This is a good explanation of what's going on. I bet she is having marital or business troubles, I remember at a time she had a business with her husband, don't know if that is still happening. Her wanting to be called by her real name, also shows that she wants to distance herself from this world but not the money. By acting the way she is, that's hurting her wallet and with less business coming in, I bet she will become more irate and standoffish.
She had always been on my bucket list, after reading all this, maybe not.