Since I mentioned prostate stimulation on another thread and in 2 reviews recently, I’ve had a few different guys reach out to me privately about this so I figured I’d start a new thread about it for those interested.
For those who don’t know, a prostate is a male only organ that’s located near the bladder, around the urethra, essentially inside the rectum.
The prostate has a ton of nerve endings and when stimulated properly, it can intensify orgasms or even cause a prostate orgasm, which is essentially a full body orgasm that’s intense as fuck and can last much longer than a traditional orgasm.
I used to think any “butt stuff” meant a guy was gay or had latent gay feelings but straight guys who get past the stigma and learn to enjoy prostate stimulation on their own or with a willing partner can open up new worlds of pleasure. About a year and a half ago, I went to a urologist for urinary problems that turned out to be chronic prostatitis. He gave me an antibiotic but also told me it may just be inflammation and not an infection and that prostate stimulation could help. After some research, I decided to buy a vibrating toy and I haven’t looked back.
You can stimulate the prostate somewhat by rubbing the taint, the area between the testicles and anus, but the best way to stimulate the prostate is with a toy that inserts into the rectum through the anus. There are all different size, shape, and style toys to choose from. Some just sit inside the rectum, some vibrate at different speeds and intensities and others pulsate, wiggle, or thrust either with or without the vibration. Some are very small, some are very large and some have additional features like remote controls, cock rings and taint stimulators. Prices range from around $40-$250, depending on what features you’re after. I’ve bought 5 or 6 different models and still have most of them, but I gravitate towards just one these days, a large, wiggling/vibrating one called Blossom from AcmeJoy.
Ultimately, whatever you get will have to be what you think will work for you, but here are a few tips I’ve learned with my exploration:
1) Definitely buy one with a remote control. Reaching down there, no matter how clean you are, to adjust the speed or settings is not something you’re going to want to do when you’re trying to arouse yourself.
2) You don’t have to do an enema to clean yourself out, but you’ll definitely want to wait until a couple of hours after a bowel movement and after you’ve cleaned yourself as much as possible with wipes or a bidet. Inserting the toy into a condom or a latex glove is a good way of making sure it stays clean, although pretty much every toy out there is waterproof and can be scrubbed with soap and water after.
3) Lube is your friend. Use it generously. Trying to insert something into your anus and rectum without lube is going to hurt and possibly cause damage.
4) If you’re going to sit or lay somewhere with a lubed toy up your anus, sit on a towel, tee shirt or pillowcase you don’t need anymore and put that in the wash after each use. Don’t sit directly on furniture.
5) Make sure you’ve emptied your bladder. Vibrating toys in that area are going to make you feel like you have to pee sometimes. If your bladder is empty, it will only feel that way and you’ll learn to appreciate the sensation and tell it apart from actually having to pee. If your bladder is less than empty, you might have to stop what you’re doing and actually go pee.
6) It could feel like you’re going to poop all over the toy. In my experience, unless you haven’t fully evacuated your bowels, it only feels that way, and even though you might have a little bit of feces on the toy or whatever you wrapped it in when you take it out, that’s to be expected and cleanup is usually fairly easy. The feeling that you’re about to poop can actually be a sign that you’re close to a prostate orgasm but learning to ignore that and trust your body is VERY FUCKING HARD when you feel like you’re about to shit yourself.
7) It can take several days, weeks or even months to find the correct toy, vibration, speed, intensity and location inside your rectum to cause an actual prostate orgasm, but once you have one, you’ll want to keep having them as often as your body will let you. It should take less time to find spots that enhance regular orgasms.
8) Achieving a prostate orgasm can be tricky. It usually requires being visually stimulated with porn or by a partner and stimulation of the penis by yourself or a partner while the prostate toy is doing its thing. Then you have to find the right time to stop the stimulation of the penis and keep up the prostate stimulation. Stop it too soon and you’ll lose the momentum and have to start over. Stop it too late and you’ll just have a regular orgasm, with maybe some extra sensation and intensity due to the prostate toy. Do it at the right time and your whole body will feel like it’s exploding from deep inside your soul and it may last 15 seconds or more, far longer than a traditional orgasm. I had one months ago that lasted about a minute and wasn’t stopping and I had to shut off the toy and take off my VR goggles to make it stop because the sensations were too damn intense to keep it going. Most of my prostate orgasms last 20-30 seconds but even with all of my experience, they’re still rare and I usually end up with just a really intense regular orgasm, which is still better than a regular orgasm. But I’ve had a couple dozen prostate orgasms and not knowing when it’ll happen makes me want to keep trying. (Although I’ve stopped recently to focus all of my sexual energy on my PS escorts).
9) Toys are available on a number of different sites, including Amazon, and at local sex toy shops. I’ve found the best for me are from AcmeJoy and Honey Play Box but as with many providers we talk about on here, YMMV.
