I’ve spoken on this once or twice, looking for answers. I’m a curious sonofabitch by nature, so when something as strange as humiliation kink comes into view, I put it out there for two reasons. The first being, figuring out the type of person that generally enjoys being humiliated. The second, the kind of sexual satisfaction this person is getting from being humiliated. Even more, you’re paying to be humiliated, so that’s another factor that comes into play. I’ve been doing this for too long, and to this day I still don’t understand it.
My curiosity didn’t come from nowhere. A provider—or financial dominatrix, whatever you want to call this young woman—posted her “tribute,” showing someone sending her money. This is really nothing new, as providers do this constantly as some kind of way of flaunting their gains. When she did it, though, she also posted a text chain of her humiliating this guy.
Now, I understand it takes two for this to happen. The provider can’t humiliate someone who doesn’t want to get humiliated. This is a kink, and it’s what gets them off—there’s no shame in that. I’m just trying to figure out what the client is getting out of this.
In the back of my mind, I figure there’s more to this arrangement. I think of a number of different scenarios that just make more sense to me as I go through it all. Maybe this is an SB scenario, and this is their way of communicating before the client meets her in the deluxe apartment he pays for. Then he enjoys an all-day fuckathon, where he takes the humiliation he received and works it out with some consensual sex. If not that, then maybe the client meets with the provider later, where he gets his balls crushed or kicked on—some kind of physical humiliation to make what he went through and had to pay for worth it. These sound better than just getting roasted and paying for it.
No shit—I posted something like this last year. That guy was actually completely humiliated, from wearing a gimp mask to being shitted on. And that might still be better than what dude over here is going through. At least he got to be touched by the provider—in his own way, of course.
I’m beginning to understand: everyone gets off in their own way. After paying for a service, I enjoy my intimacy with that person through physical touch and basically vanilla sex compared to what some of these kinks are. I just know I can’t be into a kink where being humiliated and degraded is a form of sexual gratification. It may do something for some—it just doesn’t do it for me.
On another note, $1,000 BRO!! $1,000.....
My curiosity didn’t come from nowhere. A provider—or financial dominatrix, whatever you want to call this young woman—posted her “tribute,” showing someone sending her money. This is really nothing new, as providers do this constantly as some kind of way of flaunting their gains. When she did it, though, she also posted a text chain of her humiliating this guy.
Now, I understand it takes two for this to happen. The provider can’t humiliate someone who doesn’t want to get humiliated. This is a kink, and it’s what gets them off—there’s no shame in that. I’m just trying to figure out what the client is getting out of this.
In the back of my mind, I figure there’s more to this arrangement. I think of a number of different scenarios that just make more sense to me as I go through it all. Maybe this is an SB scenario, and this is their way of communicating before the client meets her in the deluxe apartment he pays for. Then he enjoys an all-day fuckathon, where he takes the humiliation he received and works it out with some consensual sex. If not that, then maybe the client meets with the provider later, where he gets his balls crushed or kicked on—some kind of physical humiliation to make what he went through and had to pay for worth it. These sound better than just getting roasted and paying for it.
No shit—I posted something like this last year. That guy was actually completely humiliated, from wearing a gimp mask to being shitted on. And that might still be better than what dude over here is going through. At least he got to be touched by the provider—in his own way, of course.
I’m beginning to understand: everyone gets off in their own way. After paying for a service, I enjoy my intimacy with that person through physical touch and basically vanilla sex compared to what some of these kinks are. I just know I can’t be into a kink where being humiliated and degraded is a form of sexual gratification. It may do something for some—it just doesn’t do it for me.
On another note, $1,000 BRO!! $1,000.....
