Fair value of public (arm candy) dates?

[aliphotos120]

Going rate for these types of dates is typically $500 / hour to take a girl to dinner. My questions are: what would be considered a good return on...

Going rate for these types of dates is typically $500 / hour to take a girl to dinner. My questions are: what would be considered a good return on investment, and would girls adjust their rate depending on other factors? Examples:

1. Would a girl charge less for a higher end restaurant? Hell’s Kitchen is very nice, approx $150 -200 a person for dinner. French Laundry is a three star Michelin and could be $500 per plate before drinks. My thought is the woman wouldn’t really care unless it was her favorite place or maybe if she was a food snob she may appreciate the gesture (but still wouldn’t discount her rate). I love Hell’s Kitchen btw so not a slight on them at all.

2. A second activity other than dining would be concert / clubbing / event (yet to hear any concrete anecdotes of this though). This one I could see her relaxing the cost per hour for hard to get tickets (at least I would hope so for Like Taylor Swift floor seats). Or if you got a girl vip passes to Coachella, maybe she lets you tag along?

3. Last activity I could think of for this type of date is taking a girl shopping … I hope that if you give a girl say $2000 to shop for a day, surely you don’t need to pay her per hour as well?

Might be thinking of getting a plus one for a concert this fall

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Assume if it's an "arm candy date" you are just paying her to hang out with you so pay her hourly rate + and also cover any expenses dont be that guy and try and split the bill or something or expect her to hang out with you for free shes legit giving up her time to be in your company... im sure if you were doing a multi hour thing or something a discount could be arranged but definitely check with the provider first...

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[Townbizz54]

Let’s put it this way if you want to pay a public date rate with no sex, you’ll get just that and no she’s not adjusting her rate based on where you’re taking her. Either pay her rate or alone.
If you think you’re gonna want to fuck her pay her her normal rate and if you can’t afford that find someone you can

Example,
took a regular whom I’ve seen many times to a concert front row meet and greet with Jason aldean. Fucked her before, fucked her after had an amazing night didn’t necessarily do the math on how much 2 90 minutes full service date and 6 hours in the public would be but it all evens out, saw her again we spent that date in the bedroom the entire time and turned the room into a strip club, same rate, cus we had sex… both dates were the same rate cus basically they were both overnights
that is basically what an overnight/full Day date is, unless you specifically tell the girl I want to fuck you for 8-10 hours straight and try to get 10 nuts out

Fast forward to next Month, it’s is becoming likely she’ll be going to something with me that is a public setting and would be meeting a lot of my close friends and a couple cousins, this date is not about sex and we have discussed it already and yes it is significant lower rate,plus a dress hair and nails, with an option for her to spend the night at her regular rate based on a lot of circumstances that are unknown until the day of.
that is how most “arm candy date’s” work, if you need a date for a public setting, that is what she is, basically a girlfriend and the girls then can decide if the want to offer you more beyond being arm candy

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[Townbizz54]

The shipping thing couple be discuss with a regular, prehaps they want a new outfit or a peice of jewelry. If there just going to spend the cash anyway and you know her well enough you you introduce the idea of have a sugar baby type of arrangement and put that money towards a date but I think the pout you are missing is if you physically take her out shopping, you are paying her rate, if you want to spoil her on that date that is completely up to you to do so, and without discussing it prior, you should expect noting in return


Also with a a REGULAR you could discuss a high end vacation but you need to know this girl well enough to not have to ask the question if you know her well enough to ask

Another example, paying for fake tits, or a photos shoot ect, if you do that for a girl im sure she would make it up to you in services or spend some time with you publicly if that is all you are interested in,

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[6lover9]

What Townbizz54 said. I booked multiple dates with a regular. First was meeting her for a couple of nights in a city I needed to be in. Booked at her regular rate for multiple days. Second was a social date when I was visiting her city a couple of weeks later. We went to a play at one of the summer venues and then came back to the city and had dinner. At the end of dinner she asked me to go to her place because she was horny and wanted sex; didn't ask or expect anything extra (although I gifted her with something I knew she wanted the next time we met).

Basically, be a mensch and many things become plausible.

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[Townbizz54]

Another way of putting it is this
Arm candy. Be a gentleman expenct a little pda but nothing more maybe hood thing will happen, save some money, be able to put that money into a fun time like front row ticket or nice restaurants.

