ATF’s & being a regular client

[Sexaddict]

I’m sure most of us have had, or currently have, an ATF provider—or maybe even multiple ATFs over the years. Personally, I really enjoy having an ATF. It’s...

I’m sure most of us have had, or currently have, an ATF provider—or maybe even multiple ATFs over the years. Personally, I really enjoy having an ATF. It’s a unique connection: you know her, she knows you. There’s no awkwardness, no uncertainty about whether you’ll get along, as there often is when meeting a new girl for the first time (though I’ll admit, I enjoy the excitement of booking girls that I haven’t been with, as well).

I used to have an ATF I would visit regularly over the course of 2.5 years. We built a great connection, but sadly, she eventually left the industry. It did leave me hanging. Losing an ATF is tough.

What’s the longest time any of you have known a provider and kept going back to see her? How did that relationship evolve over time?

I’ll admit, I miss having a good ATF. A provider that I can talk to about anything, someone who feels like a trusted confidante as well as a provider. I’m currently on the lookout for someone who can fill that role again. There’s nothing quite like finding THAT girl.

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[spacemanspiff81]

Since 2020. So many times I lost count. More than 30 times but probably less than 50. We started with 2 hour dates but soon grew to 3, then 4, then 4+ off the clock

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[golakers2002]

I’ve had four ATFs over the decades, and all left the business. You are right, it is absolutely a unique connection. When they were the ATFs, visits were very often, and meeting new people just didn’t happen with the frequency as I would in the absence of an ATF. Meetings were more spur of the moment - mutual texting. For me, if I was in the area and found myself available “how are you? In your area, up for a visit?”, or I would get the “hey! Long time no see, stop by tonight?”. There would always be a little more time talking and catching up, and questions about things I would, or they would like (in terms of in session).

The first one was three years. She stopped as she had a recurrence of cancer (and passed away). She actually asked to see me when she was placed in Hospice. We cried together, and I held her for a couple of hours. We also laughed, smiled, and said our goodbyes.

The second was close to four years. She would come to my area often for work, but then stopped working all together for personal reasons. She actually joined me in Hawaii for a business trip, and it was incredible. After she stopped working, we would see each other close to where she lived, and then she starting dating someone, and stopped altogether. .

The third was for about 2.5 years. She had a booker, eventually let me contact her directly, and we did. One of the smartest people I met. She was going through community college and went to a university and actually wrote about her work in her personal statement. She stopped right before COVID, and started dating someone, and is doing well.

The most recent was about 4 years (stopping in 2023). She called it taking a break, but she started dating someone, and I think they will be getting married. I’m really happy for her - she’s an incredible person. Actually brought her to a destination wedding and was an incredible experience as well.

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[SlyJr]

I have only been on this path for a little over a year. I have seen most on more than one occasion. The ones I've seen the most have started from this summer but we see each on avg about once a month. Crazy thing is none of them live here in NYC. I found one by chance on a site for escorts to post ads and she has quickly become an ATF for me. I've hit in multiple states and countries...something about that one. If she lived here, I'd probably have no need to hit any of these other women at all. Suppose to swing back thru this month.

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[NoLovewithGlove]

I have 4 providers who I’ve been seeing for 10+ years. One of them is Destiny Dixon (Tryst Agency), who I first met in 2014.

The longest provider relationship I’ve had is 14+ years, and the one after her is 13+ years. I consider those two as two of the most trustworthy people I know where I can tell them pretty much anything and everything. They’ve both met my friends, one has met my siblings, and I’ve had more overnights and short vacations than I can count with both. Neither are advertising and only see long term clients such as myself, so I imagine that if one/both get into a relationship, or if I get into one, what we have will end.

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[GeneWood]

Crazy thing is none of them live here in NYC.

I fell into a habit of mostly seeing escorts who don't live in NYC, including my favorite, who I see 3 or 4 times a year.

There was one girl who lives here that I saw 4 times in 2 months. That was gonna make me go broke.

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[SlyJr]

I fell into a habit of mostly seeing escorts who don't live in NYC, including my favorite, who I see 3 or 4 times a year.

There was one girl who lives here that I saw 4 times in 2 months. That was gonna make me go broke.

Lol it def adds up but it's tough when you know the level of service that person provides and they come a callin.

I try not to reach out to them, but if they hit me...game. set. match.

