You're at a real disadvantage having autism, because unless you're wired differently than the autistic people I know well, you have a hard time reading people's emotions and intentions. And that makes you vulnerable to manipulation and mistreatment. I hope I'm not generalizing much, because I have several autistic children, teens and adults in my family and circle of family friends, and that's a pretty absolute statement for all of them.
How do you know? It's hard for me, so it would be harder for you. It's not a specific set of things, but more about generalities and feelings. Hoe she reacts to certain things you say and do, both physically and verbally. It's what her eye contact and body language are like when you're talking, since that's the part of the date where they have to be most real and least like what they do in their career. And even then, you can't always know. If they offer to give you their cell phone number? That's a much better sign than them not offering it, but it's nowhere near an absolute. Do they respond when you text them? Quickly? Regularly? Do they text you or only respond when you text them? Do you text them too much and ruin something that might have been good? The answers to all of these are on a spectrum (see wha tI did there), and no one answer is definitive. Heck, no 5 answers that all point to positives can even be definitive. She may just be a good actress or be really good at playing guys for saps so they think there's more there and want to book more.
Every scenario is different. Every woman is going to have a different relationship with each guy and vice versa, but the same can be said for all relationships, not just porn star escorts and clients. Go into it knowing you could very well get used for a single purpose, and if it's more than that, you should know in time.
