Guide for first time hobbyists

[inspectahjamescahtah]

Can I also suggest Listerine strips? A clean and Fresh mouth helps with that confident kiss....Maiden Voyage SAILED! You're advice was Gold! Review(s) on their way!

I also second this. As you get going your mouth will get dry too, so have some water in handy. Not to mention hydration will make your load quantity increase and also look healthier instead of looking like curdled cheese lmao

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[St_John_Of_Vegas]

Definitely! I’ve never heard of these strips before, but your advice is greatly appreciated. It’s true that a fresh and clean mouth is key—not only for us as clients, but also for the girl. Hygiene comes above everything.

I forget you're not Stateside, here's the Amazon Listing, basically it's a green semi-transparent, strip about the size of a stamp that dissolves on your tongue and leaves it feeling like you just brushed, perfect for when you get that she's 5 minutes out text (All of mine have been outcalls so far)

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[slatt414]

Apologies if there’s a better thread for this question, feel free to redirect me if so;

While I wouldn’t call myself a veteran hobbyist, I’ve been around enough times to also not consider myself a beginner either. One thing I have yet to experience, however, is booking UTR providers, particularly ones who don’t have booking websites or operate through well known agencies (think IG models and others of the sort). What’s the booking process look like in these situations? What if they don’t have a linktree with an email or email linked on their Instagram page? I have no issues sending a DM, but surely their DMs must be flooded right?

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[Creampie89]

I was gonna make a separate post about this but, I figured this was as good of a place as any to ask. I’m fairly new to the hobby. Should I be wary of these lower priced ($400-600) that are offering bare off the back? I’ve inquired about tests and some respond and others don’t. Thanks for the help!

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[Sexaddict]

Apologies if there’s a better thread for this question, feel free to redirect me if so;

While I wouldn’t call myself a veteran hobbyist, I’ve been around enough times to also not consider myself a beginner either. One thing I have yet to experience, however, is booking UTR providers, particularly ones who don’t have booking websites or operate through well known agencies (think IG models and others of the sort). What’s the booking process look like in these situations? What if they don’t have a linktree with an email or email linked on their Instagram page? I have no issues sending a DM, but surely their DMs must be flooded right?

Dms are flooded. There are two options as I see it.

1) Send an email - or multiple emails to the girls email address, with a very attention grabbing title.

2) Get in touch with someone that knows the girl and get direct access that way.

I was gonna make a separate post about this but, I figured this was as good of a place as any to ask. I’m fairly new to the hobby. Should I be wary of these lower priced ($400-600) that are offering bare off the back? I’ve inquired about tests and some respond and others don’t. Thanks for the help!

Well, all I can tell you is that I´ve fucked several lower prices providers raw (around $200-250) and never once have I gotten anything.

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[ceref]

i used 50 mg sildenafil citrate on my first time hobbying. Had a monster session clearly was outpacing the girl and felt insane stamina but ended up having trouble ejaculating. Any recommendations for next time?

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[Sexaddict]

i used 50 mg sildenafil citrate on my first time hobbying. Had a monster session clearly was outpacing the girl and felt insane stamina but ended up having trouble ejaculating. Any recommendations for next time?

I´ve never had that problem with Sildenafil BUT I have heard about it. I´d say, try Cialis 10mg instead. It doesn't have the same punchy effect as Sildenafil but it still gets the job done.
It´s more like a gradual buildup.

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[mirra6379]

I feel like this may have been answered in the past, but is there any 'best time' as to when to book a PS on tour (i.e. towards the beginning vs the end). I'm sure there are pros and cons, but would like to at least ensure a good session where she's engaged, perhaps willing to do extras?

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

I’d like to mention that cologne can be an issue with certain girls (allergies, strength of application)

So on a first date, maybe be scent free, also that scent will wash away after the shower before your session. Lol

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[St_John_Of_Vegas]

I’d like to mention that cologne can be an issue with certain girls (allergies, strength of application)

So on a first date, maybe be scent free, also that scent will wash away after the shower before your session. Lol

I Wouldn't go around calling Cologne sensitivity an "Allergy" Sure it can activate histamine receptors in your MAST cells/Basophil cells, but it will not produce IGe antibodies--in other words it might cause runny nose, itchy eyes, but it will not produce hives, severe wheezing, and or your throat to shut/ tongue to swell (AKA Anaphylaxes). Therefore no one carries around an Epinephrine pen for Cool Water Cologne......If your seasonal allergies are already bothering you, anything heightening your olfactory sensors (smell receptors), are going to react with even more sensitivity, the relief of which is usually to open a window, turn on a fan, go outside; generally any behavior reserved for when you cut into an onion....But wear cologne for her, smell works on memory, you tap into happy/ horny/ vulnerable memory of hers, and she will fuck like she just mastered the force, plus you don't get a second chance to make a first impression---Err, do what you want

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[Brielle]

Honestly, this post is pretty on point.

From a provider’s side, I can say we definitely notice when a guy puts in that little bit of effort — showered, smelling good, trimmed, calm energy. It makes the whole experience smoother and way more fun for both of us. You don’t have to show up like you know exactly what you’re doing; just be respectful, relaxed, and present.

The biggest mistake I see first-timers make is trying to plan it all out in their head or drinking too much to calm the nerves. Trust me, we’d rather you come in a little shy and sober than sloppy or overconfident. The nervousness fades fast once you realize we’re just two people trying to enjoy the moment.

Confidence and good hygiene go way further than you think. Be yourself, breathe, and let the chemistry do the rest.

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[DarkWolfX22]

First time seeing a chick? Should you go with half hour?

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[6lover9]

Depends. If all you want is to nut that would work. If you're thinking you may want to see her on-going no

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[ghost0]

First time seeing a chick? Should you go with half hour?

90min - 2hrs is the sweet spot IMO, if you can manage it.

Allows you enough time to relax and take your time.

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[shion]

.5 Take Control

Please beware that not all Providers are into " Deep Kisses" or DFK ( as I assume is deep kissing)
Personally, CBJ and No DFK arendes-breakers but some Providers see kissing as more intimate than sex so always inquire beforehand

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[Sexaddict]

.5 Take Control

Please beware that not all Providers are into " Deep Kisses" or DFK ( as I assume is deep kissing)
Personally, CBJ and No DFK arendes-breakers but some Providers see kissing as more intimate than sex so always inquire beforehand

Very true!
What I can´t have is the providers which states "DFK" in their ad but then doesn't do it.

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[Sexaddict]

First time seeing a chick? Should you go with half hour?

2 hours, go for the full 2 hours. That´s a good duration to book - actually more like the perfect duration to book.

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[shion]

2 hours, go for the full 2 hours. That´s a good duration to book - actually more like the perfect duration to book.

I disagree.

Go with 1 hour if she is a newbie.

As someone suggested: if you like the service....you can always extend or book longer the next time.

Booking 2 hours with new Provider can leave you feeling cheated if the service is mechanical, rushed or her dishing out early with 30 minutes left on the clock.

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[gofer345]

This is an ettiquete question: If you greet her in the lobby, do you escort her back downstairs afterwards?

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[6lover9]

I always offer to walk them to uber or car whether or not I meet them downstairs.

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