Advice needed

[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Be nice. We were all rookies at one point. We don't know what level of socialization any members have.


Keep in communication and see if she actually sees you in the date you guys agreed on. Do not under any circumstances send anything more to her. No matter what. If she breaks the date then you got scammed.

I also agree with others stay off PD. That site is way too sketchy.

Thanks dude that was my plan... and I kinda followed your example with the Emma Rosie (Tryst Agency) review but I guess as you had already seen her and trust eas established it was an entirely diff situation that I read wrong haha

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[lustman]

I'm honestly not sure if she has a Twitter but I could probably find out pretty easy i know she does have an IG with i think half like 50 or 100k followers

Hmmm...never seen sex work (i.e. escorting) really discussed on IG - the IG overlords shut that stuff down real fast. Twitter is a bit more wild west, though shadowbanning is a thing, well at least during the Dorsey era. Elon Musk era, no clue. Actually, bluesky may be an option too. If you attempt this, remember that you're just telling your side of the story. Don't issue threats; the court of public opinion would be what makes her reimburse you. But it kinda sounds like she's not on sex worker twitter? In which case...yeah, your SOL.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Hmmm...never seen sex work really discussed on IG - the IG overlords shut that stuff down real fast. Twitter is a bit more wild west, though shadowbanning is a thing, well at least during the Dorsey era. Elon Musk era, no clue. Actually, bluesky may be an option too. If you attempt this, remember that you're just telling your side of the story. Don't issue threats; the court of public opinion would be what makes her reimburse you. But it kinda sounds like she's not on sex worker twitter? In which case...yeah, your SOL.

Idk i mean technically I could post her PD profile on Twitter and IG

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Be nice. We were all rookies at one point. We don't know what level of socialization any members have.


Keep in communication and see if she actually sees you in the date you guys agreed on. Do not under any circumstances send anything more to her. No matter what. If she breaks the date then you got scammed.

I also agree with others stay off PD. That site is way too sketchy.

Also i totally wasn't gonna give her anything else besides a gift card or 2 and a little more cash but those can go to any provider haha

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[lustman]

Idk i mean technically I could post her PD profile on Twitter and IG

Yeah, but it's more about...okay, does she use her twitter to advertise and promote her services as an escort? Because that's the key really i.e. does she have a reputation / image she wants to protect. If her twitter is 100% separated from her escorting activities...yeah, you're probably SOL. Outing her PD probably wouldn't do much, unfortunately.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Yeah, but it's more about...okay, does she use her twitter to advertise and promote her services as an escort? Because that's the key really i.e. does she have a reputation / image she wants to protect. If her twitter is 100% separated from her escorting activities...yeah, you're probably SOL. Outing her PD probably wouldn't do much, unfortunately.

I'm following what your saying and no I don't think she has a escort specific Twitter or IG just her public persona social media so you're right it prob would backfire huge in my face

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[JakeyFootball19]

Yeah man don't get into the habit of outing women even if maybe they deserve it a bit. A lot of these women talk too. Plus it's just a waste of time and energy. The most valuable commodity that we have is time. Use that time to research and find better companions.

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[lvg99]

Be nice. We were all rookies at one point. We don't know what level of socialization any members have.

Definitely did not intend my comment as anything negative towards OP. Was just some self deprecation, while also confirming his original suspicions.

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[ludu]

I historically have had decent luck on PD. But there was definitely a change in 2024. There's a lot more Russian / Eastern European listings, and many of them have copy / pasted ads. There was a Russian I saw late 2022 who either got hacked or sold her profile this year, as the person advertising on her profile is totally different now. Disclaimer: this is from the point of view from someone who typically does searches in NorCal, where Eastern Europeans didn't even visit as much as the East Coast.

Ultimately, unless it is someone I have had bookmarked for a long time (before 2024), I would do a lot more research on someone from PD, before pulling any triggers.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Definitely did not intend my comment as anything negative towards OP. Was just some self deprecation, while also confirming his original suspicions.

Oh don't worry dude I didn't take it in any way offensly/offend me at all... I was 95% sure i was getting played just kinda wanted to be 100% sure and or see if anyone had any good ideas to possibly get my money back...also for the record it takes alot to offend me I. Grew up being a nerd in the 90s-2000s doing things like playing Gameboy at school and things like magic the gathering so I was an OG nerd b4 it was cool to be one in school so I got made fun of alot... also I am naturally a ginger so I have been the butt of jokes basically since my first day of kindergarten and thus gave me a pretty thick skin unless you insult Chevy car brand haha

Definitely did not intend my comment as anything negative towards OP. Was just some self deprecation, while also confirming his original suspicions.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

I historically have had decent luck on PD. But there was definitely a change in 2024. There's a lot more Russian / Eastern European listings, and many of them have copy / pasted ads. There was a Russian I saw late 2022 who either got hacked or sold her profile this year, as the person advertising on her profile is totally different now. Disclaimer: this is from the point of view from someone who typically does searches in NorCal, where Eastern Europeans didn't even visit as much as the East Coast.

