Looking for some guidance from my fellow hobbyists, specifically those who see PS escorts in the US, although any advice that doesn’t insult me for wanting to give a provider a gift is welcome
I’ve been searching this forum for gift ideas for a few PS escorts I’m seeing this month. I’ve found a lot of banter about whether or not it’s appropriate or necessary to bring a gift beyond the agreed upon donation, but it’s already a given that I am going to, whether it gets me special treatment or not, whether it helps her remember me or not. I’m just looking for some gift ideas given my own challenging parameters.
It seems that $50-$200 isn’t unreasonable for 2+ hour sessions, which mine will all be. So flowers and candy would have to be only part of something larger, not the entire gift. I don’t want to drink much or at all in a session and don’t like wine or champagne so I feel that would be a waste or weird to give her a bottle and then not partake.
Only one of the girls has a wishlist I could poach from and it’s literally all lingerie, which she probably already has a ton of. I feel like a gift card is nice, if a bit impersonal, since it lets her spend the money on whatever she wants, but I recently bought a gift card for someone that had been tampered with at the store and was already redeemed by the time I gifted it (the merchant gave me the redemption date, which was after purchase/activation but before it was gifted).
My session locations, days and times all involve me traveling from my home to NYC by commuter rail for roughly an hour and spending several hours either in a hotel room or in a very open cubicle area in my company’s NYC office to kill time so perishable items and large items aren’t really viable. I have to be very careful having anything shipped to my house due to prying eyes. Also, going to a local store and bringing something home to bring with me means potentially being spotted by a friend, neighbor or family member and then having extra stuff to carry on my commute.
For my FMTY, I’ve considered a second envelope with cash to cover Uber expenses to and from the airports, since LA and NYC ride shares are very expensive and that expense comes out of her pocket (right?) and takes away from what I’m donating. But is that a little too impersonal and possibly insulting? Or is it a nice gesture, knowing the whole reason she’s doing this is for the money and I’m covering the cost of a big expense that I caused her?
Help?
