Gift ideas for PS providers

[Swytypy]

Looking for some guidance from my fellow hobbyists, specifically those who see PS escorts in the US, although any advice that doesn’t insult me for wanting...

Looking for some guidance from my fellow hobbyists, specifically those who see PS escorts in the US, although any advice that doesn’t insult me for wanting to give a provider a gift is welcome I’ve been searching this forum for gift ideas for a few PS escorts I’m seeing this month. I’ve found a lot of banter about whether or not it’s appropriate or necessary to bring a gift beyond the agreed upon donation, but it’s already a given that I am going to, whether it gets me special treatment or not, whether it helps her remember me or not. I’m just looking for some gift ideas given my own challenging parameters.

It seems that $50-$200 isn’t unreasonable for 2+ hour sessions, which mine will all be. So flowers and candy would have to be only part of something larger, not the entire gift. I don’t want to drink much or at all in a session and don’t like wine or champagne so I feel that would be a waste or weird to give her a bottle and then not partake.

Only one of the girls has a wishlist I could poach from and it’s literally all lingerie, which she probably already has a ton of. I feel like a gift card is nice, if a bit impersonal, since it lets her spend the money on whatever she wants, but I recently bought a gift card for someone that had been tampered with at the store and was already redeemed by the time I gifted it (the merchant gave me the redemption date, which was after purchase/activation but before it was gifted).

My session locations, days and times all involve me traveling from my home to NYC by commuter rail for roughly an hour and spending several hours either in a hotel room or in a very open cubicle area in my company’s NYC office to kill time so perishable items and large items aren’t really viable. I have to be very careful having anything shipped to my house due to prying eyes. Also, going to a local store and bringing something home to bring with me means potentially being spotted by a friend, neighbor or family member and then having extra stuff to carry on my commute.

For my FMTY, I’ve considered a second envelope with cash to cover Uber expenses to and from the airports, since LA and NYC ride shares are very expensive and that expense comes out of her pocket (right?) and takes away from what I’m donating. But is that a little too impersonal and possibly insulting? Or is it a nice gesture, knowing the whole reason she’s doing this is for the money and I’m covering the cost of a big expense that I caused her?

Help?

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[aliphotos120]

I think you are overthinking this. I go with a box of chocolates (something with a nice box) and every time the girls acts like I gave her a new car. Probably like 90% of guys don’t bring a gift so literally anything extra will put you in the lead.

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[Sexaddict]

Well, i can tell you What i used to buy my SB and you could go from there.

I used to buy her Gucci clothes, watches, wallets etc. Giftcards to whatever she liked back then. It goes a really long way

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[Swytypy]

I think you are overthinking this. I go with a box of chocolates (something with a nice box) and every time the girls acts like I gave her a new car. Probably like 90% of guys don’t bring a gift so literally anything extra will put you in the lead.

Is that 90% really true? I’m hardly an expert but it would seem to me that way more guys give at least something.

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[Swytypy]

Well, i can tell you What i used to buy my SB and you could go from there.

I used to buy her Gucci clothes, watches, wallets etc. Giftcards to whatever she liked back then. It goes a really long way

So gift cards aren’t too impersonal? I mean, I give gift cards to friends and family all the time, but for very different reasons! I don’t want to go crazy on expensive items, just make them smile with an “aww, he’s so sweet” moment, without seeming too cheap.

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[zm7000]

Nothing wrong with bringing a gift as it definitely enhances the sessions. Since there isnt a wishlist, this is where I'd recommend doing some recon on her socials to see what she likes. I've done it for dinner ideas to see what type of a food a girl likes. Same could apply if you see shes into shoes or a certain store.

If her socials are just her being cute and you cant get any ideas, just get chocolates or gift card is fine. Most guys don't bring anything so any gift should work as long as it isnt crazy. Nothing wrong with bringing lingerie either just have her try it on to set the mood.

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[Sexaddict]

So gift cards aren’t too impersonal? I mean, I give gift cards to friends and family all the time, but for very different reasons! I don’t want to go crazy on expensive items, just make them smile with an “aww, he’s so sweet” moment, without seeming too cheap.

