I love to watch porn. But lately it's been seeming to get a little misogynistic I don't mean the occasional smack on an fat butt, I mean I like to see an ass get smacked too, but at some point the violence seems to be excessive. Unwarranted violence does nothing to enhance the eroticism of the scene; so what is the reason for it? most of times it seems degrading and demeaning to the females in the scene 'Maybe I'm getting older but I have not been able to adapt to this new era where women are slapped, choked, or spit on I mean I guess to each his own; just not my cup of tea. Even the intercourse gets aggressive, the "pounding" I'm watching a scene and the brutality begins with a guy choking her I believe it's called "Erotic Asphyxiation" and when you do it to yourself while Masturbating is called "Auto Asphyxiation" or something like that but certain things kind of ruined the mood. I watched one scene where this guy actually put his "booted" foot on the female's head while hitting her doggy style. I don't know about you but that doesn't start my engine if anything kills the mood. I guess cuz I'm one of the people that prefer intimacy prior to intercourse that I like extended foreplay I like affectionate sex, not this new form of female subjugation porn. It's a lot more prevalent in today's porn, you can say it's "The Norm." At some point somebody's going to get slapped or spit in your mouth (kissing's OK) or I don't know to me that's not exciting; also I'm not a fan of race plays and that's one of the things that was turning me off with Ryan Conner. She's monetized a racial slur that is an erection killer especially being a black man. My great grandmother once told me "it's not what you're called, but what you answer to," and I definitely do not answer to that . If bigotry in porn I don't think bigotry's the right term because I don't believe she's a bigot. I just think she's insensitive to people of color when she uses that terminology. I mean how many sales does that account for? Why not just make it a special order and really get paid for that way we don't all have to be party to it . She works very well with Will Tile. Some of the scene appear to have a sense of intimacy about them without the brutality or signs of misogyny . My favorite on screen couple believe it or not is Ryan Conner and Will Tile. For the most part I enjoy most of their work together. Some of them other guys, Manuel Ferrara for example way too brutal, I don't even watch his scenes; we got one term for that type of treatment we call people like that from the "Slap-ah-Ho tribe." I grew up in a household with domestic violence was a part of life they say that domestic violence is a learned behavior but I do not hit women it takes a lot for me to call a woman a "Bitch!" So it offends my sensibilities when I see some of the things that are not enhancing the eroticism of the scene; why is it in the scene? I mean that's just my opinion, that's how I feel.
