Thankfully, sex toys have come a long way, especially for men. Yes, you can just use lube and your hand, but sex toys are capable of more awesome, pleasurable orgasms. Also, less chance of death gripping yourself, where you'll kill your sensitivity (though harder sex toy materials or super tight sleeves may also end up doing the same thing, so be careful – I'm looking at you “stamina training unit,” lol.)
Also, using sex toys in your sex life can be fun, spicy times with your provider or SO. I know I've had great fun banging someone while she applied a hitachi on her clit.
Now, I'm a guy that has purchased way more sex toys in my life than I'd care to admit, and I definitely have regrets here – waste of money and what not. So here are my top 3 favorites, along with my favorite travel toy and lube. Interestingly enough, the toys are all Japanese – I find it fascinating that a generally sexually repressed society makes, in my opinion, the best male sex toys. FYI, while I'm putting links to my favorite online sex toy vendor, I am unaffiliated with them in any way, shape, or form. By the end of the day, I'm a consumer, like all of you.
- Meiki no Syoumei 05 Zhang Xiao Yu aka Meiki ZXY - routinely gives me great, awesome orgasms.
- Meiki no Syoumei 01 Maria Ozawa aka Meiki Maria Ozawa - ditto for this one. I would give the slightest of edges to the ZXY as far as awesome orgasms go, but it's a difference of inches, really. And this is slightly cheaper.
- Venus Real Rich Soft - the material is super soft, and gives a mellow experience that is really pleasurable, especially if you favor longer, marathon masturbation sessions.
Now, I do have some cons with my three favorites, which are they're harder to clean than a fleshlight due to their closed hole design. But honestly, it's something I can live with for better orgasms than a fleshlight (no offense to fleshlights.) The only other con is that I think they're appropriate if your average or below average. But if you're super well endowed, I'm not sure any of my favorite toys are ideal for you? But you can check out reviews if you're curious to 100% confirm. Because I'm below average, there's no way I can confirm this for obvious reasons.
Favorite Travel Toy:
Tenga Geo Aqua. I don't travel often, but when I do, this has become my favorite, because it looks like a fucking weird loofah. I just put it in a zip lock bag, throw it in my dopp bag, and go. As a guy who's had his checked-in-luggage inspected by TSA multiple times, I just feel weird tossing in anything that looks like a vagina sausage. Like the other toys listed though, if you're average or well endowed, this probably won't be for you.
Favorite Lube: Gun Oil H2O – by far my favorite lube, and I feel like I've tried so many of them. I keep coming back to this one, and consistently regret other purchases.
So, what are your favorite sex toys?
