False advertising or being too selective ?

[shion]

Fellas, if you read numerous reviews of a PS performing bbbjs but when you meet, EVERYTHING is covered...without an explanation, do you get a sense of "...

Fellas, if you read numerous reviews of a PS performing bbbjs but when you meet, EVERYTHING is covered...without an explanation, do you get a sense of " false advertising " ?
I am understand everyone has restrictions but at least verbalize them PRIOR to meeting.....especially your restrictions are totally in contrast to your reviews. I take pride in my hygiene and appearance as if I 'm going on a date but was thrown for a loop recently.

Then maybe the restrictions were in place to prevent a spread of std/sti ....I can understand that as well.

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[cmiles76]

This is the very definition of YMMV (You mileage may vary). While reviews can be a good way to get an idea of what to expect from a provider, they are not always 100% guaranteed to be what you'll experience with that same provider. There's a ton of reasons why a provider might not offer what you've heard from others that she offers during a session. Unfortunately unless she tells you directly, your guess is as good as anyone's as to why she didn't perform the same for you as she did for others.

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[oc.businessman.33]

This is why screening is important. I know many frown upon it, but if you are open to the PS screen process she will be open to negotiating everything that will happen prior so there is no confusion. I screen, deposit, and negotiate what experience I want and have never been disappointed.

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[Deleted member 1505]

This is the very definition of YMMV (You mileage may vary). While reviews can be a good way to get an idea of what to expect from a provider, they are not always 100% guaranteed to be what you'll experience with that same provider. There's a ton of reasons why a provider might not offer what you've heard from others that she offers during a session. Unfortunately unless she tells you directly, your guess is as good as anyone's as to why she didn't perform the same for you as she did for others.

Or if those other reviewers were “cappin,” as they say

@shion who was the PS?

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[smooth702]

Fellas, if you read numerous reviews of a PS performing bbbjs but when you meet, EVERYTHING is covered...without an explanation, do you get a sense of " false advertising " ?
I am understand everyone has restrictions but at least verbalize them PRIOR to meeting.....especially your restrictions are totally in contrast to your reviews. I take pride in my hygiene and appearance as if I 'm going on a date but was thrown for a loop recently.

Then maybe the restrictions were in place to prevent a spread of std/sti ....I can understand that as well.

Always make the lady aware that you read her reviews, and that you want to be absolutely sure that your experience is just like her reviews laid out. Never enter a session without being 100% sure you are getting what you want. That situation has never happened to me. I did have a lady advertise as a Gfe, only to demand a condom for oral. I paid her her travel fee and sent her on her way. Did you ask the lady why she required a condom for oral when her reviews stated otherwise? Aint no need to be hesitant when it's YOUR money.

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[shion]

This is why screening is important. I know many frown upon it, but if you are open to the PS screen process she will be open to negotiating everything that will happen prior so there is no confusion. I screen, deposit, and negotiate what experience I want and have never been disappointed.

How

Always make the lady aware that you read her reviews, and that you want to be absolutely sure that your experience is just like her reviews laid out. Never enter a session without being 100% sure you are getting what you want. That situation has never happened to me. I did have a lady advertise as a Gfe, only to demand a condom for oral. I paid her her travel fee and sent her on her way. Did you ask the lady why she required a condom for oral when her reviews stated otherwise? Aint no need to be hesitant when it's YOUR money.

No testing she said.

She did do LFK and " baby kissing " as she put it sucking on my lips but no DFK.

When she suggest we head to the bedroom and undress, I asked if she if she had any rules, she said said no anal or cumming on her face or fingers in her pussy which was fine but as we got in the bed, she reaches for the condom

Had no problem with her pussy being eaten

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[smooth702]

Then that's on you. Never ASSUME anything. Before you officially booked that appointment you should have inquired about her rules DESPITE what the reviews said. I would have said, " Hey, i wanted to make sure i can experoence what your previous reviewers said. Bbbj." Were you flat out AFRAID to ask her why you were getting cbj when all her reviews said bbbj? I'm scheduling with someone now. She is ok with bare sex with testing. But i prefer cip as well. So despite the fact thst she does creampie on film, i can't just assume she'll do the same with me. I have to ask her straight up if i can cip BEFORE i book.

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[Swytypy]

Then that's on you. Never ASSUME anything. Before you officially booked that appointment you should have inquired about her rules DESPITE what the reviews said. I would have said, " Hey, i wanted to make sure i can experoence what your previous reviewers said. Bbbj." Were you flat out AFRAID to ask her why you were getting cbj when all her reviews said bbbj? I'm scheduling with someone now. She is ok with bare sex with testing. But i prefer cip as well. So despite the fact thst she does creampie on film, i can't just assume she'll do the same with me. I have to ask her straight up if i can cip BEFORE i book.

I’ve seen a bunch of porn stars who do creampies on film but either don’t do it with clients or charge extra for it. Thinking of asking bookers beforehand, although there’s only one booker who I think would know the truth and answer me.

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[shion]

Then that's on you. Never ASSUME anything. Before you officially booked that appointment you should have inquired about her rules DESPITE what the reviews said. I would have said, " Hey, i wanted to make sure i can experoence what your previous reviewers said. Bbbj." Were you flat out AFRAID to ask her why you were getting cbj when all her reviews said bbbj? I'm scheduling with someone now. She is ok with bare sex with testing. But i prefer cip as well. So despite the fact thst she does creampie on film, i can't just assume she'll do the same with me. I have to ask her straight up if i can cip BEFORE i book.

How would you even approach the sex like that?

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[smooth702]

How would you even approach the sex like that?

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[smooth702]

During the negotiating/booking process i would let the girl (or the agency) know that i get tested through Talent Testing service. To make her feel more comfortable get tested twice beforehand. 2 weeks before and then again 3 days prior to meeting. That more than meets the industry standard. Tell her you do that to prove you are safe and because you want bare service. If she still isn't comfortable with bbfs, then make sure she is at LEAST ok with bbbj. Bottom line is don't go into the session with blond expectations.

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