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[loudman6969]

I have a unique experience since I started in this hobby in October of 2022. I mostly go through local ads in my area in California, mostly PD and some others y'all know, but some ATFs I can just say are those who are not into this job for very long (visiting because they need money or are single mom's), mostly out of the country, mostly south America (some are doctors and crazy professions in their countries but the money is bad over there, that's why they do this according to many from various countries), it's true the women down there are something else with their kindness and charm, people talking about passport bros but they been coming out here lol. And in that span, I can say usually it all ends for the most part in this world but my goodness have some ATFs become like a girlfriend, going out to actual dates in public with hands held, meeting my parents and friends and traveled and overnights and yeah, all that type of stuff has happened, essentially dating these part time or only visiting escorts, while being in this hobby because of the local latinas that visit and the connection that has been felt after at least multiple dates. That being said, details and with who are several more than I imagined, but just know I feel all good things in this hobby truly must come to an end and that's the unfortunate part, one way or another even if it's real, it's only for the time that the woman wants to also have you around to some extent. It's a beautiful feeling to have someone else genuinely care a little more than normal and do with you what they don't when they are 'working'. My ex girlfriend is a provider (yes, you heard that right, well ex or part time, she's actually a doctor in her country, no joke, saw pictures, her credentials and she always recommended stuff when ill or something, and yes we even went out in public and stuff, helped were only 4 years apart and spoke the native language perhaps, but just a tip or what happened to me) if that doesn't tell you anything, crazy times and year gents! But enjoy yourselves, just be careful and cautious.

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[Sexaddict]

I have a unique experience since I started in this hobby in October of 2022. I mostly go through local ads in my area in California, mostly PD and some others y'all know, but some ATFs I can just say are those who are not into this job for very long (visiting because they need money or are single mom's), mostly out of the country, mostly south America (some are doctors and crazy professions in their countries but the money is bad over there, that's why they do this according to many from various countries), it's true the women down there are something else with their kindness and charm, people talking about passport bros but they been coming out here lol. And in that span, I can say usually it all ends for the most part in this world but my goodness have some ATFs become like a girlfriend, going out to actual dates in public with hands held, meeting my parents and friends and traveled and overnights and yeah, all that type of stuff has happened, essentially dating these part time or only visiting escorts, while being in this hobby because of the local latinas that visit and the connection that has been felt after at least multiple dates. That being said, details and with who are several more than I imagined, but just know I feel all good things in this hobby truly must come to an end and that's the unfortunate part, one way or another even if it's real, it's only for the time that the woman wants to also have you around to some extent. It's a beautiful feeling to have someone else genuinely care a little more than normal and do with you what they don't when they are 'working'. My ex girlfriend is a provider (yes, you heard that right, well ex or part time, she's actually a doctor in her country, no joke, saw pictures, her credentials and she always recommended stuff when ill or something, and yes we even went out in public and stuff, helped were only 4 years apart and spoke the native language perhaps, but just a tip or what happened to me) if that doesn't tell you anything, crazy times and year gents! But enjoy yourselves, just be careful and cautious.

Wow! What an amazing story.
My former SB was a latina from Paraguay, and I find Latinas incredibly sensual, which I absolutely adore.

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[Manny5]

Having regulars or ATFs is great. As you said, it’s just nice having someone you already knows in and out.

I have several girls I’ve seen for extended periods and years, but one who I have seen for 10 years and have even seen her at times even when she was retired. When she was retired at one point and in a serious relationship we stopped seeing each other, but still communicated frequently. The day after they broke up she texted and within an hour we were together.

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[loudman6969]

Wow! What an amazing story.
My former SB was a latina from Paraguay, and I find Latinas incredibly sensual, which I absolutely adore.

Latinas, I believe are some of the best hands down! A bit different depending which country, but they are sensual, and feminine and usually quite sexy and a ton of fun! I had a blast doing anything, just driving around singing aloud and listening to reggaeton or Brazilian music was a blast, great connection and conversations, very natural, she enjoyed herself too. My ex is half and half .

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[Solitaire]

Wow! What an amazing story.
My former SB was a latina from Paraguay, and I find Latinas incredibly sensual, which I absolutely adore.

Viva Paraguay! Nderakore!

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[SlyJr]

Latinas get em every time. Having spent some vacations in the Caribbean, South and Central America, those ladies know how to treat a man. Still have a few in DR still hitting me on WhatsApp.

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[theeaglekid]

All my ATFs are either past it, or no longer provide.

I see one PSE regularly, but that will now stop as she has lost a lot more weight and no longer fits my “thicc” requirements.

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