I think many people are put off by the idea of a paying for a dinner date/arm candy appointment. Girls like Alex Coal (Tryst Agency), Nika Venom, and a few others offer it as the only option. There is no guarantee of sex or anything other than a hug goodbye after. The whole point of hiring an escort is guaranteed sex so why pay and go through all of it to come up short? Maybe I'm crazy, but I don't mind the idea at all. You miss %100 of the shots you don't take right?
There’s also the fact that I like the idea of being wanted and there is something exciting about the thrill of it. I’m drawn to the idea that if things progress, it’s like I passed some sort of test and shit, that feels good. I've gone on 1 dinner date and 1 lunch date with pornstars, one of them worked out. Below is my experience. Story time…
I landed a dinner date with an active pornstar (RR) last year. Two skype calls set up through OF for $150 each. Vibes were good so on the 2nd call popped the question "i'm going to be in LA in a month, would love to take you out to dinner." She agreed and gave me her number. No mention of sex or anything, just a night out at a nice restaurant.
Now I'm pretty good at holding a convo. HOWEVER...this night was tough at first for whatever reason. She was nervous since we met in person for the first time or something, but it was a struggle. After a drink as the night went on things got better.
After what amounted to around a $400 dinner total, I walked her back to her car since she didn’t valet and parked down the street. As we walked of course I had sex on my brain (her tight jeans were killing me, she’s got a beautiful fit body) so I was searching for an in to respectfully propose coming back to my hotel. To my surprise she asks if I want to come back to her apartment to chill. Of course I agree she texts me the address and I walk back to the valet to get my car.
I get to her apartment and we have another drink and just talk. She's not even next to me, I'm sitting on the couch that I've seen her fuck on in a few scenes, she's like kneeling on her floor at the coffee table. Still wondering in my head damn will this happen? After about an hour, we started talking about sex and our likes and dislikes. I felt it was time to go for it and said jokingly “all this talk of sex is making me wish I was having it” she smiled, climbs on top of me and said, do you want to? We make out DFK, she slides down and blows me on the couch in her living room. Her dog sitting there staring at me lol
We move to the bedroom and she asked when I was last tested. I had a full panel test 4 days old. She said her test was 10 days old and she was getting retested the following day so if I wanted to wrap it up she understood. I opted to. Sex was very good, we fucked in a lot of positions. She was telling me to bite her nipples hard which was kinda crazy but oh well. Did what I was asked. I finished in the bag in prone doggie. It was super late, and she had to take her dog for a walk so I kissed her goodbye and let myself out.
Later the next day, I texted her "thanks, had fun last night". She replied she did too and then sent me a lengthy message explaining how she doesn’t have sex for fun anymore, she only charges guys to film sex for her OF. She didn’t charge me cause I treated her to good time and she wasnt sure how I felt about filming. I didn't ask for too many details but replied maybe next time we'll film.
I’m well aware not every dinner date is going to end like this. I think I’ll mix these in with seeing PS providers for full service. I have a few more dinner dates I’m trying to line up in LA for next month, and I'm strongly considering Nika Venom if I visit Tampa. The morale of the story is you never know. I won’t get upset if nothing happens, at least I tried.
There’s also the fact that I like the idea of being wanted and there is something exciting about the thrill of it. I’m drawn to the idea that if things progress, it’s like I passed some sort of test and shit, that feels good. I've gone on 1 dinner date and 1 lunch date with pornstars, one of them worked out. Below is my experience. Story time…
I landed a dinner date with an active pornstar (RR) last year. Two skype calls set up through OF for $150 each. Vibes were good so on the 2nd call popped the question "i'm going to be in LA in a month, would love to take you out to dinner." She agreed and gave me her number. No mention of sex or anything, just a night out at a nice restaurant.
Now I'm pretty good at holding a convo. HOWEVER...this night was tough at first for whatever reason. She was nervous since we met in person for the first time or something, but it was a struggle. After a drink as the night went on things got better.
After what amounted to around a $400 dinner total, I walked her back to her car since she didn’t valet and parked down the street. As we walked of course I had sex on my brain (her tight jeans were killing me, she’s got a beautiful fit body) so I was searching for an in to respectfully propose coming back to my hotel. To my surprise she asks if I want to come back to her apartment to chill. Of course I agree she texts me the address and I walk back to the valet to get my car.
I get to her apartment and we have another drink and just talk. She's not even next to me, I'm sitting on the couch that I've seen her fuck on in a few scenes, she's like kneeling on her floor at the coffee table. Still wondering in my head damn will this happen? After about an hour, we started talking about sex and our likes and dislikes. I felt it was time to go for it and said jokingly “all this talk of sex is making me wish I was having it” she smiled, climbs on top of me and said, do you want to? We make out DFK, she slides down and blows me on the couch in her living room. Her dog sitting there staring at me lol
We move to the bedroom and she asked when I was last tested. I had a full panel test 4 days old. She said her test was 10 days old and she was getting retested the following day so if I wanted to wrap it up she understood. I opted to. Sex was very good, we fucked in a lot of positions. She was telling me to bite her nipples hard which was kinda crazy but oh well. Did what I was asked. I finished in the bag in prone doggie. It was super late, and she had to take her dog for a walk so I kissed her goodbye and let myself out.
Later the next day, I texted her "thanks, had fun last night". She replied she did too and then sent me a lengthy message explaining how she doesn’t have sex for fun anymore, she only charges guys to film sex for her OF. She didn’t charge me cause I treated her to good time and she wasnt sure how I felt about filming. I didn't ask for too many details but replied maybe next time we'll film.
I’m well aware not every dinner date is going to end like this. I think I’ll mix these in with seeing PS providers for full service. I have a few more dinner dates I’m trying to line up in LA for next month, and I'm strongly considering Nika Venom if I visit Tampa. The morale of the story is you never know. I won’t get upset if nothing happens, at least I tried.
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