There's a difference to what women prefer from their romantic partner, vs what they prefer from their escort customers. And even then, there's a difference between what pornstar or high end escorts prefers, vs. cheaper agency girls making money off volume, crank out as many $350 guys a day as possible.
I'm not a girl nor do I have dozens of women around me all the time that I can get honest answers from, but from the times I've gotten feedback before, a big dick that is girthy is great when it's their lover or the one customer they're fucking that week because they charge $2000 an hour so they're low volume. And, they want the guy to last a bit so it's more fun for them too. There's no problems with being sore or actually getting hurt from sex.
But for girls going on volume, they want to do as little work as possible because some of these agency girls that I know of are taking 10+ guys a day. So they want tiny peepees so they have no problems, they don't care about their own enjoyment because after the first 3, there's no way they're gonna enjoy it no matter how good the dick is. And they want guys to nut as fast as possible because again, less work. Many agencies do offer MSOG, but still, fucking for 5 minutes, then resting for 15-20 while he gets it up again is better than fucking for 30 min straight.
EDIT: Also the fact that Shannon Sharpe has to get escorts is wild to me. Guy is good looking, and I assume has decent money. Surely in that position you can get plenty of hot friends with benefits.
