Elite Companion etiquette and expectations

[Swytypy]

I spent 2024 only seeing porn stars. First through agencies and lately, as I’ve gotten more experienced, known and brave, privately. I just saw my first...

I spent 2024 only seeing porn stars. First through agencies and lately, as I’ve gotten more experienced, known and brave, privately. I just saw my first non-PS yesterday, Nicky Belle (Tryst Agency), although she doesn’t consider herself in the EC category (she should be).

Over the last month, I’ve been more active on BlueSky, where there’s been an explosion of activity with ECs, many of whom are in or near NYC, or who could travel here. The more I see their posts and their websites with their rates, expectations and wishlists, the more questions I have about what to expect. So I’m hoping for some insights from this group.

I typically book 2 hours with PS escorts, hoping for some good conversation and 1-2 rounds of play. I’ve occasionally booked longer but will never book shorter. I always give gifts in addition to my donation, usually around $200 in item(s) and/or gift card, sometimes higher, rarely lower. Conversation is a key part of my dates for me.

The general impression I’ve gotten from following and researching ECs is that this kind of date is usually available, but isn’t the norm, isn’t necessarily respectful, isn’t what they want and wouldn’t put me in the best light as a client.

It feels as though their desire and expectation is to see refined gentlemen with larger pockets who will buy them large gifts from their wish lists and take them on 4-8 hour dates that include dinner and events like broadway shows, opera, museums, etc. as a way of getting to know each other first, and then continue offering gifts between dates.

To be clear, I don’t mean that to sound disrespectful. Everybody is obviously looking to make as much money in their chosen career as possible. This is just an impression, not a judgment. I am very willing to hear opinions that prove me wrong.

I’m not really looking to be anyone’s regular client right now or go on very long or ornate dates to establish a rapport before having intimate time together, but I also don’t want to be disrespectful or book something and seem like a cheapskate who doesn’t understand who she is or what she’s looking for. I also understand that each EC, each client, each man, each woman, are all different people with different approaches to the provider/client relationship.

I also test gold panel/mgen/swabs before every date and haven’t had an orgasm with a condom since 1999, despite multiple attempts. I also get the impression that asking for bare service is frowned upon and in some cases, grounds for blocking, and is rarely done except maybe with trusted repeats.

I adore and respect women and am just looking for companions to spend quality time with to enjoy my life as much as I can within the bounds of my life situation. I’m just getting started as a client and don’t know what my long term desires (or even funds) will be. I may be very known on here for my many lengthy reviews but my first visit with an escort of any kind was April 8, 2024, just 8 months ago.

What do you guys think? Am I reading things wrong? Am I overthinking this? Any insight from guys who have seen multiple ECs would be extremely welcome.

I also would love to hear from the ECs who have been active on this forum like @BriLV and @litalecherous.

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I follow a lot of elites on Blue Sky, I think we follow a lot of the same. I’d say the dif to me between them on SM is that PS don’t ever or rarely even post about providing, so it’s hard to gauge what they prefer longer dates with dinner, ect or the 2 hour appointments you are doing.

I think there is some strategy posting all the travel, FMTY, expensive gifts, ect. I think they are trying to communicate thier value, and I’m sure they do prefer long dinner/event dates, but I don’t think that would be a majority of their volume.

I won’t speak for @BriLV, but since she is in LV, I imagine a lot of guys fly in for work/leisure and want someone to watch a show with, so they tack that time on. There is so much to do in LV and you don’t want to do it alone, so you get dinner/event/dessert.

I’ll use myself as an example. I have an ATF PS in Vegas, but the rates are just so much more to spend a huge chunk of time 5+ hours doing an event. Also, if she is really well known and you don’t want to draw attention to yourself, it may not be a good move to have a top 20 PS as arm candy.

high end elites are that balance of not having to pay the PS rates, and getting to book someone for 5+ hours to go to a show without drawing too much attention, they are experts in descretion, and most the time are they know the city you are visiting really well, so they have tons of recommendations and cool spots to take them to because they have done most everything in the city.

I don’t think you are offending them with a 2 hour appointment. From all your reviews, you put a lot of effort and thought into your appointments, and I think that is more appreciated than anything else, from what I gather and read on blue sky.

I like following elites on BS, you can get a feel for their personality. IMO, if they have 2 hour rates/packages on their site, they are more than happy to do that duration. I’ve actually seen a few posts from elites that talk about how they appreciate the guys who save up to see them just as much as the whales.

