Former SB/ATFs Birthday Coming Up, Seeking Advice

[Sexaddict]

Just got home from a 1.5-hour session — oh man, it was needed. Seriously, needed.

So here’s the deal: my former SB’s birthday is coming up this...

Just got home from a 1.5-hour session — oh man, it was needed. Seriously, needed.

So here’s the deal: my former SB’s birthday is coming up this month, and the date’s creeping closer. On one hand, I’m having second thoughts. On the other hand — and probably the stronger one — I’ve already kind of made up my mind.

Last month, I sent her two messages. The first one was pointless (even I wouldn’t have replied to it). The second was just me checking in, asking how she was — see screenshot. That one also went unanswered. Not a huge shocker, since we’ve had this pattern of breaking contact for weeks, even months, then reconnecting, then going silent again. You get the picture.

The thing is, I don’t want to come across as desperate — I hate that vibe. But at the same time… I just can’t get enough of that pussy. I swear, it’s the Gorilla Grip Max Boost 6000. And her head game? Yeah, not the worst either. When I say that, I’m not kidding.

So what’s your take, gentlemen — reach out for the birthday, or what?

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[djbadboy]

Get a bouquet delivered to her to kick start the conversation

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[Townbizz54]

Depends what you want out of the situation long term.
If you just wanna hit it avoid the birthday until after the fact then a couple weeks later reach out saying you know she just had a birthday and ask her how it was and when she complains how mediocre it was, you can then offer to take her out for a night no strings to have a belated birthday dinner or if she says how amazing it was you can say oh well and move on to the next.
If you wanna actually get back together long term even as just a roster member not a official sugerbabby situation, reach out ask her if she has plans and offer better plans

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[Townbizz54]

Person becuse I don’t want relationship with anyone. I would text her and ask her if she has plans for her birthday then navigate based on that response but basically say “I need a get away and we have good chemistry let’s go somewhere fun for a weekend and catch up cus you’re someone who will always be important to me regardless if we’re a couple or not and you deserve to have a nice birthday

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[Townbizz54]

Get a bouquet delivered to her to kick start the conversation

Don’t spend money on her yntil You know her mindset you’ve done that before no need to show her the size of your wallet at this Pinot she already knows. Don’t be a simp that’s what they want. In the sugar baby world All women will Let you spend money it’s on you to decide when she has eard that with her actions. Your relationship is not active and she ignored your last text, she saw it, spending money even on flowers isn’t going to get her attention, it’s gonna chage her mindset to see how much she can get out of the situation. Give them an inch they will all Take a mile

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[cmiles76]

She's a "former" for a reason. Let her birthday pass just like what it is, any other day...

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[NoLovewithGlove]

Move on man. She’ll come around when she needs a quick influx of cash.

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[Sexaddict]

Thank you all for the comments so far, I indeed know that she has a couples of other "admires"/repeat clients for years.

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[Slick991]

You can get another fish in the endless sea of pussy, don’t let 1 stop you from exploring others. If she was 10/10 she would WANT to see you. Been there and done that brother move on

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[Mateocast98]

You fucking her raw?

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[Sexaddict]

You fucking her raw?

Yep, every single time

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[Mateocast98]

Yep, every single time

I’ve been there bro. I had this petite 19yo chick I met her on Seeking. 2nd girl I ever met on the site she looked exactly like Official.anaisha on insta. First date I fucked her raw and creampied after dinner. I just asked if we could skip the condom and she pulled me in. I came 3 times in 45 minutes i was addicted. She was new and it was like 250$ for two hours, this was 2017 and she didn’t know any better. Fuck bro she would sometimes make me cum in 2 minutes, only chick who ever made me cum that fast. That pussy felt like it was made for me. Alas she eventually got a serious bf and stopped responding. I reach out from time to time and have caught them on breakups but damn bro I embarrassed myself in the chat, no shame. I would have like 8 messages on read and boom on the 9th she would respond and I’d be rushing to see her. Good pussy makes you do wild shit. Also that whole time she wasn’t on birth control, but I couldn’t help myself. She wasn’t but worried but I was simping so hard I told her I would take care of her. Must have given her 200+ crewmpies over the years. We’ve been there bro…

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[Sexaddict]

I’ve been there bro. I had this petite 19yo chick I met her on Seeking. 2nd girl I ever met on the site she looked exactly like Official.anaisha on insta. First date I fucked her raw and creampied after dinner. I just asked if we could skip the condom and she pulled me in. I came 3 times in 45 minutes i was addicted. She was new and it was like 250$ for two hours, this was 2017 and she didn’t know any better. Fuck bro she would sometimes make me cum in 2 minutes, only chick who ever made me cum that fast. That pussy felt like it was made for me. Alas she eventually got a serious bf and stopped responding. I reach out from time to time and have caught them on breakups but damn bro I embarrassed myself in the chat, no shame. I would have like 8 messages on read and boom on the 9th she would respond and I’d be rushing to see her. Good pussy makes you do wild shit. Also that whole time she wasn’t on birth control, but I couldn’t help myself. She wasn’t but worried but I was simping so hard I told her I would take care of her. Must have given her 200+ crewmpies over the years. We’ve been there bro…

Yes and that’s why I’m 50/50 on messaging her. Sometimes the pussy is so good that you just can’t help it.

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