UnPopular Opinion: I Enjoy Seeing Providers That Aren't Same Race as Me

[king-sama4u2nv]

This is one of the things I usually refuse to talk about. If you’ve been around long enough, you know I avoid discussing three topics: race, politics, and...

This is one of the things I usually refuse to talk about. If you’ve been around long enough, you know I avoid discussing three topics: race, politics, and religion. I see them as divisive subjects that often lead to arguments. However, as I reflect on our previous discussions about race, I’ve noticed that our conversations have been respectful and mature. People have shared their opinions without disrespecting one another, so I figured I might as well see if we can maintain that same environment here while sharing a bit of truth from my end.

As the title suggests, I enjoy seeing providers who aren’t my race. It’s something I didn’t even realize was a preference until I got deeper into this hobby, though it likely goes back further than that.

As some of you know, I’m AA, and before I entered the hobby, I had only been with AA women. If they weren’t AA, they were Hispanic. Growing up in a predominantly Black area, it’s no surprise that the women I encountered in my civilian life were AA. Even my first provider was AA, but that was during the Backpage days, and if you know anything about that era, seeing an attractive white woman on the site often meant she was likely undercover LE or a scam.

My first experience with anAA provider was fun, but it didn’t feel unfamiliar. It was exhilarating, nerve-wracking, and stimulating all at once, yet I couldn’t shake the thought that I could’ve easily met a woman like her back in the projects.

After that, I decided to book my first white provider. The experience wasn’t drastically different from my first, other than that she was East Coast (EC). However, I found that I got more satisfaction from it than I did with my first African American provider. Over time, I continued to see different providers of various races, and in retrospect, I realized I derived more satisfaction from those who didn’t look like the women I’d grown up around.

This isn’t meant as a critique of any race, including my own. I’m beginning to understand that the societal lessons I grew up with are now influencing some of my decisions in the hobby. For example, my mother always advised me to stay away from white women as I got older. It wasn’t because she cared about race; I could’ve dated a white girl, an Asian girl, literally anyone, and she wouldn’t have minded. But she grew up in an era where interracial relationships were taboo, and she feared I’d be treated differently by my own race or risk getting hurt by the other.

Now, the very thing that was once considered taboo to me is something I find solace in. The satisfaction I get from seeing women of different races comes from a part of me that’s rooted in my childhood experiences. Whether or not there’s a specific term for this feeling, it’s a part of me that guides my decisions in the hobby—and, to some extent, my civilian life as well.

Maybe this is something I’d need therapy for, but I feel like I’m getting that same release through seeing all these different providers. I’m not sure if that’s healthy or not, but to be honest, I don’t give fuck.

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[Swytypy]

Great topic, and I hope this stays as respectful as it should. I’ll do my part.

I’m white and grew up around mostly white people, but I had a mutual crush on an AA girl in my 4th grade class, which our parents both encouraged as much as you’d encourage any relationship between 10-year-olds. It didn’t last but because of our ages, not because of her race. I almost dated an AA girl in college but we settled on being good friends for nearly 2 years instead. I then went on one date in my mid-20s with an AA woman I worked with, who I pursued, but I believe she only dated me to piss off her AA ex because she dated 3 other white guys in our office after me, one date each, then got back with her ex.

I’ve mostly been exposed to and attracted to white women in my life and in porn. With porn in particular, I always preferred POV and now VR, where there’s an illusion of the girl being with me and doing things to me. And there’s nothing more distracting from the immersion of those styles than seeing a black dick or legs or belly reminding me that it’s not me. Plus, BBCs tend to make me feel very inferior, even though I’m pretty happy overall with my length and girth But I feel the same about white guys with lots of tattoos or gigantic dicks in those styles, as that distracts me just as much, reminding me that it’s not me that she’s with. Naughty America uses guys with huge dicks more than most other studios and I stopped even trying to watch their videos because of that.

Of the providers I’ve seen, most have been white. Vanessa Moon is half AA and half Japanese but looks Hispanic. Layla Jenner is half Thai (and someone on here said half Mexican, but I didn’t hear that from her). Kylie Rocket is Puerto Rican but looks pretty Caucasian. I believe Aria Valencia (Porn Companions) is Iranian but also looks Caucasian. There may be other races/ethnicities/mixes with other women I’ve seen that I’m not aware of.

I haven’t strongly considered seeing an AA provider but it’s something I keep toying with and will probably do when the right opportunity arises. I haven’t really considered an Asian provider and don’t see that changing, because even though there are Asian women I’m attracted to in real life and some celebrities, there aren’t any Asian porn stars I’ve been into. Yet.

I’m very picky with my taste in white women, so my pickiness with AA and Asian women isn’t about their race. It’s not them, it’s me.