As far as asking for bare, I think that is so provider specific. The upside of booking a PS is that you talk to the agency about that, so you never have to have that awkward convo/request with them. I’d say from what I gather, Bare is less likely with an elite, but I think making the ask and offering to pay a premium and for their test is probably the best way to go.

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[Swytypy]

I follow a lot of elites on Blue Sky, I think we follow a lot of the same. I’d say the dif to me between them on SM is that PS don’t ever or rarely even post about providing, so it’s hard to gauge what they prefer longer dates with dinner, ect or the 2 hour appointments you are doing.

I think there is some strategy posting all the travel, FMTY, expensive gifts, ect. I think they are trying to communicate thier value, and I’m sure they do prefer long dinner/event dates, but I don’t think that would be a majority of their volume.

I won’t speak for @BriLV, but since she is in LV, I imagine a lot of guys fly in for work/leisure and want someone to watch a show with, so they tack that time on. There is so much to do in LV and you don’t want to do it alone, so you get dinner/event/dessert.

I’ll use myself as an example. I have an ATF PS in Vegas, but the rates are just so much more to spend a huge chunk of time 5+ hours doing an event. Also, if she is really well known and you don’t want to draw attention to yourself, it may not be a good move to have a top 20 PS as arm candy.

high end elites are that balance of not having to pay the PS rates, and getting to book someone for 5+ hours to go to a show without drawing too much attention, they are experts in descretion, and most the time are they know the city you are visiting really well, so they have tons of recommendations and cool spots to take them to because they have done most everything in the city.

I don’t think you are offending them with a 2 hour appointment. From all your reviews, you put a lot of effort and thought into your appointments, and I think that is more appreciated than anything else, from what I gather and read on blue sky.

I like following elites on BS, you can get a feel for their personality. IMO, if they have 2 hour rates/packages on their site, they are more than happy to do that duration. I’ve actually seen a few posts from elites that talk about how they appreciate the guys who save up to see them just as much as the whales.

As far as asking for bare, I think that is so provider specific. The upside of booking a PS is that you talk to the agency about that, so you never have to have that awkward convo/request with them. I’d say from what I gather, Bare is less likely with an elite, but I think making the ask and offering to pay a premium and for their test is probably the best way to go.

Appreciate the detailed analysis! Will definitely take these thoughts into account as I move forward.

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[Townbizz54]

Before I respond to This I have a question, how old are you and how long have you been seeing escorts in general ?

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[Swytypy]

Before I respond to This I have a question, how old are you and how long have you been seeing escorts in general ?

53, and my first escort was 8 months ago, but I’ve seen nearly 25 since then. All porn stars except Nicky yesterday.

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[FishMonger]

I've seen more EC's than PS, but its more or less the same. They all want longer dates and bigger gifts. If they offer 1 hr, they take 1 hr clients unless their calendar is full. I have always seen them when they are touring, e.g. outcalls. I've never seen anyone that would do BBFS, that is almost exclusive to PS providers. Gifts/Diners/Champagne all go a long way.

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[Townbizz54]

Ok so you know how women work. Sometimes younger kids do not that why I ask

This is kinda all over the place but whatever. For reference I’ve been seeing girls for over 20 years and my numbers are mind blowing but I feel like it makes me know how these women work and what this lifestyle/hobby whatever is like.

The girls you’re discribing want sugar daddy’s with no exclusivity, unless of course you want to give them 25-30k a month then the’ll lie to you and drive you nuts. Take you money and still see other guys while you’re at work. It’s the real girl friend experiences… I’ve been there sadly. These girls are great if you want to go on a vacation, have a work event, things like that. The gifts are unnecessary in my opinion but do help sometimes , save those for your real sugar baby.
Sometimes you’ll see these girls on seeking. It actually makes it pretty easy to set something up with them if you do lol

So the thing is this. Escorts all
Have different levels, starting with the street girls, then the ones online like private delights or Eros ect, then you get to the more “elite/exclusive” ones who are more usually more educated well spoken, beautiful ect. But they are all escorts at the end of the day with the goal of getting your money, like you mentioned that’s that’s job.
Get the money, get the guy to nut. Do as little
As possible. Get out the door. Go see the next guy.
They’re all same, they are hookers. Most just looking to make easy money. Maybe they start an only fans too, good for them

Pornstars are different, There is a massive differece between an escort with an only fans and a pornstar who escorts. these women do not get to their level Of success by being stupid. Yeah they’re sluts. Sex is fun, women can enjoy it too, personally i respect the grind of building the brand when they are young and able to.

