To say this is easy, not to catch feelings, can sometimes be difficult, especially if you have known the woman for years.
Here is my opinion on how not to fall into this trap. It's important to ONLY communicate with her is when setting up an appointment. You have to remember this is her business. Why you might be able to consider each other friends when together, you have to remember that you are paying for her time. There are probably a lot of things you still might not really know about her, and it's probably best to keep it that way so the lines don't get blurred. So keep on telling yourself you know her as the lady she goes by in this world, not the lady she is when she is with her family or personal friends.
We are humans, so of course, some feelings might develop, but always remember this is mainly a fantasy for us, and that might include the personal connections we develop, even if we want to believe they are genuine.
It’s hard not to catch feelings of some kind when it’s like that. But I always know I feel more for her than she does for me, if she feels anything at all for me beyond dollar signs.