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[Tywin22]

Variety is the spice of life after all. It's good that people are more open to trying new things eg how normalised IR scenes in porn are now compared to the past where an actress would charge different rates or even do it as part of a showcase. I think society is moving towards more (sexual) integration as time passes so this post is understandable. Eventually it won't even be newsworthy when actresses/providers don't have different policies for different races. We're getting slowly but surely

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[xin567]

Throwing my hat in the proverbial opinion ring here as an Asian guy, I grew up in a predominantly white and Asian town, but my school crushes tended to lean white, and my thirst for white women grew when I discovered porn. Especially AMWF porn. Thanks to kpop, my dating pool widened more than ever. While I would like to eventually end up with an Asian partner, my dating experiences have been skewed more white.

But anyway, without getting too deep into it, I guess there's a reason why the majority of PS are white. I wouldn't say no to an AA/Asian provider, but I have yet to see one that I find personally attractive.

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[sunofgo]

The reality is that the majority of people tend to date within their own race. And it's usually harder for you to get a hot girl from a different race (unless you're a white man, because there are minority chicks that love white men).
So it's nice to see hot chicks from different ethnic backgrounds because you're probably not going to fuck them in the real world.

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[spacemanspiff81]

I love the variety of races and different body types.

I probably see White providers the most. But, if I’m in the mood for a thick provider with a juicy ass and big tits I go Latina or AA. Recently I came across a video on Adult time where a group of asian girls were taking care of a few men. So I started craving petite Asian girls so in Vegas recently I was able to setup a massage with all of the extras with 2 Asian girls and it was just like the fantasy I had been building up in my mind.

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[king-sama4u2nv]

Great topic, and I hope this stays as respectful as it should. I’ll do my part.

I’m white and grew up around mostly white people, but I had a mutual crush on an AA girl in my 4th grade class, which our parents both encouraged as much as you’d encourage any relationship between 10-year-olds. It didn’t last but because of our ages, not because of her race. I almost dated an AA girl in college but we settled on being good friends for nearly 2 years instead. I then went on one date in my mid-20s with an AA woman I worked with, who I pursued, but I believe she only dated me to piss off her AA ex because she dated 3 other white guys in our office after me, one date each, then got back with her ex.

I’ve mostly been exposed to and attracted to white women in my life and in porn. With porn in particular, I always preferred POV and now VR, where there’s an illusion of the girl being with me and doing things to me. And there’s nothing more distracting from the immersion of those styles than seeing a black dick or legs or belly reminding me that it’s not me. Plus, BBCs tend to make me feel very inferior, even though I’m pretty happy overall with my length and girth But I feel the same about white guys with lots of tattoos or gigantic dicks in those styles, as that distracts me just as much, reminding me that it’s not me that she’s with. Naughty America uses guys with huge dicks more than most other studios and I stopped even trying to watch their videos because of that.

Of the providers I’ve seen, most have been white. Vanessa Moon is half AA and half Japanese but looks Hispanic. Layla Jenner is half Thai (and someone on here said half Mexican, but I didn’t hear that from her). Kylie Rocket is Puerto Rican but looks pretty Caucasian. I believe Aria Valencia (Porn Companions) is Iranian but also looks Caucasian. There may be other races/ethnicities/mixes with other women I’ve seen that I’m not aware of.

I haven’t strongly considered seeing an AA provider but it’s something I keep toying with and will probably do when the right opportunity arises. I haven’t really considered an Asian provider and don’t see that changing, because even though there are Asian women I’m attracted to in real life and some celebrities, there aren’t any Asian porn stars I’ve been into. Yet.

I’m very picky with my taste in white women, so my pickiness with AA and Asian women isn’t about their race. It’s not them, it’s me.

Aye!!! My favorite genre was POV as well. Loved it more then the rest since it let me feel like I was actually with the woman.

If you're picky with white womne, then you'll for sure be picky with some AA. There's one in New York that goes by Simone I believe. She doesn't have the best reputation at least that was before she rebranded herself, but She gorgeous, level headed, and might be the first AA provider you need to pop that cherry. Lol

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[king-sama4u2nv]

But anyway, without getting too deep into it, I guess there's a reason why the majority of PS are white. I wouldn't say no to an AA/Asian provider, but I have yet to see one that I find personally attractive.

I always wondered why that is. The hobby having predominately white providers more then any other race. Tried looking it up but could never find out why. It does make seeing providers outside your race a little more easier if you aren't white, however, it makes it difficult for others.

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[Swytypy]

Aye!!! My favorite genre was POV as well. Loved it more then the rest since it let me feel like I was actually with the woman.