That why me tryst is picky about the girls he does business with. This is a business not a hustle. And they earned those rates by getting into brazzers. Or other studios and building a million fan following ect

Doing this is a way for them to make money that can set them up for life if they’re smart about things. And they know that some of the guys seeing them have the means to become long term client and take them on trips and things like that, so maybe that’s your best bet. If you’re looking a longer more exclusive situation find a pornstar you genuinely get along with and do longer dates with her when she’s in town and then go have some random fun with the others that come through.

Not gonna lie, going on vacation with a pornstar is a fun experience if you have the financial ability to pull it off correctly. But you don’t do that with any girl you’ve only spent a couple of hours at a time time, and that’s where these elicit companions can be a good option as well, but personally I’d rather g9 with a fun pornstar, who knows it’s business and we argee on the business, not a girls who wants to suck every penny possible out of me with gifts, bags, jewelry, spa days and other bull shit. Name a price if it works it works. Any thing extra should be up to me the client not expected from you. That’s why I laugh.when hookers ask for tip

In contrast I’ve hand many pornstar who have planned a night out including them paying for dinner concert tickets ect. Yeah it probably built into the 10k overnight rate but still it was nice to in theory let a girl plan everything all I had to do was show up to Vegas or hop on a plane to Miami. That’s not happening with a hooker

Jessa Rhodes once told me, she knows it’s not the sex that guys pay her for, it’s jessa Rhodes experience, yeah we want to fuck her but that means they want to get to know her, have someone to talk to, listen to, whatever it may be. She’s spot on, pussy is pussy I’m trying to meet the pornstar. That why I’m giving her 4 figures and planning for a week and getting tested for her, not just seeing the girl who responds to a message at 9 pm and is willing or desperate enough to drive an hour for 500 bucks

With that said they(escorts) are all the same man and you’re better off sticking with the pornstars in your situation.. safety is there so you don’t need to use a condom, and if you treat a pornstar right they can become a great roster member knowing it’s a business relationship with no feeling but still be genuine and themselves. After all sex is sex and love is love, and these women have sex for a living and many have a family back at home. Know and respect that and your golden with the pornstars.

Seems like you’re in new youk so you have plenty of options coming through all year so there’s no need to settle down with one girl who is ultimately just looking to get your money.
but the porn girls in general have a different approach for a virity of reason, you mentioned you get tested regularly, so do they, and they are more comfortable with it becuse they use the same services for there job. And many are financially well Off with only fans etc which is why rates are what they are. 5k for Kendra sunderland might turn off a lot of guys. Good she doesn’t want to see them anyway and will Be just fine with out that money. But if you can afford 5k and want to see her. Then she’s going to make you enjoy every second that you’re with her for a $1.83 a second. I highly recommend her if you can afford it. And without asking I assume hour 2-8 are more reasonable. It’s probably more and and starting point for longer dates. Maybe tryst can confim this.

But regarding bbfs traditional escort’s do not like doing that on the first date simple as that. And the one that offer should be a red flag. Testing is not the norm in that world and as a client you should have your guard up with the Girls that offer it, unless of course they do the same testing and offer their results as well.
That said, personally I think with the wrong head ofter and have always been ok but still. But it seems like you are careful for a reason. So
You probably want a girl who is equally careful.

The porn girls see it as a business yes but in general they know the Guys seeing them are fans who want to meet them and you generally are happy to meet their fans, and capitalize on the name and brand that they have built that allows them to charge much higher rates than traditional escorts, which also makes them more exclusive and less attainable for the average John who’s just looking to get laid on payday

Obviously it’s a business for them as well but in 20 years of doing this I can tell you this. The world of pornstar escorts is 100x better than the world of traditional escorts. I can count on one hand the number of bad pornstar experiences iv had over the years. If you treat them they way you describe they will appreciate you and give you a fantastic experience that will Only get better the more you see them.


Anyway off to meet new friend who’s in town dancing at the local strip club Tonight…. Any guesses?

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[Sexaddict]

So your very first encounter with any sex worker was earlier this year?