Ultimately, unless it is someone I have had bookmarked for a long time (before 2024), I would do a lot more research on someone from PD, before pulling any triggers.

Yea I've had good luck on PD as well minus 2 weird experiences... I have had her profile bookmarked since b4 24, and she has been active since 2021 with current reviews from late November(no picture change/russian chick just a local speciality girl with lots of tattoos)so I didn't think she was gonna play me hence the other reason I gave her full donation

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[lvg99]

Oh don't worry dude I didn't take it in any way offensly/offend me at all... I was 95% sure i was getting played just kinda wanted to be 100% sure and or see if anyone had any good ideas to possibly get my money back...also for the record it takes alot to offend me I. Grew up being a nerd in the 90s-2000s doing things like playing Gameboy at school and things like magic the gathering so I was an OG nerd b4 it was cool to be one in school so I got made fun of alot... also I am naturally a ginger so I have been the butt of jokes basically since my first day of kindergarten and thus gave me a pretty thick skin unless you insult Chevy car brand haha

Similar age and interests here. Hell I still play Pokemon.

Glad you caught this girl early at least. I could learn a thing or two from you about intuition.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

I have nothing to do with whatever stupid shit comes after this post

Oh don't worry no stupid shit coming... someone else told me how bad it would backfire on me so it's all good her social media is safe haha

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Similar age and interests here. Hell I still play Pokemon.

Glad you caught this girl early at least. I could learn a thing or two from you about intuition.

Nah if I would of caught her early I would of never of hit her up let alone give her more than the original deposit.... the sad part is if she actually did take my money and run she legit will totally have to do a ton of work to rebrand herself which at this point would take way more than the hour or 2 of her time to meet me and have some fun haha... like I said she has till the new year to connect with me or schedule something b4 she gets completely outted

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[lvg99]

Nah if I would of caught her early I would of never of hit her up let alone give her more than the original deposit.... the sad part is if she actually did take my money and run she legit will totally have to do a ton of work to rebrand herself which at this point would take way more than the hour or 2 of her time to meet me and have some fun haha... like I said she has till the new year to connect with me or schedule something b4 she gets completely outted

Haha dude compared to me you got off EASY. Go through my post history if you want a laugh.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Similar age and interests here. Hell I still play Pokemon.

Glad you caught this girl early at least. I could learn a thing or two from you about intuition.

Right on I was never really that into Pokemon but obviously not judgement especially considering i still sometimes play DnD and a star wars game on my phone daily haha

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[lustman]

Right on I was never really that into Pokemon but obviously not judgement especially considering i still sometimes play DnD and a star wars game on my phone daily haha

Tabletop RPG's rule bro. So does Star Wars (though Disney's latest offerings have been...m'eh, lol)

Still have my fingers crossed for you that somehow this will result in a net positive, either the date happening (yay!) or you get your $ back (yay!) Good luck!

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Tabletop RPG's rule bro. So does Star Wars (though Disney's latest offerings have been...m'eh, lol)

Still have my fingers crossed for you that somehow this will result in a net positive, either the date happening (yay!) or you get your $ back (yay!) Good luck!

Oh trust me no one is hoping for a positive result more than me haha !!!

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

So after a "ghosting session" by her all weekend... I have decided to name drop this person although probably not as well known as other PS providers she is the one and only "Chloe Carter" she is on PD(how i located her) and after getting some advice from others I know I'm SOL on getting my money back did I make some mistakes along the way yes... but this is how we learn gonna post a review of her scamming on PD and TER later tonight when I calm down but also want to post one on her maybe admins can let me know correct section I'm guessing "possible scams"

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[Sexaddict]

So after a "ghosting session" by her all weekend... I have decided to name drop this person although probably not as well known as other PS providers she is the one and only "Chloe Carter" she is on PD(how i located her) and after getting some advice from others I know I'm SOL on getting my money back did I make some mistakes along the way yes... but this is how we learn gonna post a review of her scamming on PD and TER later tonight when I calm down but also want to post one on her maybe admins can let me know correct section I'm guessing "possible scams"

Yes, everyone needs to be aware of her to avoid what you've went through. Post a link to her ad in the possible scams section.

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