We’ve had a few threads and posts discussing what gifts to get providers of a more standard level, like a Carolina Herrera perfume or lingerie.
What I want to focus on in this post is what you could give a special provider - an ATF you’ve built a relationship with over at least 2–3 years, or a straightforward SB.
This is also how you reach that true “VIP” level - she’ll remember you more and give you that extra attention (trust me).
These are both gifts I’ve personally given, as well as what I would consider great options on the more expensive side.
Also, here’s a small bonus tip: if you want to get back together or restore contact with an old ATF/SB, send her “Hey, I’ve missed you” — or something similar - in her native language.
For example, my former SB speaks Spanish, so I would write “Holaa, te extraño” followed by a heart emoji or something sweet. Just that. It always works - you can bet everything on it.
Best of luck to any gentleman.
What I want to focus on in this post is what you could give a special provider - an ATF you’ve built a relationship with over at least 2–3 years, or a straightforward SB.
This is also how you reach that true “VIP” level - she’ll remember you more and give you that extra attention (trust me).
These are both gifts I’ve personally given, as well as what I would consider great options on the more expensive side.
- Gucci Marmont continental wallet
- Christian Louboutin Pumps/Heels
- Get-away weekend/week - You also do this because you NEED to be her number 1 client. Do this is you see a "future" with her, a future that lasts more than 5+ years.
Also, here’s a small bonus tip: if you want to get back together or restore contact with an old ATF/SB, send her “Hey, I’ve missed you” — or something similar - in her native language.
For example, my former SB speaks Spanish, so I would write “Holaa, te extraño” followed by a heart emoji or something sweet. Just that. It always works - you can bet everything on it.
Best of luck to any gentleman.