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[Swytypy]

This is kinda all over the place

This is definitely all over the place but if I understand everything in here correctly, your recommendation is to stick with porn stars and not venture over to elite companions at all?

Anyway off to meet new friend who’s in town dancing at the local strip club Tonight…. Any guesses?

Not a clue

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[Swytypy]

So your very first encounter with any sex worker was earlier this year?

I may have done a couple of things in my late teens and early 20s that I’m not proud of, but that was over 30 years ago and we’re not talking porn stars or elite companions. We’re barely talking escorts.

I saw Lily Lou (Tryst Agency) on April 8 of this year and haven’t looked back. That’s all I’m really counting.

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[SlyJr]

I've seen a mix of PS and EC. I haven't myself been able to make a solid distinction between the two as I approach each encounter the same. If I have been or am being viewed in a negative light, it hasn't presented itself to me yet. Considering I have seen most providers on more than 1 occasion, i think it would have done so with the ECs.

Im interested in what you found as being the sentiment of ECs. I kinda classified them all as SWs and ECs being those that don't do it for the camera or public consumption. Maybe my simplistic categorization is incorrect. I guess it's the client's way of thinking that drives the bus ultimately. As you mentioned you are just trying to enoy yourself and have quality time with these providers. That is my same exact sentiment, it just may manifest itself differently. Im all about going out on a "date" or doing something, however they either begin and/or end with us in bed. For another client it may just be putting the girl on her back or stomach and going to work.

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[Swytypy]

I've seen a mix of PS and EC. I haven't myself been able to make a solid distinction between the two as I approach each encounter the same. If I have been or am being viewed in a negative light, it hasn't presented itself to me yet. Considering I have seen most providers on more than 1 occasion, i think it would have done so with the ECs.

Im interested in what you found as being the sentiment of ECs. I kinda classified them all as SWs and ECs being those that don't do it for the camera or public consumption. Maybe my simplistic categorization is incorrect. I guess it's the client's way of thinking that drives the bus ultimately. As you mentioned you are just trying to enoy yourself and have quality time with these providers. That is my same exact sentiment, it just may manifest itself differently. Im all about going out on a "date" or doing something, however they either begin and/or end with us in bed. For another client it may just be putting the girl on her back or stomach and going to work.

I never want to walk into a hotel room or house and start removing clothing right away. Too transactional. Well, on the first date, at least. When I saw Kylie Rocket the second time, we started making out and taking clothes off nearly immediately at her direction. There was immediate comfort and attraction (hey, she liked me, too).

But as a general rule, I hang out and talk for 30-60 minutes before anything happens except maybe some hands roaming onto each other’s arms and legs as we sit next to each other on the bed. I want to get to know the women I’m with. I want to form some sort of emotional connection so that the physical stuff is better. The main exception to that was Kate Dalia (Porn Companions) who started coming on to me within about 10 minutes. Round 1 was still fun but round 2 was so much more intimate and personal after we got to talk in between.

But going out on a real(ish) date first just doesn’t feel like “me”. Maybe it’s the fact that my life situation pretty much requires weekday/daytime dates of only a few hours or so, with rare exceptions.

Since I’m not looking to date anyone for real or start a relationship with a sex worker that would lead to anything beyond provider/client and maybe occasionally a legitimate friendship, I guess investing time and money in something more than a 2-3 hour booking feels like a waste. So if my interests don’t align with hers, I probably shouldn’t even bother trying to book.

The trick is to find an EC whose headspace aligns more with mine. Don’t look at the ones who post pics of elaborate dates, luxury suites and expensive gifts they were given. But then am I lowering/sacrificing quality/experience as well? And does that even make it worth it?

This is where I’m so torn and confused. Some of the ECs I follow and engage with on BlueSky seem absolutely incredible. But maybe they’re not for me?