I actually have plans to do this in Vegas to kill some time during the day when I make it there to place some futures before football season
(Side note you can buy a regular a future(long term sports investment, gambling is for suckers lol) give her the slip and say if it cashes that money goes towards a future date, I’ve done this for years, works great with gilrs into sports and had a couple pay out 5 figures on a 250 investment,)

Overnight, still be a gentleman but know that you can ask about sneaking into the bathroom at the concert or restaurant or getting some road head or whatever your mind comes up with and she’ll at minimum have to say she not open to anything in public but you’ll have plenty of fun in the hotel

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[hundredpac]

Met an up and coming OF girl that is starting to get a tiny bit of traction and I’m trying to set up a date with her soon. She’s never been on a date with a fan but she said she likes the idea of being taken out to a nice place and maybe do some activities. Don’t know if it will lead to anything but I’m going to try lol.

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[aliphotos120]

Sounds like best way is to set up a regular date and then inquire after you get to know her, which coincides with my experience as well.

Has anyone tried the other way (take a girl out in public before private dates)? I got to phase 1 a few times with some dancers but never advanced to phase 2 that way.

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[Townbizz54]

Sounds like best way is to set up a regular date and then inquire after you get to know her, which coincides with my experience as well.

Has anyone tried the other way (take a girl out in public before private dates)? I got to phase 1 a few times with some dancers but never advanced to phase 2 that way.

I feel like you would benefit from asking Mr tryst this question

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[Joel Goodson]

Met an up and coming OF girl that is starting to get a tiny bit of traction and I’m trying to set up a date with her soon. She’s never been on a date with a fan but she said she likes the idea of being taken out to a nice place and maybe do some activities. Don’t know if it will lead to anything but I’m going to try lol.

How did you set it up?

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[hundredpac]

She went on OF live not many tippers I offered to cash app her for a video call and we hit it off talking for a bit. I was pushing to meet up this weekend but she went to her hometown. Trying to take her out this coming weekend though.

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[Joel Goodson]

She went on OF live not many tippers I offered to cash app her for a video call and we hit it off talking for a bit. I was pushing to meet up this weekend but she went to her hometown. Trying to take her out this coming weekend though.

This is my next endeavor lol

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[king-sama4u2nv]

I'm speaking from what I believe your getting at OP, so if I'm wrong just say so.

I think it all comes down to the provider you're seen and even if that. Kitt Jones (Tryst Agency) was talking about one of her clients taking her to Chic-Fella at one point and that seemed as if it was enough for her. Alex Coal (Tryst Agency) was arm candy for a member here and I believe they went to some new gold place in Las Vegas afterwards when out to eat. Don't believe it would have cost to much. Some women want that extravagant dinner or lunch while others want to keep it simple. Then there's the other others who really can careless as they're being paid to be there with you.

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[Swytypy]

I'm speaking from what I believe your getting at OP, so if I'm wrong just say so.

I think it all comes down to the provider you're seen and even if that. Kitt Jones (Tryst Agency) was talking about one of her clients taking her to Chic-Fella at one point and that seemed as if it was enough for her. Alex Coal (Tryst Agency) was arm candy for a member here and I believe they went to some new gold place in Las Vegas afterwards when out to eat. Don't believe it would have cost to much. Some women want that extravagant dinner or lunch while others want to keep it simple. Then there's the other others who really can careless as they're being paid to be there with you.

I took Alex Coal (Tryst Agency) to a local NJ diner/hole in the wall last October and she had a blast because it was all about the conversation.

And I finally took Kitt to Chick-fil-a for breakfast the day we went to Disney

It’s not always about the cost of the restaurant. It’s about the quality of the company.

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[Townbizz54]

I took Alex Coal (Tryst Agency) to a local NJ diner/hole in the wall last October and she had a blast because it was all about the conversation.

And I finally took Kitt to Chick-fil-a for breakfast the day we went to Disney

It’s not always about the cost of the restaurant. It’s about the quality of the company.

Completely agree but but another prospective is nobody likes doing that stuff alone so if you’re gonna spend the money on the experience like eagles at the spear(hmmm that’s sounds fun actually) might as well have a hot date to keep you company

But that is why chemistry prior to spending big money on things like that is key.
It’s easy for a girl and client to fake chemistry and small talk for an hour. It’s impossible to do it for a extended period of time for a high number of people

If dropped big money on things like basketball games concerts and vacation but the thing is I wanted to go regardless and then I found amazing company to join some time we hook up sometimes we don’t, but we had fun at the event regardless. But I’ve learned, do things the girl is into, of She hates Disney don’t Disney, if she likes basketball not concerts take her to a basketball game. If it’s something specific ask her if she’s into it if not find someone else.

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