If it was me, I would buy a $500 Gucci giftcard
That´s more than fine

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[spacemanspiff81]

Candles, lotions, body spray, perfume. Find out her favorite scents.

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[hundredpac]

Nothing wrong with bringing a gift as it definitely enhances the sessions. Since there isnt a wishlist, this is where I'd recommend doing some recon on her socials to see what she likes. I've done it for dinner ideas to see what type of a food a girl likes. Same could apply if you see shes into shoes or a certain store.

If her socials are just her being cute and you cant get any ideas, just get chocolates or gift card is fine. Most guys don't bring anything so any gift should work as long as it isnt crazy. Nothing wrong with bringing lingerie either just have her try it on to set the mood.

Buy them gift cards to pet stores. They LOVE that shit. If they have pets of course. Target and Sephora is also a favorite.

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[zm7000]

Buy them gift cards to pet stores. They LOVE that shit. If they have pets of course. Target and Sephora is also a favorite.

Oh yea! Perfect example of social media recon. Hook up her dog/cat with a gift and see how quick she jumps on you lol

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[oc.businessman.33]

This is what I have done for the ladies that come see me at my hotel. I went on Amazon and bought a package of quality gift boxes. I then also purchased a box of thank you cards and gift box filler. This all came out to about under $100 since the gift boxes were really nice. Something they could reuse.

Next go to their socials and find their wishlist which it is typically Amazon. Buy a few items. I typically buy $100 to $200. Next instead of having it shipped directly to them have the items shipped to you. If you don't want them shipped to your home have them shipped to a Amazon drop box. If you have your Amazon account connected to someone else, make a new one with a separate email, no need to add prime, and ship for free as well.

Once the items arrive I pack them and bring them with me to my hotel. Once at my hotel I put together the gift box and fill in the thank you card. In the card I thank them for the opportunity to spend time with them and explain the gifts are a token of my appreciation. I'm telling you they reactions I have received when the girls walk in and I direct them to the gift box. They light up like little girls on Christmas day. I ask them if they would allow me the pleasure of watching them open the gifts then allow them to open everything one by one. It really does feel like Christmas for them.
The perks that follow.... priceless. Here is an example of my presentation:





Now, if this isn't an option because you are traveling then this is what I do. I go to their wishlist and buy $100 to $200 worth of items and I ship it to them. During the purchase process you can add a note. I always add a note thanking them for the opportunity to spend time together and how I am looking forward to seeing them. I tell them the gifts are a token of my appreciation. This also receives great response and typically the same perks.

I hope this helps.

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[hundredpac]

This is what I have done for the ladies that come see me at my hotel. I went on Amazon and bought a package of quality gift boxes. I then also purchased a box of thank you cards and gift box filler. This all came out to about under $100 since the gift boxes were really nice. Something they could reuse.

Next go to their socials and find their wishlist which it is typically Amazon. Buy a few items. I typically buy $100 to $200. Next instead of having it shipped directly to them have the items shipped to you. If you don't want them shipped to your home have them shipped to a Amazon drop box. If you have your Amazon account connected to someone else, make a new one with a separate email, no need to add prime, and ship for free as well.

Once the items arrive I pack them and bring them with me to my hotel. Once at my hotel I put together the gift box and fill in the thank you card. In the card I thank them for the opportunity to spend time with them and explain the gifts are a token of my appreciation. I'm telling you they reactions I have received when the girls walk in and I direct them to the gift box. They light up like little girls on Christmas day. I ask them if they would allow me the pleasure of watching them open the gifts then allow them to open everything one by one. It really does feel like Christmas for them.
The perks that follow.... priceless. Here is an example of my presentation:





Now, if this isn't an option because you are traveling then this is what I do. I go to their wishlist and buy $100 to $200 worth of items and I ship it to them. During the purchase process you can add a note. I always add a note thanking them for the opportunity to spend time together and how I am looking forward to seeing them. I tell them the gifts are a token of my appreciation. This also receives great response and typically the same perks.

I hope this helps.

These seems like it would be a hit if you were in a girls city but I don’t advise you to show up with this for a girl on tour. She’s gunna have to ship it back or decide what she wants to keep.