Discuss.
For those who don’t know, a prostate is a male only organ that’s located near the bladder, around the urethra, essentially inside the rectum.
The prostate has a ton of nerve endings and when stimulated properly, it can intensify orgasms or even cause a prostate orgasm, which is essentially a full body orgasm that’s intense as fuck and can last much longer than a traditional orgasm.
I used to think any “butt stuff” meant a guy was gay or had latent gay feelings but straight guys who get past the stigma and learn to enjoy prostate stimulation on their own or with a willing partner can open up new worlds of pleasure. About a year and a half ago, I went to a urologist for urinary problems that turned out to be chronic prostatitis. He gave me an antibiotic but also told me it may just be inflammation and not an infection and that prostate stimulation could help. After some research, I decided to buy a vibrating toy and I haven’t looked back.
You can stimulate the prostate somewhat by rubbing the taint, the area between the testicles and anus, but the best way to stimulate the prostate is with a toy that inserts into the rectum through the anus. There are all different size, shape, and style toys to choose from. Some just sit inside the rectum, some vibrate at different speeds and intensities and others pulsate, wiggle, or thrust either with or without the vibration. Some are very small, some are very large and some have additional features like remote controls, cock rings and taint stimulators. Prices range from around $40-$250, depending on what features you’re after. I’ve bought 5 or 6 different models and still have most of them, but I gravitate towards just one these days, a large, wiggling/vibrating one called Blossom from AcmeJoy.
Ultimately, whatever you get will have to be what you think will work for you, but here are a few tips I’ve learned with my exploration:
1) Definitely buy one with a remote control. Reaching down there, no matter how clean you are, to adjust the speed or settings is not something you’re going to want to do when you’re trying to arouse yourself.
2) You don’t have to do an enema to clean yourself out, but you’ll definitely want to wait until a couple of hours after a bowel movement and after you’ve cleaned yourself as much as possible with wipes or a bidet. Inserting the toy into a condom or a latex glove is a good way of making sure it stays clean, although pretty much every toy out there is waterproof and can be scrubbed with soap and water after.
3) Lube is your friend. Use it generously. Trying to insert something into your anus and rectum without lube is going to hurt and possibly cause damage.
4) If you’re going to sit or lay somewhere with a lubed toy up your anus, sit on a towel, tee shirt or pillowcase you don’t need anymore and put that in the wash after each use. Don’t sit directly on furniture.
5) Make sure you’ve emptied your bladder. Vibrating toys in that area are going to make you feel like you have to pee sometimes. If your bladder is empty, it will only feel that way and you’ll learn to appreciate the sensation and tell it apart from actually having to pee. If your bladder is less than empty, you might have to stop what you’re doing and actually go pee.
6) It could feel like you’re going to poop all over the toy. In my experience, unless you haven’t fully evacuated your bowels, it only feels that way, and even though you might have a little bit of feces on the toy or whatever you wrapped it in when you take it out, that’s to be expected and cleanup is usually fairly easy. The feeling that you’re about to poop can actually be a sign that you’re close to a prostate orgasm but learning to ignore that and trust your body is VERY FUCKING HARD when you feel like you’re about to shit yourself.
7) It can take several days, weeks or even months to find the correct toy, vibration, speed, intensity and location inside your rectum to cause an actual prostate orgasm, but once you have one, you’ll want to keep having them as often as your body will let you. It should take less time to find spots that enhance regular orgasms.
8) Achieving a prostate orgasm can be tricky. It usually requires being visually stimulated with porn or by a partner and stimulation of the penis by yourself or a partner while the prostate toy is doing its thing. Then you have to find the right time to stop the stimulation of the penis and keep up the prostate stimulation. Stop it too soon and you’ll lose the momentum and have to start over. Stop it too late and you’ll just have a regular orgasm, with maybe some extra sensation and intensity due to the prostate toy. Do it at the right time and your whole body will feel like it’s exploding from deep inside your soul and it may last 15 seconds or more, far longer than a traditional orgasm. I had one months ago that lasted about a minute and wasn’t stopping and I had to shut off the toy and take off my VR goggles to make it stop because the sensations were too damn intense to keep it going. Most of my prostate orgasms last 20-30 seconds but even with all of my experience, they’re still rare and I usually end up with just a really intense regular orgasm, which is still better than a regular orgasm. But I’ve had a couple dozen prostate orgasms and not knowing when it’ll happen makes me want to keep trying. (Although I’ve stopped recently to focus all of my sexual energy on my PS escorts).
9) Toys are available on a number of different sites, including Amazon, and at local sex toy shops. I’ve found the best for me are from AcmeJoy and Honey Play Box but as with many providers we talk about on here, YMMV.
Discuss.
