This is a question that has been brought up and discussed here and there, but I wanted to look at it from a fresh perspective.
The main question—above all the sub-questions one could ask when it comes to this topic—is:
Is it possible to build a "friendship" with a provider?
Last night, I visited a Thai girl and spent a lovely hour with her. She was surprisingly fluent in English, so we could communicate naturally without a translator, which was a great change.
When the hour was up, I left and went home. But when I got back, I received a WhatsApp message from her—something I’ve never experienced with any other girl before.
It read something that I
absolutely know about myself—but hearing it from a provider? That was fantastic. (Yes, Lisa is her stage name that she uses in her ad)
She’s a very attractive Thai lady with sharp facial features—something that should never be taken for granted. Will I see her again? Probably.
I would say yes, it
is possible to build a genuine friendship with a provider—absolutely—without the girl seeing you solely as a client. I’m talking about hanging out, watching a movie, having a few beers together… without paying (at least not for her time). I’ve done that with four or five girls. I visited them repeatedly until they felt comfortable enough to give me their personal number, and from there, well… you just start texting now and then. It usually evolves naturally from that point.
I have a great example here on the forum:
@Swytypy and
@alexisjames. Based on the reviews of Alexis, it really seems like they’ve built an authentic friendship. It doesn’t come across as superficial—trust me, I know what
those feel like, and I wouldn’t wish that experience on any gentleman.
TL;DR: Yes, it’s very possible to form a real friendship with a provider. At that point, you might not even classify her as a “provider” anymore.
Just a few thoughts from someone with 10 years of experience in this hobby.