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[gypsyman]

I’m in the NYC/NJ area and for what it’s worth - I’ve been doing this about 10 years and have seen a mix of elite companions and pornstars - I’d say it’s 85%-15% and reason being is because I enjoy elite companions over pornstars, but that’s just me. You don’t have to do all the lavish things you mentioned to have a great experience. The longest I’ve ever done is 4hrs and I’ll typically buy some stuff off their wishlist or get them gift cards but nothing crazy. If I were you I’d test the waters

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[NoLovewithGlove]

If bbfs is an absolute must for you, it’s easier to achieve that with a ps. However, this shouldn’t dissuade you from not seeing ecs, especially if you seem to like their online personality. It’s very possible to obtain bbfs in a first meeting with an ec. If you know an ec has an agent/booker, that’s one route to ask. I personally use a booker who books exclusively ps and ig type providers and she knows that I always ask for bbfs as an option, and she asks for me. I’ve also asked during the meeting itself when things are getting hot and heavy. Like you, I always test before meeting with a new provider so in the chance that the ec will be open to it but needs proof, you’re ready. I’ve had a 60% hit rate on bbfs in the first meeting in the heat of the moment when there was never a discussion prior.

And for those of you who would never do that without seeing the other person’s clean test, I accept the risks, and I’ve never had a std from an ec.

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[BriLV]

I spent 2024 only seeing porn stars. First through agencies and lately, as I’ve gotten more experienced, known and brave, privately. I just saw my first non-PS yesterday, Nicky Belle (Tryst Agency), although she doesn’t consider herself in the EC category (she should be).

Over the last month, I’ve been more active on BlueSky, where there’s been an explosion of activity with ECs, many of whom are in or near NYC, or who could travel here. The more I see their posts and their websites with their rates, expectations and wishlists, the more questions I have about what to expect. So I’m hoping for some insights from this group.

I typically book 2 hours with PS escorts, hoping for some good conversation and 1-2 rounds of play. I’ve occasionally booked longer but will never book shorter. I always give gifts in addition to my donation, usually around $200 in item(s) and/or gift card, sometimes higher, rarely lower. Conversation is a key part of my dates for me.

The general impression I’ve gotten from following and researching ECs is that this kind of date is usually available, but isn’t the norm, isn’t necessarily respectful, isn’t what they want and wouldn’t put me in the best light as a client.

It feels as though their desire and expectation is to see refined gentlemen with larger pockets who will buy them large gifts from their wish lists and take them on 4-8 hour dates that include dinner and events like broadway shows, opera, museums, etc. as a way of getting to know each other first, and then continue offering gifts between dates.

To be clear, I don’t mean that to sound disrespectful. Everybody is obviously looking to make as much money in their chosen career as possible. This is just an impression, not a judgment. I am very willing to hear opinions that prove me wrong.

I’m not really looking to be anyone’s regular client right now or go on very long or ornate dates to establish a rapport before having intimate time together, but I also don’t want to be disrespectful or book something and seem like a cheapskate who doesn’t understand who she is or what she’s looking for. I also understand that each EC, each client, each man, each woman, are all different people with different approaches to the provider/client relationship.

I also test gold panel/mgen/swabs before every date and haven’t had an orgasm with a condom since 1999, despite multiple attempts. I also get the impression that asking for bare service is frowned upon and in some cases, grounds for blocking, and is rarely done except maybe with trusted repeats.

I adore and respect women and am just looking for companions to spend quality time with to enjoy my life as much as I can within the bounds of my life situation. I’m just getting started as a client and don’t know what my long term desires (or even funds) will be. I may be very known on here for my many lengthy reviews but my first visit with an escort of any kind was April 8, 2024, just 8 months ago.

What do you guys think? Am I reading things wrong? Am I overthinking this? Any insight from guys who have seen multiple ECs would be extremely welcome.

I also would love to hear from the ECs who have been active on this forum like @BriLV and @litalecherous.

Some ECs have a longer minimum, but my minimum for new clients is 2 hours. I know a few who do 3 hrs minimum, but most are 90 minutes on up.

Being in Vegas, I think many girls can appreciate why clients might only have 2 hours to spend together. The conventions can really tighten someone’s schedule and also, not everyone is going to commit to 4 hours or more right away. I’ve had many clients book a smaller session and then upgrade to a dinner date next time or ask to extend in session.

Bare services though would be out of the question for me and most girls I know. If someone even asks me about having unprotected sex then I won’t see them again in the future.

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[Swytypy]

Some ECs have a longer minimum, but my minimum for new clients is 2 hours. I know a few who do 3 hrs minimum, but most are 90 minutes on up.

Being in Vegas, I think many girls can appreciate why clients might only have 2 hours to spend together. The conventions can really tighten someone’s schedule and also, not everyone is going to commit to 4 hours or more right away. I’ve had many clients book a smaller session and then upgrade to a dinner date next time or ask to extend in session.