If you're picky with white womne, then you'll for sure be picky with some AA. There's one in New York that goes by Simone I believe. She doesn't have the best reputation at least that was before she rebranded herself, but She gorgeous, level headed, and might be the first AA provider you need to pop that cherry. Lol

Rest assured, if (when?) I decide to “go black”, I’ll be asking around on here for advice and guidance from you and any other of my friends who have experience and expertise. I know I won’t be steered the wrong way

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[sezz66]

I don't really care about race or color in providers or real life. I've seen more white providers just because there are more of them and it tends to be easier to get the review info I need for them.

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[king-sama4u2nv]

Rest assured, if (when?) I decide to “go black”, I’ll be asking around on here for advice and guidance from you and any other of my friends who have experience and expertise. I know I won’t be steered the wrong way

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[king-sama4u2nv]

I don't really care about race or color in providers or real life. I've seen more white providers just because there are more of them and it tends to be easier to get the review info I need for them.

Race doesn't matter at all. For some, like myself, it's just seeing what's out there outside of your usual race. You can't know what you enjoy unless you have a variety. With the hobby being more white providers then anything it tends to be a little difficult.

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[Sexaddict]

Well, i’m white and I ABSOLUTELY, LOVE Latinas!
My former SB was/is from South America.
You CAN’T beat the sexy accent they have

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[Solitaire]

I seem to have a preference for the white girls (Paraguayan/Egyptian myself). However I really only have a few criteria when I look up any provider.

1. Is she hot?
2. Can she fuck?
2a. Is she so good at fucking that I can overlook point 1 partially or in full?
2b. Is she hypersexual?
3. When I think about her, does it excite my mind?
4. Is she more trouble than she’s worth?

That’s it. 3 and 4 are instant deal breakers, especially 4. The rest is subjective.

That said I need to go see Nadia Jay and Sarai Minx, among many many others, at some point. Victoria June too.

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[ludu]

I am Asian, and I almost never session or date women of my ethnicity. First reason, not too many escorts of my ethnicity. Second reason, I have a belief I will somehow find that I am related to such a person that I find myself attracted to.

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[king-sama4u2nv]

I am Asian, and I almost never session or date women of my ethnicity. First reason, not too many escorts of my ethnicity. Second reason, I have a belief I will somehow find that I am related to such a person that I find myself attracted to.

Is that a thing? I mean, could that happen? I would suspect the world is a lot bigger then that but I'm not really part of that culture to know any better.

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[xin567]

Is that a thing? I mean, could that happen? I would suspect the world is a lot bigger then that but I'm not really part of that culture to know any better.

I can see where he's coming from. There's a history lesson in there, depending on the country, but I'm not gonna get into that. As a Korean, the top three most common last names are Kim, Lee, and Park with Kim leading by 10.7 million people (at around 2015). But honestly, the origins of these "bloodlines", so to speak, are so distant and muddled from each other that it's actually ok today.

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[king-sama4u2nv]

I can see where he's coming from. There's a history lesson in there, depending on the country, but I'm not gonna get into that. As a Korean, the top three most common last names are Kim, Lee, and Park with Kim leading by 10.7 million people (at around 2015). But honestly, the origins of these "bloodlines", so to speak, are so distant and muddled from each other that it's actually ok today.

Oh Shit! So it's possible with the say last name you could be distant relatives?

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[ludu]

Is that a thing? I mean, could that happen? I would suspect the world is a lot bigger then that but I'm not really part of that culture to know any better.

I have a family tree where both sets of grandparents had lots of kids. Various siblings and cousins of theirs also had lots of kids. I have nieces pretty close to my age from cousins who are much older than I am. And yes, a few of them are pretty hot. With how commonplace out of wedlock births are in the culture, there's good safety reasons for how opening small talk involves finding out where each other's parents are from. Sometimes, you gotta dig deeper before hooking up. Typically, I just avoid that scenario altogether.

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[xin567]

Oh Shit! So it's possible with the say last name you could be distant relatives?

Maybe? Most Koreans actually didn't have last names back then in ancient times; only royalty and aristocrats had them (alongside concubines I would imagine). The first king was a Kim. Some adopted them for social and economic status, then the Japanese colonizers forced everybody to have last names (which is a whole other dark story), with a lot of them picking Kim/Lee/Park (which is partially why there are a lot of Kims).

But just because a Mr. Kim and a Ms. Kim get married doesn't mean they came from the same lineage. They could be Kims from completely different clans or geographical locations. If they check back to their family tree (whole-ass family tree books dating back to said ancient times apparently do exist), and they find they don't share the same "branch", they're good to go. But again, the origins of Korea's clans are remote enough that people whose ancestral roots are in different villages are considered eligible to marry each other today. But I also agree with ludu, it's worth finding out where both of you came from.

That being said, bonus history fact: there was a law until 1997 that forbade marriage between people with the same last names and ancestral paternal origin. Now it's just against closely related people.

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