I spent 2024 only seeing porn stars. First through agencies and lately, as I’ve gotten more experienced, known and brave, privately. I just saw my first non-PS yesterday, Nicky Belle (Tryst Agency), although she doesn’t consider herself in the EC category (she should be).
Over the last month, I’ve been more active on BlueSky, where there’s been an explosion of activity with ECs, many of whom are in or near NYC, or who could travel here. The more I see their posts and their websites with their rates, expectations and wishlists, the more questions I have about what to expect. So I’m hoping for some insights from this group.
I typically book 2 hours with PS escorts, hoping for some good conversation and 1-2 rounds of play. I’ve occasionally booked longer but will never book shorter. I always give gifts in addition to my donation, usually around $200 in item(s) and/or gift card, sometimes higher, rarely lower. Conversation is a key part of my dates for me.
The general impression I’ve gotten from following and researching ECs is that this kind of date is usually available, but isn’t the norm, isn’t necessarily respectful, isn’t what they want and wouldn’t put me in the best light as a client.
It feels as though their desire and expectation is to see refined gentlemen with larger pockets who will buy them large gifts from their wish lists and take them on 4-8 hour dates that include dinner and events like broadway shows, opera, museums, etc. as a way of getting to know each other first, and then continue offering gifts between dates.
To be clear, I don’t mean that to sound disrespectful. Everybody is obviously looking to make as much money in their chosen career as possible. This is just an impression, not a judgment. I am very willing to hear opinions that prove me wrong.
I’m not really looking to be anyone’s regular client right now or go on very long or ornate dates to establish a rapport before having intimate time together, but I also don’t want to be disrespectful or book something and seem like a cheapskate who doesn’t understand who she is or what she’s looking for. I also understand that each EC, each client, each man, each woman, are all different people with different approaches to the provider/client relationship.
I also test gold panel/mgen/swabs before every date and haven’t had an orgasm with a condom since 1999, despite multiple attempts. I also get the impression that asking for bare service is frowned upon and in some cases, grounds for blocking, and is rarely done except maybe with trusted repeats.
I adore and respect women and am just looking for companions to spend quality time with to enjoy my life as much as I can within the bounds of my life situation. I’m just getting started as a client and don’t know what my long term desires (or even funds) will be. I may be very known on here for my many lengthy reviews but my first visit with an escort of any kind was April 8, 2024, just 8 months ago.
What do you guys think? Am I reading things wrong? Am I overthinking this? Any insight from guys who have seen multiple ECs would be extremely welcome.
I also would love to hear from the ECs who have been active on this forum like @BriLV and @litalecherous.
Over the last month, I’ve been more active on BlueSky, where there’s been an explosion of activity with ECs, many of whom are in or near NYC, or who could travel here. The more I see their posts and their websites with their rates, expectations and wishlists, the more questions I have about what to expect. So I’m hoping for some insights from this group.
I typically book 2 hours with PS escorts, hoping for some good conversation and 1-2 rounds of play. I’ve occasionally booked longer but will never book shorter. I always give gifts in addition to my donation, usually around $200 in item(s) and/or gift card, sometimes higher, rarely lower. Conversation is a key part of my dates for me.
The general impression I’ve gotten from following and researching ECs is that this kind of date is usually available, but isn’t the norm, isn’t necessarily respectful, isn’t what they want and wouldn’t put me in the best light as a client.
It feels as though their desire and expectation is to see refined gentlemen with larger pockets who will buy them large gifts from their wish lists and take them on 4-8 hour dates that include dinner and events like broadway shows, opera, museums, etc. as a way of getting to know each other first, and then continue offering gifts between dates.
To be clear, I don’t mean that to sound disrespectful. Everybody is obviously looking to make as much money in their chosen career as possible. This is just an impression, not a judgment. I am very willing to hear opinions that prove me wrong.
I’m not really looking to be anyone’s regular client right now or go on very long or ornate dates to establish a rapport before having intimate time together, but I also don’t want to be disrespectful or book something and seem like a cheapskate who doesn’t understand who she is or what she’s looking for. I also understand that each EC, each client, each man, each woman, are all different people with different approaches to the provider/client relationship.
I also test gold panel/mgen/swabs before every date and haven’t had an orgasm with a condom since 1999, despite multiple attempts. I also get the impression that asking for bare service is frowned upon and in some cases, grounds for blocking, and is rarely done except maybe with trusted repeats.
I adore and respect women and am just looking for companions to spend quality time with to enjoy my life as much as I can within the bounds of my life situation. I’m just getting started as a client and don’t know what my long term desires (or even funds) will be. I may be very known on here for my many lengthy reviews but my first visit with an escort of any kind was April 8, 2024, just 8 months ago.
What do you guys think? Am I reading things wrong? Am I overthinking this? Any insight from guys who have seen multiple ECs would be extremely welcome.
I also would love to hear from the ECs who have been active on this forum like @BriLV and @litalecherous.