Bare services though would be out of the question for me and most girls I know. If someone even asks me about having unprotected sex then I won’t see them again in the future.

Thank you for your honest answers. I would never book less than 2 hours and could easily see booking 3 or more to spend extra time chatting, eating somewhere, etc. with the right woman, especially given the difference in rates for EC vs. porn stars.

I think the no bare service is the most challenging thing for me. Having done the full gold panel, mgen and oral/anal swab tests 2 dozen times last year, I know I’m as clean as is required for mainstream porn, and I’ll continue testing before each date whether bare is on the table or not, out of respect for my date. So it’s not like I’d just be asking for something disrespectfully out of the blue and trying to risk anyone’s health or well-being. So I would hope that simply asking wouldn’t blacklist or block me in the future given that context.

If it’s not available at all under any circumstances, including with the full test regimen, I’ll have to weigh the advantages of seeing an EC vs the likelihood (based on historical precedent) that the physical sensations will be too dulled for me to fully enjoy the date. While companionship itself, conversation and foreplay are things I thoroughly enjoy, I also very much like and seek out physical intimacy at every level on my dates.

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[usngub00]

Thank you for your honest answers. I would never book less than 2 hours and could easily see booking 3 or more to spend extra time chatting, eating somewhere, etc. with the right woman, especially given the difference in rates for EC vs. porn stars.

I think the no bare service is the most challenging thing for me. Having done the full gold panel, mgen and oral/anal swab tests 2 dozen times last year, I know I’m as clean as is required for mainstream porn, and I’ll continue testing before each date whether bare is on the table or not, out of respect for my date. So it’s not like I’d just be asking for something disrespectfully out of the blue and trying to risk anyone’s health or well-being. So I would hope that simply asking wouldn’t blacklist or block me in the future given that context.

If it’s not available at all under any circumstances, including with the full test regimen, I’ll have to weigh the advantages of seeing an EC vs the likelihood (based on historical precedent) that the physical sensations will be too dulled for me to fully enjoy the date. While companionship itself, conversation and foreplay are things I thoroughly enjoy, I also very much like and seek out physical intimacy at every level on my dates.

yeah with all due respect to her, im taking the pornstar with bare every time over condom. especially since we test everytime we see a pornstar. I'd rather pay the higher premium and potential upcharge just for max pleasure, intimacy and the "fantasy" we get from their scenes. I think to be blacklisted is extreme especially if we mention testing for it. But to each their own.

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[sunofgo]

Considering that most elites are raising their rates AND the minimum time for each booking, I don’t think there’s a big difference in the cost.
I get that people enjoying talking with escorts, but I am skeptical. What if she’s just saying what I want to hear?
Sometimes elites don’t look like their pics, whereas that’s harder to pull off with active PS (obviously this is different for retired PS)
Also, PS are more open to my needs, which is why I prefer PS.

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[oc.businessman.33]

Some ECs have a longer minimum, but my minimum for new clients is 2 hours. I know a few who do 3 hrs minimum, but most are 90 minutes on up.

Being in Vegas, I think many girls can appreciate why clients might only have 2 hours to spend together. The conventions can really tighten someone’s schedule and also, not everyone is going to commit to 4 hours or more right away. I’ve had many clients book a smaller session and then upgrade to a dinner date next time or ask to extend in session.

Bare services though would be out of the question for me and most girls I know. If someone even asks me about having unprotected sex then I won’t see them again in the future.

@BriLV - what is the stigma with clients asking for bare service? Many of us gentleman here are willing to get full panel industry tested with MGen and swabs. I would assume providers like yourself get regularly tested. If the client can prove they are responsible and regularly test, why blacklist them for asking?

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[pandamonious898]

Some ECs have a longer minimum, but my minimum for new clients is 2 hours. I know a few who do 3 hrs minimum, but most are 90 minutes on up.

Being in Vegas, I think many girls can appreciate why clients might only have 2 hours to spend together. The conventions can really tighten someone’s schedule and also, not everyone is going to commit to 4 hours or more right away. I’ve had many clients book a smaller session and then upgrade to a dinner date next time or ask to extend in session.

Bare services though would be out of the question for me and most girls I know. If someone even asks me about having unprotected sex then I won’t see them again in the future.

For a regular client, would ECs be more receptive to providing bare services with tests? I imagine there’s a level of comfortability that should be established before either party even entertains the idea.

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