Going to see a provider for the first time tomorrow! any tips or things to keep in mind?

[BenDover69420]

Just to preface this I’m 20 years old and have already been semi embedded in the hobby since I was about 19. (fetish related sessions e.g footjobs/worship...

Just to preface this I’m 20 years old and have already been semi embedded in the hobby since I was about 19. (fetish related sessions e.g footjobs/worship etc) But this is the first time I’m going to be seeing a provider for actual sexual intercourse purposes.

I completed the screening and sent my deposit earlier with a reputable provider who’s had lots of good reviews on TER and other websites so I’m relatively safe from scamming and or having a bad experience. I’m pretty excited! Is there anything any of the long term hobbyists here have to tell me that I should keep in mind to make this a great experience for both of us?

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[BenDover69420]

I’ll be writing an in depth review of the session tomorrow btw

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Townbizz54]

Yeah here’s the best advice you’ll ever get. DO NOT FALL IN LOVE.
remember that. Be smart. Think with your head not your dick and have fun.

Enjoy yourself. Whatever you think you’re embarrassed about they’ve seen worse. Trust me.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Swytypy]

This is a good place to start. Enjoy!

Thread 'Guide for first time hobbyists'

Sep 3, 2024

I've noticed quite a few new gentlemen on here, so I think it's about time we share some tips and advice for those who are new to the whole escort setup.
Let's pass on our knowledge and experiences to help out the newcomers.

I lost my virginity to an escort, and based on my experience, that´s the way to do it. It happened in 2015 with a Polish MILF, probably around 32-35 years old. I was 18. As a first-timer, I made some mistakes that you should avoid.

What Not to Do:

1. Avoid Drinking (Too) Much: Having 2 or 3 beers as a first-timer is not a good idea. The alcohol...

• Sexaddict
• escorts providers sex
• Replies: 93
• Forum: General Escort Discussions

• 
• 

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[NJLover]

Shower when you get there before starting. 99% of providers will appreciate it (and many will make you do it anyway).

And as someone already said, try not to be self conscious about anything. Those providers have seen it all.

Remember, while we all take pride in making a beautiful woman cum, you are paying them to please you, not the other way around.

So go in, relax and have fun.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Swytypy]

Remember, while we all take pride in making a beautiful woman cum, you are paying them to please you, not the other way around.

Some of us enjoy giving as much as receiving, sometimes even more than receiving. Just sayin.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[ghost0]

Congrats! Who are you going to see if you don’t mind sharing?

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[NJLover]

Some of us enjoy giving as much as receiving, sometimes even more than receiving. Just sayin.

Oh I’m one of those people. But for a first timer, you shouldn’t be stuck in your head about performance. Just go have fun.

Funny related story, I learned everything I know about eating pussy from Natalia Milano, a popular North Jersey escort who I saw regularly when I first got into the hobby.

She guided me over our first few sessions on what she liked and didn’t.

DROVES of women have unknowingly thanked her over the years.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[BenDover69420]

Congrats! Who are you going to see if you don’t mind sharing?

Ally Mercer • Tryst.link

Ally Mercer is a female Escort from Queens, New York, United States. ❤ "The Owner Of Your Fav Nyash – Important Notice As of January 15, 2025, I no longer accept calls or texts from TextFree numbers. Please reach out via email or text only. No call..."

tryst.link

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[ghost0]

Ally Mercer • Tryst.link

Ally Mercer is a female Escort from Queens, New York, United States. ❤ "The Owner Of Your Fav Nyash – Important Notice As of January 15, 2025, I no longer accept calls or texts from TextFree numbers. Please reach out via email or text only. No call..."

tryst.link

Nice! Have fun!

My advice would be to treat it like you were on an actual date with someone you’re interested in.

Be kind, clean, dress well, and carry yourself like a gentleman.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[connman]

So go in, relax and have fun.

If you take nothing else from this thread, this comment from @NJLover is the most important thing you can do. Enjoy yourself.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Swytypy]

Also, consider some of my tips in this thread:

Thread 'Client “go bag”'

Oct 16, 2025

While talking with @king-sama4u2nv yesterday, I mentioned that I carry a backpack with me to my dates, stocked with some key supplies I might need before, during and/or after the date, and he felt this might be helpful to the community, so here’s a list of everything I carry with me, whether it’s a quick date or an all day thing:

• iPad - for entertainment on the ~1 hour commute both ways.
• AirPods - to privately listen to X-rated audio when watching Twitter clips music or an audiobook.
• Hobby phone - a separate phone for photos, videos, etc.
• A travel grooming kit -...

• Swytypy
• Replies: 6
• Forum: General Escort Discussions

• 

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[oc.businessman.33]

Just have fun. YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[SpicyPapi_056]

Ally Mercer • Tryst.link

Ally Mercer is a female Escort from Queens, New York, United States. ❤ "The Owner Of Your Fav Nyash – Important Notice As of January 15, 2025, I no longer accept calls or texts from TextFree numbers. Please reach out via email or text only. No call..."

tryst.link

Dawg I’m hype for you bro. She’s a stunna!!!!! Let’s gooooo!

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Joel Goodson]

My advice would be to bring a small gift.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[solarphile]

The guides posted here truly helped with my first provider experience earlier this year.

Read them, and do what they say.

Relax is a great piece of advice that you probably won't be able to follow. I sure could not.

Those that said, "she's seen it all so don't be nervous.", are 100% correct.

I'm a chronic over thinker. Try not to.
Breathe.
Be open.
Be honest about what you want.
Respect boundaries.
Let it happen.

Lastly, wash your ass. Between the cheeks. Purposefully and diligently.


Have fun!

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[KingL04]

Just enjoy the thrill. It’s okay to be nervous, that’s why we all love this, that thrill of seeing the girl come through the door or into the lobby. Not knowing if they will look like the pics or not lol.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Sexaddict]

Gentleman with 11 years of experience here.

I would take a sildenafil to make it memorable and a good experience, but if you haven't tried it before, start with 50 mg - 30 minutes before your session. Also, how long is your session?
Drink plenty of water before the session, regardless if you do take sildenafil or not, the water calms down the body.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[king-sama4u2nv]

Just have fun!!

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[BenDover69420]

Gentleman with 11 years of experience here.

I would take a sildenafil to make it memorable and a good experience, but if you haven't tried it before, start with 50 mg - 30 minutes before your session. Also, how long is your session?
Drink plenty of water before the session, regardless if you do take sildenafil or not, the water calms down the body.

I booked her for an hour

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.