I don’t understand what you are saying. I treat the girls great. I always pay the deposit, I respect their rules and preferences. I don’t even attempt anything in the session they don’t specifically consent to ahead of time. I pay for their car ride home. I tip them 20% or more if I met them through an agency. I’ve never once not gotten a girls direct contact information who I have met through an agency if I asked for it. I have never had a girl that I saw once and wanted to see again decline another meeting with me.
But I don’t tolerate being blatantly ripped off like that. I wouldn’t tolerate it anywhere else in my life out of principle. If she thinks she’s going to rip me off because she thinks she’s never going see me again then I’m going to give her quite the surprise. I want to make her feel uncomfortable as possible because she mistook me for stupid or spineless in a situation like that.
Ok I’m going to explain it the way an Air Force Colonel explained it to me, when I was upset about something and posted something that could be read back to me one day, that might be hard to explain. In this case, it was an Academia beef.
“You need to move like Al Capone Solitaire: No witnesses. No phones, no voicemails, no emails.” And in your case, no forum posts venting or elaborating on “what you might do one day.”
I have no doubt you are an upstanding gentleman and I hope I haven’t offended you. My curtness and brevity was not an attempt to be rude to you, it was an attempt to be very discreet. And it was expected you would understand what I was telling you without further elaboration.
Now we’re here. So now I’m elaborating for anyone else who might be reading and ever be encouraged to vent a little too much too.
Never, under any circumstances, state publicly anything that can be misconstrued or used against you in a court of law. Or the court of public opinion.
Never, under any circumstances, say anything in the clear (without end to end encryption), you don’t want read back to you one day. Especially if one day you decide to “color outside the lines” and go OFP (Own Fucking Program, a US Navy colloquialism). In fact, don’t even do it there. The Chinese cracked RSA with their new quantum computers, and collect to decrypt later is a thing. That whole part of the Cybersecurity landscape can be considered in flux in the coming years, for sure.
Personally I’m recalling “The Kings of Comedy” right now, particularly Cedric the Entertainer’s bit about “the Wish factor.”
I’d never acknowledge or state in any concrete terms what I would do to anyone under any circumstances, whether they cheated me out of a hash brown, $2k, $60k, or winning a game of UNO.
But I might wish aloud about certain things, tactfully, because a Corpsman who worked at NAF Atsugi Fleet and Family once told me if you put things out in the universe, they come true. And if anyone asked me, well…who said it’s illegal or even morally dubious to make a wish. Thought crimes only exist on the movie Minority Report.
If you understand, great. If not, well there’s nothing I’m willing to say, nor confirm, nor deny at this point.
Regardless, I’m sorry that happened to you. I’m not enamored with thieves either. And I hope you have a great rest of your week, and a Very Merry Christmas down the road. Take care and be well.
I work in finance and dabble in medicine, a work in progress still. 
guessin. Get them pennies (not in your case) just throwing more and more and more money away so believe me man I feel your pain because mines is chronic; a constant reminder of my mental illness...I'm Bipolar....I'm an egomaniac with an inferiority complex...think I'm better than but feel less than. A constant reminder of what unchecked lust can do to my finances. I need to apologize for my verbosity, once I get going I just want to let it all out man. Perfection is a moving target; often aimed for, but seldom hit. I don't strive for perfection, I seek progress. I just want to be a little better than I was yesterday, better person than I was yesterday be a little bit more understanding than I was yesterday that's all I strive for, to be a "DECENT" human being, leave perfection for the perfectionist.