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[oc.businessman.33]

These seems like it would be a hit if you were in a girls city but I don’t advise you to show up with this for a girl on tour. She’s gunna have to ship it back or decide what she wants to keep.

You are correct, if she is on tour then buying items off their wishlist and shipping it to them would be the way to go.

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[Swytypy]

You are correct, if she is on tour then buying items off their wishlist and shipping it to them would be the way to go.

Your advice is fantastic in every way. You’re a complete legend to me for your exploits, reviews and advice. At some point in the future, I hope to be able to take advantage of the detailed advice you gave here and emulate your ingenuity and success.

However… all 3 of my providers will be on tour/traveling when I see them and only 1 has a wish list. I scoured social media and even asked one of the other 2 directly on a social platform if she had a wish list and got a “not at the moment” response, but haven’t gotten a response to my follow-up question about what kinds of things might be on it if someone wanted to randomly spoil her. And the one who has a wish list just has around 20 nearly identical pieces of different color lingerie on it. I’m hoping she’s already wearing existing lingerie when I get there!

So, I will continue to admire your ingenuity vicariously, keep this thread bookmarked for the future and consider some of the other advice I’ve been given so far on this thread for my May meetups.

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[oc.businessman.33]

Your advice is fantastic in every way. You’re a complete legend to me for your exploits, reviews and advice. At some point in the future, I hope to be able to take advantage of the detailed advice you gave here and emulate your ingenuity and success.

However… all 3 of my providers will be on tour/traveling when I see them and only 1 has a wish list. I scoured social media and even asked one of the other 2 directly on a social platform if she had a wish list and got a “not at the moment” response, but haven’t gotten a response to my follow-up question about what kinds of things might be on it if someone wanted to randomly spoil her. And the one who has a wish list just has around 20 nearly identical pieces of different color lingerie on it. I’m hoping she’s already wearing existing lingerie when I get there!

So, I will continue to admire your ingenuity vicariously, keep this thread bookmarked for the future and consider some of the other advice I’ve been given so far on this thread for my May meetups.

The likely reason she has sooo much lingerie is because she probably wears it and sells it. You would be helping her restock her supplies.
But if you are looking to make the best impression, these ladies love older men which means $$$cash$$$ is King my friend.

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[petefwa]

Paying them $1500 dollars plus for their time is more than sufficient.

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[Swytypy]

The likely reason she has sooo much lingerie is because she probably wears it and sells it. You would be helping her restock her supplies.
But if you are looking to make the best impression, these ladies love older men which means $$$cash$$$ is King my friend.

I’m 52 so I'm definitely “older” to the girls I’m meeting. Cash and gift cards may be my best options for now but I’ll definitely consider the lingerie wish list since I still have a few weeks for that one. Thanks again for the thoughtful advice!

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[oc.businessman.33]

I’m 52 so I'm definitely “older” to the girls I’m meeting. Cash and gift cards may be my best options for now but I’ll definitely consider the lingerie wish list since I still have a few weeks for that one. Thanks again for the thoughtful advice!

What I meant by older gentleman is the old men on the bills. Lol, like Benjamin Franklin.

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[Swytypy]

What I meant by older gentleman is the old men on the bills. Lol, like Benjamin Franklin.

Well, thankfully I’m not as old as Ben Franklin but apparently I’m naive or ignorant enough to have missed the reference. I’m so much more comfortable now with cash and gift cards than I was this morning, and have a few other ideas to explore as well. Thank you and everyone else for the great advice!

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[Swytypy]

Paying them $1500 dollars plus for their time is more than sufficient.

$1,500? Yeah, that’s the lowest hourly donation I’m making for the 3, and I’m seeing her for 4 hours plus paying her travel expenses. The other 2 are $2,500 per hour, both for multiple hours (and one may be higher for BBFS once I get there). Remember, I’m the guy whose first time was with Lily Lou (Tryst Agency) for 3 hours at one of the highest rates any girl charges. I’m starting off with a Go Big Or Go Home mindset in this hobby. So a few hundred dollars extra for gifts that can’t hurt and can only help make my experiences better and make the girls happier is 100% worth it for me.

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