I've been a sugar daddy to one or two women, and I’m writing this both as a warning and as a guide on what to expect.
First and foremost, I view sugar babes as providers. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a sex worker, so I never understand why some sugar babies hesitate to acknowledge that reality. At the end of the day, we all have to make money—am I right or am I right?
That being said, there’s one woman in particular whom I have no regrets about supporting. I spent over $60,000 on her, and I don’t regret a single cent because I know her story. She serves as a great example of what a sugar relationship can be.
To keep it brief, I met her in early 2019 as a client. Over time, after seeing her multiple times, she became comfortable enough to share her personal details, including her phone number. From there, our arrangement deepened. I traveled to see her in various countries—Spain, Switzerland, Sweden—sometimes when she was working, sometimes when she wasn’t.
Now, let’s talk about the financial aspect. I wouldn’t necessarily say that men should avoid becoming sugar daddies, but it all depends on their financial expectations.
Here’s the hard truth: being a sugar daddy is mostly a negative return on investment. Unless you’re royalty or have millions to spare, you need to accept that you’ll likely be sharing your sugar babe with other men who also have the means to support her. Expect to lose money. You might enjoy the experience for a year, two, or even three, but at some point, you’ll have to let go—both emotionally and financially.
That said, being a sugar daddy is a unique experience. You do feel a sense of love and connection as you build a relationship with the woman. However, no matter how strong that bond seems, you’ll always have the nagging thought in the back of your mind: you’re not the only one. Chances are, you’re competing with four, five, or even more gentlemen who are also funding her lifestyle.
It’s a different kind of arrangement—one that requires a clear understanding of its limitations. If you go into it with the right mindset, you can have an enjoyable experience. But if you expect exclusivity, deep emotional attachment, or a long-term commitment, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.
First and foremost, I view sugar babes as providers. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a sex worker, so I never understand why some sugar babies hesitate to acknowledge that reality. At the end of the day, we all have to make money—am I right or am I right?
That being said, there’s one woman in particular whom I have no regrets about supporting. I spent over $60,000 on her, and I don’t regret a single cent because I know her story. She serves as a great example of what a sugar relationship can be.
To keep it brief, I met her in early 2019 as a client. Over time, after seeing her multiple times, she became comfortable enough to share her personal details, including her phone number. From there, our arrangement deepened. I traveled to see her in various countries—Spain, Switzerland, Sweden—sometimes when she was working, sometimes when she wasn’t.
Now, let’s talk about the financial aspect. I wouldn’t necessarily say that men should avoid becoming sugar daddies, but it all depends on their financial expectations.
Here’s the hard truth: being a sugar daddy is mostly a negative return on investment. Unless you’re royalty or have millions to spare, you need to accept that you’ll likely be sharing your sugar babe with other men who also have the means to support her. Expect to lose money. You might enjoy the experience for a year, two, or even three, but at some point, you’ll have to let go—both emotionally and financially.
That said, being a sugar daddy is a unique experience. You do feel a sense of love and connection as you build a relationship with the woman. However, no matter how strong that bond seems, you’ll always have the nagging thought in the back of your mind: you’re not the only one. Chances are, you’re competing with four, five, or even more gentlemen who are also funding her lifestyle.
It’s a different kind of arrangement—one that requires a clear understanding of its limitations. If you go into it with the right mindset, you can have an enjoyable experience. But if you expect exclusivity, deep emotional attachment, or a long-term commitment, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.
